Maybe learn what being parasocial means before you have verbal diarrhea. A celebrity's, influencer's/CC's love life is only a small piece of the whole. Hell, you can have parasocial attachments to fictional characters. A parasocial attachment has varying degrees.
Seriously tho, why flirt on a public forum when you're 5 ft or less away from them? And then try to people please by asking the fandom if he's sexy. Girl, no.
But y'all hear what you want just to prove yourself right. Pot meet kettle? You're not really hearing us, just your own bias.
Things maybe would've turned out for the better if the 4 dipsticks, would've done a better job handling the situation. Especially when they knew we were coming to the realization something was going on. But here we are. When members of BTR got gfs, none of this insanity was happening. The majority wasn't bothered by it. Why? Because they filled us in, didn't post their girls constantly, and they didn't leave the fandom high and dry for their relationships. If you only want the girls and forget your fans..then bye, bitch.
SnC stopped caring about their fans once they got those girls. They don't understand they can have both. We're also paying for XPLR Club, to get info before anyone else. Yet, when they came back from Australia, they didn't want to share any stories on the live. Why? Because they already did an interview explaining everything. So, basically, we didn't deserve it.
Speaking of XPLR Club, you needed moderators why? To tone down the sexual commentary of fans, especially minors, right? Yet, SnC go live or a podcast, that minors are watching and listening to, and what comes out of their mouths? Plenty of sex and dick jokes for all! It doesn't matter that the talk in chat was more detailed. They're adults fully aware of the age groups that are members, right? Then act accordingly. Tho their videos on main are just as bad.
And only one video a month? The burnout excuse is just that. Since they're absolutely chicken shit to investigate on their own, they have to spread it out so they can hopefully find other CC's to join them. Sam's explanation of why collabing with Shane and Ryan wouldn't be a good idea is absolutely laughable. SnC still need a disclaimer on their videos. It's only entertainment and not real paranormal investigating.
And when these 27 yr olds, start acting like the men you claim they are, then they'll get treated as such.
Okay, let's break this down.
So flirting under posts while sitting next to each other is okay when non-celebrities do it but not when influencers do it? Double standards say hi. She's not feeding into the fandom, u can see comments like this under every other pair's post. Also, I don't know on which sites you're on but they DO NOT post the girls constantly. Also, learn some consistency in your writing, it's contradicting itself, cause right after you say they don't share enough and don't fill the fandom in. Can you decide on your standpoint so we can start a proper discussion? Who said they left the fandom high and dry FOR RELATIONSHIPS? Did you know they were on filming trips the past few weeks? That they have business meetings? Private life they don't wish to share? They have a right to do that, you know. They've already said that they felt like their private lives were nonexistent anymore at some point and they needed to change that for their own sake. I think it's actually good for them, considering the amount of hate they get for everything they do in the most recent time.
With the XPLR live - I'm there too - they literally said they have a whole podcast with stories, you just have to wait a few days longer. Is it such a big deal? No one said we were undeserving, no one would enjoy hearing the same thing twice. Patience is a very nice trait once you get a hang of it.
The sexual thing came from people sexualising them in the chat. I believe it might have POSSIBLY made them feel uncomfortable, you know? Especially if it was done by a minor. Personally I would've been REALLY uncomfortable if a 13-year-old would make a sexual comment about me. They never claimed to be a kids-friendly channel. Some stuff they talk about on the main channel in their vids are messy and to be honest, young audience should either be restricted by their parents or simply not watch it.
Also, 13-year-olds (generalisation) are allowed to make sexual comments about them but they're not allowed to make JOKES about themselves? Wow, double standards say double hi.
One video a month, yes. One video which is scenes chosen from many hours of footage. One video which was edited with music, pictures, text, reviewed several times for those *listen additions. One video before which they film the next video or a few of them, have business meetings, arrange stuff, work on merch, try to REST.
They take people on investigations to prove to them and to others that it's real and those ppl are experiencing the same things. And also to have some fun.
Also, after certain age you can't have fun anymore? Make jokes? Be goofy? Wow, what a boring life it is then when you get older. I guess once I turn 27 I should not hang out with my friends at work anymore, joke around... damn, I feel personality change incoming.
If you hold yourself to such standards, that's totally okay, but please, don't try to force it on other people.
Thank you for coming to my pep talk, have a nice day 😊
