hey bud, would you mind pinning me to something and letting me struggle against your weight for a while? it’s good for my mental health
★
The Bowery Presents

PR's Tumblrdome
Lint Roller? I Barely Know Her
Sade Olutola
ojovivo
The Stonewall Inn
No title available
cherry valley forever
official daine visual archive
Monterey Bay Aquarium
🪼

roma★

@theartofmadeline
No title available
Claire Keane
EXPECTATIONS
The Bright Sessions

No title available

Product Placement

seen from South Korea

seen from Australia
seen from United States

seen from Malaysia
seen from Chile

seen from Italy
seen from Mexico
seen from United States

seen from Laos
seen from United Kingdom
seen from Chile

seen from Türkiye
seen from Venezuela

seen from Pakistan

seen from South Korea
seen from Ukraine
seen from Ecuador
seen from United States
seen from Taiwan
seen from Malaysia
@wittle-lady
hey bud, would you mind pinning me to something and letting me struggle against your weight for a while? it’s good for my mental health
Ask me super embarrassing questions about all sorts of dirty things and then hold my chin in your hand and force me to look you in the eye when I answer.
thinking abt small little gestures of dominance to break ur sub's concentration when they're being a brat,,,, like ik we talk about fucking bratty subs into the mattress and that's all well and good but have u considered. putting ur arms on ur sub's shoulders like a 19th century dance and leaning in real close and brushing ur lips against theirs,, leaning forward and just biting their ear very gently or sticking your fingers in their mouth,,, feigning confusion when they lose their train of thought and asking them if something's wrong,,, 'are you having trouble using your words, babe?',,, just all these little movements and actions that make it so hard for them to focus on anything but you
When they say "please" in that needy, whining tone and you just stare down at them with the most wicked grin asking "please what" just to drag it out of them
And then you rephrase whatever they’ve just asked for in a much more humiliating manner, and watch the red spread across their cheeks as they’re forced to face what they really want, and confirm that they want it.
THE DEER SKULL COVERED IN CANDLEWAX STAYS ON DURING SEX
“vibe check!” you say, turning the vibrator inside me to its highest setting and watching me almost start drooling
Things to Say to Someone in Top Drop/Dom Drop
I’m okay
I love you
Thank you
It’s alright
I’m not hurt
I’m not hurt too badly
You’re lovely/wonderful/kind
I enjoyed it
It was worth it
Take your time
Do you need anything?
Do you want a cuddle?
Do you want me to get dressed/take the collar off/put the crop away?
Do you want to talk about it?
I’m here
You’re not a bad person
Top drop/dom drop usually comes from shock, guilt or insecurity about the way you have just treated someone whose well-being you care about very much. Like sub drop, it is usually accompanied by a fall in endorphins and general energy levels. Especially for aces (who I find have a greater need to be in the right mindset/’zone’ for play and intimacy), a ‘snap’ moment where you break out of play mode can throw you emotionally, and the end of play causes a similar reassessment or double-take at what happened during the scene.
Dominants in drop require the same kind of care as subs, but a different kind of reassurance.
I don’t know if I’ve reblogged this before, but here it is again
PLEASE. FUCKING please please please. I LOVE aftercare and to me its better than the sex, i go hard, i go real fucking hard and sometimes after a scene when my demon calms down a bit the fucking weight of what i’ve done to a sub hangs over me like a black cloud made of knives. I have had a group session where people are so focused on the sub (who had left the room post scene leaving me on my own) that i was left to cry on my own in a ball for half an hour. always aftercare, even if you don’t think you need it. because oh my gods its so needed and its not just for the sub. This is literally the first post on tumblr i’ve ever seen about caring for tops post scene and it’s such a big part of it. aftercare is EVERYTHING.
Oh to be a ditzy maiden kidnapped by a sexy vampire & brought to their mansion where they decide you can be more useful than a simple meal,,,,oh to be stripped bare & bathed,,,and have them dress you & put ribbons in your hair,,, and decorate your with jewelry,,, then fuck you so hard you cry;;;;
Don’t you want to hear your collar clink as I fuck you senseless? Don’t you just want to cum to the sound of possession?
aw baby i know you had a long day and all you want now is to be my pretty little play thing, am i right? Don’t worry, I’ll make sure that nothing runs through that pretty little head of yours~
Now come here and tell me that you belong to me and only me.