I don't think that someone using she/her on Ralsei is anywhere as bad as people using he/him on Kris. She/her Ralsei stems from an interpretation based on evidence given in the text, typically done by trans people seeing their experiences in the character. He/him Kris is the player's own unconscious biases seeping into how they view gender and them forcing Kris into a binary and further stripping them of their identity. One is giving respect and credence to a character's storyline. The other, intentionally or otherwise, is feeding into transphobic beliefs and goes against the character's storyline even further. This subtle nuance would kill most people
Idk though fellas maybe let's hear out the cishet male redditor who regularly uses the term "femboy" on how using she/her pronouns on Ralsei is "transvestigating but wokely" maybe he's got a good point. Maybe the guy who talks all about how getting angry over Kris's pronouns is useless and dumb and not that important has something really really interesting to say about how using she/her pronouns on Ralsei, a character that you can very easily read as being transfem, is actually blatant transphobia and also gender stereotypes and also why can't men just be feminine why do you gotta make everything trans




















