Beeslyinlove

Hey. I'm a 30something pop culture fanatic who reblogs a LOT, mainly New Girl, but pretty much anything I find relevant, funny, adorable or just plain important. You will see a lot of Jake Johnson, Zooey Deschanel and Mindy Kaling, The Office, Parks and Recreation, Buffy the Vampire Slayer and Angel, some My So-Called Life, Pushing Daisies, Harry Potter, oh and maybe some other '80s and '90s TV, music, YA novels, whatever I'm fancying. Oh, and I love The Wizard of Oz. My blog title is my favorite quote from my Italian grandmother -- its what she always declared pretty much the second I would walk through the door.

[nuhia]

[iwillrunforfood]

[rumpledsmalltownpi]

[8bitrevolver]

Retro Game Room Version 2 I needed to patch the walls and paint, so I thought I might as well change it all up.

23 different consoles and handhelds, about 450 old games. Framemeister xrgb-mini upscaler so it doesn’t look bad on a new tv, handmade custom MAME cabinet, and a fuzzy chair and fuzzy carpet :)

A lot of work, and a lifetime of collecting!

[fujicucumber]

And no girlfriend

[8bitrevolver]

In an incredible plot twist, I’m actually someone’s wife.

[thegentlemangamer-deactivated20]

[teddyconfessions]

“Let Luke Skywalker chase Every bad guy from the place! Come on with the rain!!! I got a permanent frown on my face….”

–Storm Trooper

[nataliedormes]

[literarylitchfield]

Happy Birthday, Taryn Manning!

Happy Birthday, Taryn Manning!

Happy Birthday, Taryn Manning (Tiffany ‘Pennsatucky’ Doggett)!

November 6, 1978.

Taryn turns 37 today.

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[decidingstill]

Jess Day - hairstyles (season one)

[shisquared]

A Guide to Every Mindy Project Rom Com Reference

[rumpledsmalltownpi]

40 Day New Girl Photoshop Challenge

Day 29: Favourite singing scene

[yellowxperil-deactivated2026012]

srsly tho this is absolutely a thing that dudes do all the f***ing time

like where if he knows a girl doesn’t necessarily want to give him a hug, he will trap her in this position in front of witnesses where she has 2 options- both of which are undesirable for her, while simultaneously desirable for him

if she doesn’t want to hug him, whatever she does, it will suck for her.

she can 1. say nah and be the fucking asshole in front of other ppl or 2. forsake her corporeal boundaries and allow unwanted intimate contact

it’s a f***ing trap

[d-o-llf-a-ce]

SECOND STORY TIME

So I was on the transit bus alone one time. This was my first time riding, and so already I was PETRIFIED. I sit down, pull out my ipod, and begin to play some games. This guy sits down next to me, and begins trying to have a conversation. I don’t really respond, I don’t even look at him, just give half-hearted “mhm”s and “oh”s, as I don’t want to be rude if he was just striking up a friendly conversation. He then asks me on a date.

Now, as I stated before, I already was absolutely petrified. My heart stopped and I didn’t know how to answer. So I just didn’t. He didn’t let up and I could feel his eyes on me. I quietly stammer out a “no thanks” and my stop HAPPENS to be coming up, so I pull the string thing to let the driver know I want to stop there, and once we stop and the doors open I get up and he asks me, “Well, can I at least have a hug before you go if you won’t go on a date with me?” 

This makes me break. There are now people staring, as we are the only people standing up and not getting off… So I just start crying. Hell, I am bawling almost instantly. He looks so fucking freaked out and people are now getting up to come over and comfort me/question him. I don’t stop crying, and he keeps trying to comfort me by touching me, and people are yelling at him for that. 

AND THEN. AND. FUCKING. THEN. THE GOD DAMN BUS DRIVER. A VERY EASILY 6 FOOT BURLY MAN. COMES OVER TO US. PULLS THE GUY AWAY. AND KNEELS DOWN. HE THEN ASKS, IN THE MOST CALM VOICE, “Did you request the stop?” I very slowly and shakily nod, as I am still crying my eyes out. He then asks, “Do you want to get off?” I give a quiet “mhm” and nod once again, and he offers me his hand. I take it, he stands up, and he escorts me off the bus. He asks me questions such as where I was going next, if I was going to meet someone shortly, if I was going to transfer buses from there. He was very polite and waited for me to answer the entire time, and my friend (who I was going to be meeting there) showed up. He asked me if this was someone I knew, I said yes, and he said alright, have a good day. He then told me- and this is something stuck in my mind forever, so it is word for word-

“If some guy EVER starts harassing you like that again, do exactly what you did there. Cry. Cry and scream and have a temper tantrum. Not only will it throw him off, but it will get others to notice. They might not interfere, they might, but you will have gotten their attention and if you happen to go missing the next day the search for you will be a hell of a lot easier because everyone in that location will have seen you screaming and crying with a guy now very awkward with his actions. They will know. That is what my daughter did, and three days after she went missing she was back in my arms. I pray for you and every other person like you who has this done. You stay safe now, okay?” And after I began blubbering again, I nodded and he left.

So this is the second lesson for yall. If you can not have the courage to say no or make an excuse, cry. Let out those sobs and tears and cry your heart out. Because it is going to make people notice and make people aware.

[cosmic-noir]

Reblogging for that second story. This might save a life.

[lierdumoa]

The tragic reality is that we do not live in a culture of consent. A culture of consent is a culture of assuming that people mean no unless they say yes.

We live in a culture of rape. We live in a culture of assuming that people mean yes unless they say no.

If you don’t make it very, very obvious that you are not okay with how you are being treated, the person mistreating you will tell themselves, “This means you’re okay with what I’m doing. I’m not doing anything unforgivable. This situation is normal. My behavior is normal.”

If you don’t make it very, very obvious that you are not okay with how you are being mistreated, bystanders will tell themselves, “This probably means she’s okay with what he’s doing. He’s not doing anything unforgiveable. This situation is normal. His behavior is normal.

I’m not saying this to imply it’s somehow the victim’s fault. It is absolutely not the victim’s fault. I am saying that we live in a culture that assumes it is the victim’s fault. We live in a culture that normalizes harassment.

Crying works. 

Why?

Because everyone knows that a crying woman is not okay. Everyone knows that the guy making her cry did something she was not okay with. Crying is a clear and irrefutable no. We live in a culture that only acknowledges a no when it is clear and irrefutable.

[ribbonhats]

Everyday sexism needs to hear this story and all like it. Have you told them? As they said, it could save lives…http://everydaysexism.com/

[martymcflyinthefuture]

Today is the day Marty McFly goes to the future!

[allaboutnewgirl]

come here you handsome grumpy flannel wearing bastard it’s been too long

[jakejohnson-amiright]

😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

[ifellinthefandom]

Reading amazing fanfiction, then forgetting to bookmark it

[aphony-cree]

enter this into the Google search

site:<url of site where you read the fic> <a line you remember from the fic or character names plus a unique detail>

for example:

site:http://archiveofourown.org/ Todd Margo pedicure

Google will search only AO3 and tell you which pages contain the words Todd Margo and pedicure.

[kristenconner96]

REBLOG TO SAVE A LIFE

[lauraslittlespoon]

[lauraslittlespoon]

Taylor’s thoughts - in an alternate universe

[ithoughtwewereateam]

this is so real to me god bless

[youmustbestarving]

This is precious!

[kyrafic]

Well this was a thoroughly delightful series of photos to appear in my eyespace! HAPPY BDAY, LIZ.

[fandomshandom]

Hahahahahaha. Can i wake up to posts like this every day?

[mrnickmiller-deactivated2018081]

Yay stuff is happening!!!!! Jake looks mighty fine as usual. Why can I get that on my birthday. She’s a lucky lady.

[amysue1965-deactivated20200720]

Can I get one from Jake on my Birthday?! It’s Christmas Eve.

[chelseaperetti]

[kyrafic]

I love this both on the level where it’s hilarious – especially with it being autumn not spring! – and on the level where he probably spent the whole night at work trying NOT to think about the guy undressing Jess, his hands all over her, how Nick had helped that happen, and when a drunk girl flopped into the stool in front of him at last call and asked for “a shot but not a gross one” it was a huge, stupid relief to flirt with her and let things unfold, let his brain white out into a predictable set of lines and sensations, enough nudity and distraction that he almost didn’t have to think at all.

[mrnickmiller-deactivated2018081]

We need ‘what happened that we didn’t see?’ for every episode in season four.

[imjudygarland-blog]

Yes. ^^^^This.

[youmustbestarving]

Uh huh.