[xenia-official]

hi im xenia, welcome to my blog

im your local chaotic bisexual trans foxgirl

19 and a chronic flirt on main, so if you flirt i will flirt back, just plz dont call me cute its a dysphoria trigger for some stupid fucking reason 9/10 times

i run opensuse tubleweed as my main os and have been for a few years now

only people we follow on main will get replies when we're mentioned

also for garbage cleaning reasons

transandrophobia isnt real

if you think it is gtfo

oh also, putting this in the main post we're plural, if you bring syscorse shit here that's an instant block

k thnx bai

[f4nd0m-h0pp3r]

guys I’ve been diagnosed with “:3” it’s terminal

[sugaryewscythe]

reblog to make your blog smell like cinnamon and warm brown sugar

[gumi-megpoidd]

yeah. yeah.

[gumi-megpoidd]

we're all feeling normal huh

[troublepunk-ldn]

me as a teenager: man it sucks to have no privacy or autonomy but i guess its for a good reason. when i turn 18 i will realise how young i was and understand why they did all that.

me as an adult: teenagers are an oppressed class, their abuse is normalised and systemic and they need to start killing people

[princess-rosiebird-nsfw]

huaving boobs is actually so fucking pawsome

[pixeljade]

For the trillionth time

"TMA" and "TME" are just there to describe who are and are not the intended targets of transmisogyny

That's all they are

They are not a gender binary, both categories include a wide variety of genders

If you are saying we dont need these terms you are saying you don't think transmisogyny exists

In a world where we have laws *SPECIFYING* that they target transfems exclusively

In a world where the Olympic *SPECIFICALLY* banned transfems exclusively

In a world where v-coding exists *SPECIFICALLY* for trans women

If you are denying transmisogyny exists in such a world, you are functionally a TWERF, and you deserve to be treated as one

[ikaros-unearthed]

reblog to give both of us bigger tits

[pavizi]

everyone say hi xenia

[xeric-adenium-obesum]

PSA:

tma/tme do in fact include nonbinary people! the reason there are only two terms is because they describe how an axis of oppression is applied to people, and it is applied based on the (incorrect) binary view of gender.

transmisogyny is the oppression and discrimination towards people who have "failed" to meet the standards imposed by traditional patriarchical society to be considered masculine, and instead pursue femininity (this is an oversimplication, but will suffice). you are either Affected by this, i.e. it is a pervasive and disruptive force in your life, or you are Exempted from it, i.e. you are not the *intended recipient* of transmisogyny.

IMPORTANT DISTINCTION: tma/tme are not identity labels! you do not choose to be tma/tme! they are the descriptors invented to describe an external force and its effects.

it makes no distinction for actual gender identity because transmisogyny doesn't give a shit what your gender actually is beyond what was laid on you at your birth, and your "failure" to meet the standards of that assignment. but Specifically when it is in pursuit of femininity/away from traditional masculinity.

[hyzenthrae]

you are required to be and act anti-racist

[hyzenthrae]

thinking and hoping you're not racist isn't enough. i am talking specifically and especially to white trans people whose political ideology and differing axis of oppression makes them feel immune to racially motivated missteps and behaviors

[hyzenthrae]

and im suggesting firmly and with pain in my heart that apologies must start and end with "i'm so sorry to have done this. i recognize what was done and will work to do better." and at no point must your apology be accepted in order to continue a working relationship/comradeship/solidarity, at no point does your continued ":( i just feel so bad" matter to me or any other person of color

you have to process your feelings about doing a racism separate from the persons or people you did the racism to. you do not offload the labor to the affronted. you do not assert what your "intent" was repeatedly or ask for help from the hurt

[comstelic]

denial

[sexycornenthusiast]

watching someone start reblogging transmisandry bullshit is like seeing them get hacked by a scambot. will you stop.. for me

[sexycornenthusiast]

when people say misandry or androphobia or whatever aren't real they aren't being pedantic about your language. believing misandry is real is ideological poison. the second you attribute the real oppression you face to some "anti-male prejudice" you have given up your ability to understand and fight the actual power structures causing it. any bit of time and energy you spend arguing that women don't have it as bad as they say they do is time and energy you aren't spending on anything actually productive. wake up

[sexycornenthusiast]

this is an important point. i've seen multiple white transmascs on this site openly and shamelessly say that they believe racialized women are less oppressed than racialized men because of this supposed "misandry". everything's connected

[paper-mario-wiki]

white t girl i love you. and also do not forget that you are not the modern martyr for the oppressed voice. that's still black girls. it's always been black girls. stories of black martyrdom simply don't make it into the news cycle until the unrest caused by its reporting can be packaged as a "riot" segment between traffic reports. i know you suffer, but whatever you're experiencing, i beg you, when interacting with your community and building nuanced understandings of each other and the system which binds us, to not forget that a black tgirl has felt it 100 times worse before positioning yourself as an authority on all systems of oppression for having suffered unjustly at all. because you have suffered unjustly, but suffering unjustly as a white person means something so much different.

[paper-mario-wiki]

serenely reblogging this once more after deleting responses from white people saying "talking about this is actually unhelpful because im oppressed too" yeah i know. i wrote that down in the post i made, and i also wrote down why remembering the difference is important. did you read it?

there is no malice in my reminder. no "you need to do better", just a reminder. do not read it as such. i didn't write it as such.

[paper-mario-wiki]

again. i did not say you were not oppressed. this post is literally about how you are oppressed. it is a reminder that you are not the most oppressed person in the world, a way i've seen a lot of white transfems acting lately. maybe not even necessarily in a detrimental way, but in a way that definitely leans towards the "white is default" lane of thinking, which erases black suffering, which erases progress towards black safety. this, to me, is troubling, which is why i made this post. it's important when building solidarity within our community to understand who the most vulnerable of us are, because the safety of the most vulnerable of us will ultimately be the safety of all of us.

please do not be offended when you are reminded that your skin is white. im not calling you evil. im asking you to remain aware of yourself.

[storyweavingspider]

Oh hey I wrote a small essay on exactly this back when I was still being kind and calmly explaining things to yakubian devils

Suffering In Whiteness/Race and Further Marginalizations - Anons.ee

Share via: Facebook X (Twitter) LinkedIn More Something that white folks with one or more […]

[paper-mario-wiki]

wow, look at that, a black trans woman saying the exact thing i said, except she said it a year ago and it didnt get as much traction.

"weird! i wonder why!" she exclaimed, whitely.

please read it. it's not long.

[storyweavingspider]

Thing is that I’m not the only Black trans woman writing theory on transfeminism, Black transfeminism, or trans intersectionality - I’m just lightskinned and won’t shut up so I’m one of the most visible ones, and crackers STILL get mad at me for saying the most basic-ass concepts like “white people are still white even if they’re otherwise marginalized”

In many cases, intracommunity racial intersectionality fails because given the choice between solidarity with nonwhite trans people and white people (trans or cis), white trans people will almost always side with other whites in the hopes of preserving a degraded position within white supremacy, because they internally see being “lesser” within whites supremacy but still above nonwhites as preferable to solidarity with nonwhites that loses them that positionality.

[storyweavingspider]

I wanna toss this link on here because it’s directly related to the whole “lack of intracommunity solidarity when race is involved” thing and has a specific example from my local community.

Reblog by @storyweavingspider

💬 0  🔁 132  ❤️ 218 · 100% agreed, but I also want to bring up a similar concern specific to Black transfemmes: the intersection of gendered

[mystery-incorporated-whore]

if i reblog nothing else for juneteenth i wanted to make sure i brought this one back

[bluwubewwy]

Girls love asking for each others discords and then not talking its our favourite activity

[bitch-ass-rat-blog]

Behold, the new gender binary, the evil version of AMAB/AFAB, and the source of ALL transandrophoia

[nacht---hexe]

you can tell shinigami eyes is an effective tool because it makes transmisogynists really upset