FINALLY getting around to making a proper intro post; not sure how in-depth to make this, but wanted to at least get a few major things out there for newcomers & mutuals alike.
Hi, we're Melange (most days) 👋 she/her/it/its
interests include: photography, skateboarding, urban exploring, walkies, swimming, camping, pokemon, superheroes, makeup, drugs, going to venues/events, horror movies, drama/thriller shows, cuddling & kissing cuties.
music tastes vary, but some of our favorite genres include: punk, emo, screamo, metal, folk, electronica, jazz, funk, alt & prog rock, hip hop, and fusions of these types.
we are transfeminine most days, been on HRT for over 3 years now, but we also lean towards nonbinary or genderfluid depending on mood/mental health. so proud of how far we've come from the sheltered & stunted past we used to be immersed in 💕
we are a furry & therian, with our main sona being a mix between the pokemon Noivern and a flying fox fruit bat, and our main designate being a fat, shape-shifting beagle.
ALSO, we are a dissociative system in her dirty thirties, making the most of cohesion to get shit done these days - other alters/headmates that we frequently switch between include Marsh, Omihn, Pilate, Roquelle, Theseus, Sten, Anna, Lilac, Maybe & Wren (there's at least 15 more of us who don't front often but may show up in discussion or in person from time to time).
along with DID, we struggle daily with CPTSD, BPD, MDD, heightened anxiety & gender dysphoria - currently in the appeals process for disability benefits, mainly based on our psychogenic nonepileptic seizures & executive dysfunction overloads. we have been unemployed for over a year and rely on our friends, chosen family, and partners to assist with taking care of us.
speaking of the people in our life, we practice constellation polyamory and currently have three wonderful partners (one of which we live with); but we are also open to dating new & familiar folks, so feel free to flirt in the comments of our selfies 🤗🥰
our birth family has abandoned us, but we have three sisters & a mama who all have helped us feel the most secure we've been in years - we love them with our whole ass heart ❤️ 💙 💜
tags to find our stuff under include:
#my mug - selfies
#my body - outfits, tattoos, and tummy pics (nudes can be found on my nsfw under this tag, if you're interested 😏)
#my pics - photographs we take while out n about or hunkering down at home
#my poetry/#venting - song lyrics, emotional prose, and explanations of our present predicaments or overwhelming feelings
if you have any questions for us, our inbox is always open 😊 please be respectful to this pup
