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enbiesheartenbies

how to look like a nonbinary person

1. be nonbinary

2. wear what you like

congratulations! you now look nonbinary, because you are nonbinary! heres a lady bug to brighten up your day 🐞

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Pride Headers

Please like/reblog if saving :)

Feel free to make a request in the comments

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Bonus

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starmoodsii

Abrogender Ace

Abrogender Ace moodboard.

the-bisexual-king

Bisexuals can like women, non-binary and men for different reasons. You can prefer whatever gender pleases you the most. It doesn’t make you any less bisexual. Just because gender doesn’t play a role in our attraction doesn’t mean we can’t have a preference.

marshmallowmlm

non-binary people’s choice to use or reject binary language is personal, unique & does not have to be all or nothing.

non-binary people are allowed to use binary language to describe themselves, whether or not they are aligned with that binary gender.

non-binary people are allowed to have a complex relationship with self-descriptors & identifying language, and having an unconventional relationship with gendered language does not give anyone permission to misgender or mislabel them.

non-binary people’s relationship to language is unique, valid, and deserves respect.

footsiepop

Using “AFAB” to talk about like, the experience of being subjected to misogynistic standards because some afab trans people are held to them is fucking bad actually.

footsiepop

“AFAB chests are censored on-” ok but this standard isn’t an “AFAB” thing, anyone who’s AMAB and has boobs is gonna be held to the same thing.

Fuck off with this faux inclusivity.

footsiepop

Yes some non-women face misogyny. If your way of understanding this is to search+replace any mention of “women” with “AFABs” your inclusivity is transmisogynistic, incoherent garbage.

nitrosplicer

So I just heard about “Primed: The Back Pocket Guide for Trans Men and the Men Who Dig Them.” It’s the first sexual health resource written by and for gay, bi and queer trans men/ transmasculine people, put out by Rainbow Health Ontario, and it’s a very frank guide that answers basically any questions you might have about safer sex. They’ve released it for free download here.

damnitmiles

A similar guide geared towards trans women/ transfeminine people (though not really sexual orientation specific) is “BRAZEN: Trans Women’s Safer Sex Guide.”

nitrosplicer

^^^

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Fixed link for BRAZEN

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Fixed link for BRAZEN, again. I don’t know why it keeps moving around.

imfemalewarrior

For my Trans followers!

-FemaleWarrior, She/They

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Jen Richards in Disclosure (Sam Feder, 2020)

908south

This documentary is really hard to watch at times but so so so necessary especially for people looking to be a better ally. Listen, learn, and try to show up better for the trans community

warmbrightedits

Girl (2018)

There are many resources online about the dangers of binding for FTM guys, but far fewer that address the dangers of tucking.

This film, based on the youth of trans dancer Nora Monsecour and made in collaboration with her, features a young trans girl character tucking with tape in order to pass as a young woman. It is good to see that a film is drawing attention to MTF struggles, and the daily practice of flattening your groin, which can sometimes be very painful.

As an alternative to tape or bandages, I would recommend LeoLines underwear, available through Etsy. There are many reviews by trans women who recommend LeoLines panties and padded bras, and the underwear is so cleverly designed that many women report not even needing to tuck beneath the panties. (Also, as the designer of these products is a trans woman, all the marketing is aimed at trans women, and not crossdressers.)

Please do not flag this post. It is an educational post, intended for transgender girls who may watch this film and be encouraged to tuck unsafely. It is not explicit.

chutneygray

From the perspective of a trans woman whose closet friend is a trans man, I found this post to be extremely valuable information to have.

warmbrightedits

Very glad you found this post helpful, friend! I’m a transgender man myself, and I have noticed that many online resources are directed at FTM guys like me, whereas information about tucking for trans women is pretty rare to see shared on trans blogs. I can’t speak from experience, but I do want to put in the effort to support my trans sisters :)

advicefortranskids

natural voice change

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Boom Your Voice

How to deepen your voice naturally

How to talk with a deeper voice

How to deepen your voice (pre-t) Voice masculinization

Vocal androgyny in speech and singing

This Phone App Helps Transgender Users Change The Pitch And Tone Of Their Voices (buzzfeed article)

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Voice Feminization

Pitch, range, resonance, depth

How to develop a female voice

Feminine voice techniques

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Someone might need this

jabberwockprince

since literally none of the links in this entire post works, I took it upon myself to go find stuff that seems useful rather than let an empty post go around giving others hope lmao. I haven’t tried these myself but maybe it works for some of y’all ?

please add links if you got other useful stuff too !

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Voice Deepening Stretches. a tumblr post with pictures to show how.

How To Deepen Your Voice FTM. Alexander Jasper-Jay on Youtube. Pretty much a tutorial for the stretches from the previous post.

How to Make Your Voice Sound Deeper. Howcast on Youtube. Not FtM related or focused, I think this is mostly for acting ? ? ?

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How to make your voice feminine. No head voice. No falsetto. Ada Han on Youtube.

How to Completely Feminize Your Voice. An article by Michela, a trans woman.

Vocal Feminization Guide for any voice type. Impulse Collective DID on Youtube.

Emma’s Voice Guide ! Reddit article.

fruitypies

to update: Ada Han’s video on how to make your voice more feminine. Part 2

To my trans mutuals/followers or just those who don’t like their voice and want to improve it.

queering-the-binary

Shoutout to non binary Jews!!

Whether you wear tefillin, a kippah, a tallit, anything else or none of it, you are valid. Your observance of Judaism does not invalidate your gender.

Shoutout to non binary Jews who are part of a super accepting synagogue!

Shoutout to non binary Jews who are part of a queerphobic synagogue!

Shoutout to non binary Jews who aren’t part of a synagogue!

Shoutout to non binary Jews who wear gendered religious items!

Shoutout to non binary Jews who want to wear gendered religious items but can’t!

Shoutout to non binary Jews who wear gendered religious items but don’t really want to!

Shoutout to non binary Jews who don’t wear gendered religious items!

Shoutout to non binary Jews who are only out in jewish spaces!

Shoutout to non binary Jews who are nervous about coming out in jewish spaces!

Shoutout to non binary Jews whose coming out didn’t go well in a jewish space!

Shoutout to non binary Jews whose coming out went really well in jewish spaces!

Shoutout to non binary Jews who aren’t sure where their identity fits into their Judaism!

Shoutout to non binary Jews whose identity is tied to their Judaism!

Shoutout to non binary Jews who feel more distant from Judaism because of their identity.

Shoutout to non binary Jews who feel closer to Judaism because of their identity.

Shoutout to all non binary Jews, whether you fit into any of these or not. Navigating Judaism and being non binary is complicated, and I’m so happy that you are part of my community!

Hi y’all!

I made a video about what it means to be abrogender a while ago and I thought I’d share it here in case it helps anyone!!

You are all so valid and I hope you stay strong!

#abrogender #nonbinary #transgender #abrogender pride #abrogender positivity #youtube

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B l e a se

The original flag hurts my eyes. I can barely look at it :/

My Abrogender ass has sensitive eyes lol

abrogender

As a disabled person and the creator of the abrogender pride flag, I am so upset that I made something so inaccessible! Everyone, please use @kelpiedoodlewitch’s version instead!!

exceptbinary

you're nonbinary and you like to be called pretty? bro... that's...

completely okay, and you're so pretty!!

you're nonbinary and you like to be called handsome? bro.. that's....

completely okay, and you're so handsome!!

you're nonbinary and you prefer being called neutral terms? bro... that's....

completely okay, and you're perfect!

you're nonbinary and you don't care what terms people use towards you? bro... that's......

completely okay, and you're beautiful!!

(this post includes all genders under the nonbinary umbrella, and is mogai/microlabel friendly!)

untaggedslur

trans holiness: your name is a prayer. your scars come from battles you waged and won. your pronouns are a devotion, an utterance, you are the oracle and this is your being.

thetroublesofbeingtrans

I remember in middle school and high school before I went on HRT I would have bouts of depression over the idea of leaving the house and being perceived as a gender I wasn’t or of being misgendered/outed to other people (as I was still stealth at the time). So yeah, I agree. I never see people talking about it and it’s a very real and alienating experience.