your local problem

Just a Fem! transguy trying to exist. I'm 19!

[yourlocalfemtransguy]

Sighhsss spending Valentine's Day while having no romantic partner sucks.

At least I get to spend it with my family dog, the cutest doggo you'll ever meet! A total sweetheart I can cuddle!!

[crippled-peeper]

it’s imperative that you do HRT because you want it and not because anyone told you to

[yourlocalfemtransguy]

Omg I just drove for the first time to my school and I parked like shit-

Also I accidentally drove the wrong way at first on my way to school lol.

I felt so sorry to the gal next to me TwT. She was parking just as I realized that I parked really shitty.

At least I actually managed to correct it! ^^ (somehow)

[yourlocalfemtransguy]

Eyyy

So uhhh

I actually might do want HRT-

But what sucks is that I love in a town (Germany lol) anddd- everything else is like- miles and miles away from me-

I finally finished my driver's license and I get my first car next Tuesday tho! So yayyy!

That means I don't have to travel by train anymore and can drive instead!

With that- I can expand my circle of trying to find anyone for a "indikationsschreiben" to start getting Testo-

Also, I'm legally insured so no clue if they would pay for- well yk, the first visit to get a "indikationsschreiben".

I actually went through all the effects I found that I would be much happier with that.

Like- a small dick? Like growing? Hawt.

I get a deeper voice and can enjoy singing? YEEESSS

Still- it hard finding anyone here-

And for my rather unsupportive parents?

Welll- I decided to take the risk (since I'll finally get a car!) and start taking it to see when they will notice.

And for changing my name?

I'm currently still working as an apprentice in a rather small company.

Our business is marked with "LGBTQ+ friendly" (I guess since we have an openly gay handyman) but I'm still nervous to change my name and gender since I'm not sure how to handle all the paperwork and how that would affect my apprenticeship.

And the "boss floor" isn't exactly the best and I don't really like or actually get along with them ( I like to avoid them as much as possible, which is nearly impossible when they give me tasks or stuff)

Still, they wanted me to stay.

And so, I agreed - for the money.

Anyways thanks for coming to my talk.

- Nero (he / him)

[yourlocalfemtransguy]

I don't know you and you don't know me, but as another feminine trans guy who likely won't go on testorone for several reasons, I just want to say I feel validated seeing this.

Heeeyyyy omg that's awesome!!! Twins!!!

[dollartreemagicalgirl]

short comic about being trans and gnc

reblogs appreciated!!

[speedcoore]

everyone belongs

[yourlocalfemtransguy]

As a Non-T Transguy who also sometimes likes fem 'fits:

- I feel like people would never see me as a boy. Why?

Because I like skirts! I love how flowy short skirts are!

Also I sometimes like wearing colorful eyeshadow!! Especially in the colors of the trans flag!

Or fitted clothes! Or hot pants! Or thigh highs!! (I got one with cat paws under my foot - so cuteee!!!!)

Also I have unsupportive parents- and I don't think I want T-

I don't want all the changes some trans people want and it makes me feel...worse.

And I already saw so many discourses in our own community.

But def Top surgery! I want to swim again. I just stopped swimming after my puberty started and my body started to change.

I want to look at myself in the mirror and say:" that's me! I look like me!"

But I feel like I'll be alone.

I have one online friend who I feel really comfy with who accepts me for being me. And I feel so lucky!

Sometimes I look at other people dating and my mind instantly starts to drift, I probably wouldn't find love, even though I would be open to.

What if the significant other wouldn't see me and just says I'm a "confused cistrender" or stuff..

On the other side- I try to find positive stuff about myself.

Like how I grow chin and side hairs naturally (So I need to shave regularly) and my visible arm hair.

And my short fluffy hair!

I'm so looking forward to being myself...

-Nero (he/him)

Also look at my fit under this cut I think looks pretty sickkkk

Yww ✨✨

[this-is-transandrophobia]

Ppl who don't understand transandrophobia piss me off sm bc they don't realise that the patriarchy goes both ways which means the stigmatisation of non-passing trans men is the idea that all men have to live up to this image of hyper masculinity, and that trans men even wanting to be slightly feminine makes them less than.

This is transandrophobia.

[this-is-transandrophobia]

People when transmen take T/HRT :😡😡😡😡😡😡

Also people when transmen don't want to take T/HRT: 😡😡😡😡

Some people have reasons why they don't wanna take HRT. For me, I'm kinda anxious about it being painfull

This is transandrophobia.

[yourlocalfemtransguy]

Same anon! Also the possible negative effects makes me hesitate. So no T for me!

[this-is-transandrophobia]

When my cis male roommate crossdresses/wears skirts and fem clothes, he's praised in our queer friend group for breaking gender roles

But when I, a trans male, do it, everyone questions if I'm still identifying as a man

This is transandrophobia.

[this-is-transandrophobia]

I'm a transmasc femboy and my boyfriend loves my dead name more than my chosen name and refuses to respect my gender identity. :(

This is transandrophobia.

Dump your boyfriend.

[yourlocalfemtransguy]

As a slightly more fem! Transguy with no desire to go on T, I'm afraid that this might happen the second I somehow get into a romantic relationship :(

[vicetrevni]

I don't care if a cis man says he's a lesbian.

Unless he's using it to actively harm others, I don't give a shit - he could be a trans women who hasn't discovered herself yet, or nonbinary (or even intersex).

It's not my place to judge or gatekeep queer identities. Nor is it anyone else's business.

Stop gatekeeping, it's literally killing people.

[ilynotes]

shoutout to transmasc people that still present socially as a hyperfem woman. Your hyperfemininity doesn’t make you less trans

[crippled-peeper]

you can be a trans man any way you want btw

[luxiomahariel]

trans men that havent yet medically transitioned or dont want to medically transition have a right to be gendered correctly

trans women that havent yet medically transitioned or dont want to medically transition have a right to be gendered correctly

nonbinary people, regardless of how they look and where theyre at in their transition, have a right to be gendered correctly

xenogender people have a right to be gendered correctly, that includes using neopronouns and any other terms related to their identity that they prefer

intersex people, regardless of how they look, have a right to be gendered correctly

gender nonconforming people have a right to be gendered correctly

stop treating peoples identities as optional.