Vexian

de/dem/deres/selv they/them • queer agender

[the-club]

[thestarseersystem]

Hypersexuality in Systems

I wanted to spread some positivity for systems who are hypersexual! I never see positivity for this or anyone talking about this but it deserves to be talked about!!!

It's okay if you're not all hypersexual and some of you sex repulsed

It's okay if you have young hypersexual alters, you deserve to be treated with respect and not shamed.

It's okay if it's hard to have a sexual relationship, you'll heal together.

It's okay if you have a hard time talking to people about it, take your time

It's okay that you feel those feelings, it's okay

You all deserve to be loved and validated. You deserve happiness.

Please reblog and add more if you would like!!!

[sweetschizo-deactivated20190808]

Hey if you’re schizophrenic/psychotic I just want you to know that you’re a wonderful person and that you deserve so much better than the demonization, marginalization and stigmatization you face in this society.

[sweetschizo-deactivated20190808]

Please consider reblogging this/other positivity posts for schizophrenic/psychotic people every once in a while. If you have more than 100 followers, odds are that a couple of them experiences psychosis and that they rarely see positivity posts for people with their symptoms.

[vexian-is-us]

Syssexual is a sexuality in which the identity changes depending on who's fronting.

[fullofbugs84uy894ujui9]

reminder that this blog, while not politically focused, supports BLM. bootlickers and racists aren’t welcome here, and never will be.

[enby-life]

“Racists, lgbtqphobes, and exclusionists can get fucked” Another post brought to you by the “let people live their goddamn lives” gang

[bowlingseaslug]

(Image Description:

A series of pride flags with messages on them.

Pansexual flag: being pan isn’t biohobic

Bisexual flag: Bi attraction includes trans people

Polyamorous Flag: polyamory isn’t immoral

Lesbian flag: trans and nonbinary lesbians are incredible

Asexual flag: Asexuality isn’t “basically straight”

Aromatic flag: Aromantics aren’t sex obsessed and cold

LGBTQ+ rainbow flag: racists will never be allowed in the queer community

Trans flag: straight trans men aren’t lesbians and straight trans women aren’t gay men

Nonbinary flag: nonbinary identities and neopronouns are real and valid

End ID.)

[pupyzu]

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❊ T4T FLAG!

t4t: to be a trans person who exclusively dates other trans people! ⊹ ⁺

flag by me! made this bc the most popular flag is by someone who i disagree with morally so i didn’t want to use theirs anymore :3

[[ IMAGE ID: 2 flags with 7 stripes, with these colors from top to bottom: hot pink, purple, blue, lavender, blue, purple, hot pink. the flag on the left has the trans-loving-trans symbol in white in the center, with the circles replaced with hearts. ID OVER ]]

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[[ DNI ID: do not interact: anti-mogai, anti xenogenders, anti neopronouns, terfs/swerfs, truscum/transmed, anti kin, nsfw blog, pro ddlg/ageplay, anti blm, flop accounts, proshipper/antianti. ID OVER ]]

[extranth]

“They/them are plural pronouns!!! What, are you multiple people?”

yes

[enchanted-system]

you’ve seen “what gender am I,” but are you ready for “what facet am I”

[hoofpeet]

Good morning to bitches who cant remember half their life

[nblesbianasks]

You don't have to come out to your parents for your gender or sexuality to be real. You don't have to come out to anyone. Come out to people when it is right for you, when it is safe for, if you can.

But in the meantime, you are real. You are loved. And one day, you will be out. And it will be okay.

[vexian-is-us]

Made a flag for aplaroace agender (AAAA) people:

[lovelylou]

positive reminders

[enby-life]

The point of supporting POC isn’t to piss off racists, it’s to support POC

The point of supporting Jewish communities isn’t to piss off antisemites, it’s to support Jewish communities

The point of supporting Muslim communities isn’t to piss off islamaphobes, it’s to support Muslim communities

The point of supporting mentally ill people isn’t to piss off ableists, it’s to support mentally ill people

The point of supporting disabled communities isn’t to piss off ableists, it’s to support disabled communities

The point of supporting trans women isn’t to piss off TERFs, it’s to support trans women

The point of supporting the LGBTQ community isn’t to piss off queerphobes, it’s to support the LGBTQ community

(Anyone who fucks around on this post needs to pick a god and pray)

[arguablysomaya]

this is why blm will always come before acab

[gothfemmez]

she/her gay sophie and it/its gay howl!!

[eroticlizardfiction]

Breaking the cycle of abuse doesn't always mean "having kids but not abusing them" it can also mean realizing that you aren't and may never be mentally fit to be a parent and making the choice to never have kids because of that. These are both equally valid ways to break the cycle

[schizocassandraoftroy]

No doctor will ever get my respect like the woman in the ER who checked me for claws and fangs because I told her I was turning into a werewolf and could feel it and let me know gently that she couldn't find any but that didnt make it feel any less real, like THATS how you do it, other doctors who just flat out told me I was wrong take notes

[schizoalienboy]

This is how you treat us!

[anais-ninja-bitch]

i am reblogging this as someone who does not have delusions and often makes shitposts about werewolves, and i just want all my followers to know this is not a joke!

i am so glad you had this positive experience, and i hope this sort of kindness catches on with doctors and the general public.

[rosslynpaladin]

Look when someone is in a confused or compromised state, no matter why,

and they are your medical charge,

it is vital to continue to treat them with dignity. Like that. Reassure them with visible practicalities that you acknowledge their fears, will not belittle them, and can show them facts to help them cope.

THAT is the proper compassion of a Healer.

[yellow-lemon-lime]

Can I just add that, if you like me have delusions where everything bad that happens is your fault, the doctor shouldn't be like "Yeah, you're probably right" but try to reason with you in a respective way. OP's doctor did it right, but some of the notes make it look like people think delusions must be agreed to always, when doing so can be detrimental to the person's wellbeing

[schizophrenicfordpinesmoved]

This is my favorite addition to this post because it’s true. When dealing with delusions you need to avoid the extremes - DO NOT tell the person flat out “you’re wrong”, “thats not real” or worst of all “you’re crazy.” BUT DON’T ENCOURAGE THE DELUSION EITHER! Let’s take my werewolf delusion, for example. Doctors who have flat out told me “that isn’t real” haven’t helped because for me it is real and no amount of you saying it isn’t will change my perception. It makes us feel alienated.

But someone saying “You ARE transforming into a werewolf but i have a poition thatll stop it! :D” is just as dangerous because you’re furthering a delusion which could get someone hurt. its also manipulative. we’re psychotic, not children.

So what DO you do? Acknowledge that the situation is frightening. If possible, give them the objective facts (ie, i don’t see any monsters; your mom hasn’t said anything to make it seem like she’s going to kill you) while also acknowledging that for them, it is real. Most of all, ask what you can do to keep them comfortable and safe.

Sorry for the long addition but when I made this post it didn’t occur to me apsychotic people would look at it for advice on how to handle an actively delusional person. I’m glad it’s resonating with people, though

[angiethewitch]

I remember when I told a doctor someone had replaced all the veins and arteries in my body with wires and I was no longer a person. she very gently checked me over for any wounds where they could have made the incisions to put the wires in, and took photos of the places on my phone to prove it. all the places I felt were the entry points were out of my sight, behind my ears and in my back and stuff. then she offered to get me an xray if they could fit me in, but it might take a while. I declined because I didnt want to take up space for people who need it, and honestly at this point I trusted her enough to tell me if I had wires. she brought my husband in and showed him how to check me over for wounds and wires, then she asked me if I had any questions. I went back into the waiting room, feeling like I wasn't stupid and I felt much safer.

she came into the waiting room later to check if I was okay, and I felt safe, cared for, trusted and believed. she told my husband she put a psychiatrist on standby in case I got freaked out again, and told me she understands how I feel, and that she can't see anything but she gets how scary it is for me and she's on shift for a few hours and to ask for her by name if I need reassuring again.

I felt safe. I felt believed. that's how you do it.

[sunnybugz]

I frequently struggle with worries that my memories are made up- either that they were forced onto me by someone else, or that I made them up myself.

I was panicking about this to my girlfriend, and she said the most helpful thing, that I felt should have been obvious to me, but I needed to hear it from someone else.

"Even if they are made up, the feelings that they're giving you are real."

Even if someone's delusions, paranoia, or general worries seem completely nonsensical to you, the feelings that they're having right now are very real, and they deserve to be treated with respect.