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Wake up, sunshine!

call me Hal or Sunshine. i'm 20 and use he/it/she pronouns. i also have DID.

mostly going to interact from individual alters' sideblogs. just letting you know that i'm not a bot. however this main blog is very much one that all my alters are welcome to use freely so it might be an eclectic mix of random shit. idk. we'll see.

mintbees

if i was a popular minecraft youtuber id just tweet "hey guys stop drawing shipping fanart of me and my friends/coworkers, i only fucked one of them and seeing me paired with anyone else is kinda weird and crosses my boundaries" and then i'd turn my phone off

aro-throughyourchest

#my source should do this.#whatever him and wilbur have going on is more intimate than sex

charleezard

Happy Pride month!! 💜 I'll never forget how horribly the queer community has been treating queer Jews 💜

valtsv

i'm like a fujoshi but for dead people

valtsv

if you could see the thread i'm hanging on by you would not say these things to me

misguidedandperplexed

hey. don't cry. challah covers to cover the challah so it doesn't get embarrassed when we make a bracha on the wine first. okay?

an-ruraiocht

there's a lot of talk about reading comprehension and one thing i think is the biggest barrier to people on this site getting better at it is simply... rushing. rushing to share something you haven't understood, rushing to have an opinion without taking the time to think about it, rushing to declare that you don't understand something

take these tags, on somebody else's post (condolences pip)

the thing is. this is what i would call an inside thought. nobody would have known you didn't get it if you didn't tell them that. if you recognised that it was important but didn't have the headspace to process it, you can reblog without commentary for others, or to come back to later. or you can save it somewhere and wait until you DO have the capacity to read it over a few more times, ponder it, consider what it might mean, figure out how to understand it, and THEN reblog it

but no. rushing to reblog while it is still opaque. rushing to admit to ignorance rather than spend the time to achieve understanding. perhaps hoping that somebody will break it down for you more simply, though to my mind it was quite simply phrased in the first place. never stopping to take the time first

comprehension is not always instant! sometimes it takes a bit of time for something to percolate after you read it; sometimes you need to read it a few times; sometimes you realise you don't have the context for it and either go and get the context or accept that it's not for you right now

please just simply slow down. you don't always have to respond to everything within a second or two. it is okay if it is not an instantaneous understanding. we all need to get more comfortable with thinking more slowly and more deeply and more carefully, and not letting our instant split second responses drive us all the time, because they are a barrier to genuine reflection

ceruleanheaven

[looking at people younger than me] you have your whole life ahead of you [looking at people older than me] you have your whole life ahead of you [looking at myself] its over

librastrai

completing training for work & this module is on children's rights, including the one to practice religion with guidance of their parents &. why are we just a dreidel & not the star of david fjksdjf

once-a-polecat

Local restaurant having trouble with whores apparently.

gaypornvideoswebsite

mid-way pride month check-in

gaypornvideoswebsite

just saw someone comment under a videoclip of the sylvia rivera interview where she insists on the modern (circa 2001) pride movement being a capitalist smokescreen, a “straight gay” movement that worships the almighty dollar, that:

and this person is likely quite young but this really really really captures the limited imagination of capitalist neoliberal indoctrination around freedom and liberation. radical queerness treated as a paintjob over a prison as opposed to the bulldozer that tears the prison down. we have to dream for so much more and endure the pain of dreaming.

allthingswhumpyandangsty

wiisagi-maiingan

hi trans indigenous people I love you

wiisagi-maiingan

hi indigenous people who don't identify with the label trans because you exist outside of the Western gender binary I love you

thequeenoftheentiregoddamnworld

Hey, hey, look me in the eyes when I tell you this okay? The whole "do trans women or trans men have it worse?" debate going on right now is the most obvious CIA bullshit on earth cause honestly we've both got it pretty shitty and fighting each other isn't helping anyone

ghostisredacted

just saw someone say "a fandom is small, so like only 1-3 fics posted per day" . you wouldnt survive a day in the place where im from

#good lord

sycamorality

op disabled reblogs but i really wanted this post on my blog again

#the font on this reallly speaks volumes.

sawed-on-shotgun

being a teenager is basically just half a decade of "ugh I hate myself I hate my life I hate my parents nothing is fair everyone is mean the world is cruel I'm tired of it!! but idk i guess every teenager has this phase and I'll probably grow out of it and understand when I'm older" and getting older and realizing you should have been even angrier and more violent. And then people forget this as soon as they have kids