it’s an absolute myth that ginny mocked fleur, lavender and cho for being feminine, and anyone that perpetrates this lie has chosen to depart from the series entirely.
ginny did not mock fleur for being feminine
ginny did not mock lavender or cho at all in the series
ginny disliked fleur because she frequently treated people around her with condescension and often outright rudeness. girls are allowed to dislike other girls without being accused of “girl hate” and having their real experiences dismissed and brushed aside.
ginny never mocked lavender or cho in the series, least of all because they were feminine (something ginny is too, coincidentally). the narrative pits ginny and cho against each other on occasion (see: quidditch, comparing cho’s weepiness with ginny’s lack thereof), but one cannot accuse ginny of mocking cho when it never happened. nor can one accuse ginny of mocking lavender when it never happened either. this trait can be attributed to hermione (who mocks lavender and parvati for being silly gossiping girls), but not to ginny.
ginny has her flaws, but inventing fake ones to demonize her is unnecessary character hate and i’m not about that life.
Ginny Weasley wants to play in an all-female team, has a poster of the Weird Sisters up in her room, goes around with a purple pygmy puff, wears a flowery scent, writes love poems, makes singing get-well cards, and has various female friends (of some we know the names, of others we don’t).
Then she takes Harry’s surname and chooses to change her career to stay more with her children, highlighting the real goal of feminism, giving women the opportunity to choose.
She does not reject femininity at all.
