hey guys!! a lot of you know about my situation already because i’ve been talking about it and mentioning setting up fundraising for a while, but i’m finally ready to hopefully raise some money to help me get back to my home state and out of a bad relationship and situation.
Things really aren’t great at home right now. I recently had major spine surgery and have had a lot of neurological complications (especially with my memory) related to it, on top of having to learn to walk and do things normally again. It’s been incredibly stressful. Along with that, I feel trapped in a relationship with someone who ignores me and treats me more like a mother than a partner, and who doesn’t seem to care much for my well-being. I have no support system here, no friends that aren’t also my partners’ friends, and have no family here, either. I feel very trapped and lonely.
My (soon to be ex) partner and i are being pushed to move into an apartment together and due to his hygiene issues (he has not showered in 3 months at this point), his unwillingness to change, and the fact that I’m deeply unhappy and disabled, I feel that I need to leave and go home. I have a support system back home that is helping me figure out where to live, but I need help with actually getting there.
That’s what this campaign is for! I’ve plotted out a breakdown of the costs here , if you’d like to see. I can provide any proof for disability needed, and my recent surgery was a spinal implant that I’m in the long recovery process for. I’ll be using the funds to get my things (and myself!) home. I have almost enough to cover the plane ticket. Some of the other costs are for a medical bracelet (necessary due to medical complications), baggage, packing materials, fees, and transportation/food the day of.
Other ways to help: I have an Amazon wishlist of moving things (plus things that will in general help, such as toiletries and socks). I also have a regular Paypal donation link here . I also always appreciate any sorts of messages or wishes on my social media!
Thank you to anyone who’s read this entire thing and to anyone donating. I appreciate it more than anything. I’m very excited to be going back home to where I know I have a support system!