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[wrenwrenwretchedwren]

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Uh hi? I'm supposed to put stuff here lol

Sup I'm Wren, this is where I just dump stuff really.

[hypnopompic-decay]

reminder for the queer community, esp white queer people (because a lot of people actually don’t know this)

nb stands for not Black, specifically in the phrase nbpoc (non black people of color), this is a racial activism term. use enby to abbreviate nonbinary

as well as this, something I learned more recently is that poly is short for polynesian and to avoid confusion or appropriating terms, polyamorous should be abbreviated as polyam

the words we use matter! it’s a simple change to make but it makes a lot of queer people of color more seen and uplifted

[spoopdeedoop]

mm ykw fuck you. drinks your chrysos heirs

[dragon-in-a-fez]

doctor: cure is simple. go see clown

chronically ill patient: but doctor, I'm seeing a clown right now and he's not helping

[this-is-trans-joy]

I’m more than a little concerned at seeing recommended tumblr communities with names like “queer teens” or “nonbinary teens” and advertising themselves as a space for teenagers as young as 13 to make friends with each other. I don’t wanna sound like anyone’s dad here, but this is… not safe. Anyone can join those communities, they’re not private unless you make it private. You can’t trust that everyone in there is actually a teenager, so please don’t advertise your age or other people’s ages like that in online spaces. You can absolutely make private communities or discord servers with trusted friends, but not public communities that anyone can join, especially if those communities are specifically targeted at marginalised— and therefore vulnerable— teenagers.

[auxins-insanities]

this disability pride month lets be kinder to folks with moral ocd . no more “if you really care about this minority , you’ll reblog this post” , “someone will die if you don’t reblog this” , etc etc , and all other kinds of guilt tripping reblog bait . at the VERY LEAST tag your reblog bait so we can filter it out and avoid unnecessary spirals . it’s 2026 , we need to move past using guilt to get engagement .

[idolomantises]

Something really needs to be said about the amount of queer shows with queer fandoms that are weirdly apathetic towards racism and misogyny.

[red-garden]

Let’s do some rent lowering gunshots

I think that more Nazis dying can only be a good thing. I will never apologize for wishing death on a nazi. They deserve it. Creating a martyr is not a reason to concern troll. The world is better with dead Nazis.

[siena-sevenwits]

Hey everyone, looks like the “cat summoned for jury duty” was ai generated - even has the ai symbol at the top. Thanks for the heads up, @cannot-all-throw-inkpots . My apologies- I did not realize when I shared it.

[theriu]

Aww dangit. Guess that makes sense, but it was so believable because I can 100% see that kind of goofup happening

[theriu]

Some positive news: There really WAS a cat summoned for jury duty back in 2010. Turns out the error was quickly corrected and the cat did NOT actually have to travel to the courthouse. But at least we can enjoy the fact that a papereork glitch did once try to give a cat jury duty XD

[serpercival]

So for the record because I've seen sooooo many phm posts going around using slurs. Yes, people in the intersex community are aware that hermaphrodite is used in biological contexts to mean "animal that produces both male and female gametes." Yes, it's still a slur in that context, and was adopted in biological circles from its usage as a slur. The word has been used as a slur against intersex people since at least the 14th century. It came into use in biological contexts in the 18th century. This is a word that spent 400 years being used as a slur before it was used to mean an animal that produces two types of gametes.

Yes, Eridians only have one sex. I obviously don't speak for the entire intersex community, but the terms that intersex advocates suggest using alternatively are "cosexual" or "monoecious." Both of these terms describe organisms with male and female reproductive organs, or which produce both male and female gametes. If you're in the camp where you think Eridians only produce one type of gamete, an appropriate term would be "isogamistic."

We don't use the r-slur to refer to people with intellectual disabilities, despite the fact this was the commonly accepted medical term for many, many years. It was used in medical contexts. It was used in American federal law until 2009. The language has changed. Please be kind to your fellow fandom members and use a term to refer to Eridians that does not have a history as an intersexist slur.

[aesungaia]

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[memeuplift]

[wrenwrenwretchedwren]

plus they often have stuff like sewing patterns, machines, books on crafting, books on home decor and so on.

for all my crafty folks check your library!

[meltedmush]

Wait I thought YQY was winning in the need that man pregnant polls, which bracket is he losing?

Currently his toughest match up is versus Gomez !!! 😭😭

He’s been quickly losing the lead over the past few hours by a noticeable margin

[hollows-lanternn]

i don't like posts that say things like "if you can't reblog this you're a terrible person" like ok. i won't reblog it then? asshole?

[pink-sharkz]

Everytime someone denies Scootaloo's disability, an angel loses it's wings

[whiteshakira]

out of all the famous rapists that nobody talks abt the 1 thats annoying me the most rn is neil degrasse tyson did you know that when he was in graduate school for astronomy he drugged and raped the only other black student in the department & she ended up quitting the field ? if you look at her instagram 1 of her stories highlights is called sexual assault & she says she does miss being a scientist & working on her research project but that shes glad shes a musician now. shes also into some weird spirituality stuff which puts neils reddit atheist shtick into a whole new perspective ...... he has 3 more allegations under his belt btw & 2 of those women are scientists themselves & the other 1 quit working on his fucken astronomy documentary series bc of him like i genuinely do not understand how he still gets to call himself a science educator & brag abt how hes getting more people interested in astronomy when he keeps sexually assaulting scientists & 2 people have already quit the field because of him like explain it to me like im five

[luxiomahariel]

i really really hate how normalized it is to tell people to kill themselves

[luxiomahariel]

stop fucking putting in my notes how much you think certain people deserve it.

people who are fucking struggling with suicidal ideation, ESPECIALLY PEOPLE WHO ARE MARGINALIZED, dont need to be thinking about how they must "deserve to die" if they were told to fucking kill themselves.

just stop being ableist pieces of shit and fix your fucking hearts.