talking about an abusive father: oh yea totally fathers are usually shit I feel for you </3 so tragic I'm sure you're so traumatized that sounds so awful
talking about an abusive mother: welllll ummm are you sure she was abusive? she probably still wanted what's best for you I don't think it's fair to say she's abusive just because she hurt you sometimes. it was probably an accident and I just think you're not being forgiving enough... I mean why would she become a mother if she was capable of harming a child?? idk I just don't think you should say things like that when we all know that being a mom is really really hard and she probably didn't mean to. don't you think it would be so hurtful to birth a child only for them to grow up and call you abusive..? I just think that's kinda too far...
