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21// italy// she/they //

[taylorkellyreporting]

LMFAO???

[matchboxbed]

when i get mad i’m gonna start saying shit like “why i oughta” as i wind up my fist

[matchboxbed]

how dare you be funnier than me on my own post

[averagefairy]

this is a message for everyone who is 22. if you’re 22 please stop worrying. take a deep breath eat a bagel maybe. everything that feels impossible is going to work itself out. have a great day

[fibonassi]

do u have a message for 25 year olds

[averagefairy]

uhhhhh 2 bagels?

[angelik]

I really meant what I said. You, uh… You look really beautiful.

[afroditemademedoit]

I'm so overwhelmed with exams and soon I'll also have to do a stage (=free labor) part time

How do i get the money for anything??

[vampyre--dyke]

THIS YEAR I WANNA KISS A GIRL

[afroditemademedoit]

I've had mood problems for years, and next week I'll finally see a psychiatrist.

Now I'm extremely anxious bc i have no idea how to pay for it and for medication

[alishasboe]

STILLS of alexa demie as maddy perez in season two of EUPHORIA

[alexromero]

wanting depressed and traumatized middle aged characters to kiss and hold hands can truly be something incredibly personal. 

[shrimpsapphic]

[afroditemademedoit]

Me judging everyone who defended and liked Joe from You, now simping over Villanelle in Killing Eve...

[swagpaws]

to be honest i think queer people should care less about other peoples identities and care more about making our community a home again

[swagpaws]

what another person identifies with and the details of their complex relationship to their identity are literally none of ur business. u will never know the full extent of someones identity. u will never know the full complexity of a persons identity that is not ur own. so much hate and fighting happens in our community bc people often care more about being the most correct about identities instead of showing compassion to members of our queer family. no matter what, all of us are oppressed by the same oppressors for being queer. people are so quick to be cruel about identities they dont understand. mind ur own identity and let others explore theirs as they see fit (obviously so long as it isnt directly harming people)

[xekstrin]

AND LEARN TO DISTINGUISH BETWEEN YOUR PERSONAL DISCOMFORT AND ACTUAL MATERIAL HARM

so many of these conflicts I've seen HAVE been rooted in the (false) idea that someone else's identity somehow inherently harms you?

"Bi women calling themselves femme when that's a Lesbian Only Term is why straight men think they can get with lesbians" is just one example but TRUST ME I could go on and on and on AND ON AND ON

There's this persistent idea that someone could theoretically cause harm (someone in your knitting circle being cringe and using words you don't like), and it's being conflated with actively harming (being a far-right political activist like Milo Yiannopoulos), and it drives me up the wall

[violenceenthusiast]

gay sex is holy actually

[violenceenthusiast]

just wait until you guys hear about trans sex

[citylightsandemptynights]

god damn i wish there was a dislike button on tumblr. this is straight up fetishization, what the fuck

[violenceenthusiast]

fellas is it fetishization to make posts about your own experience as a gay trans person

[dogcoding]

[stream-purge-the-poison-deactiv]

maybe put yourself in the microwave?? are you fucking stupid? you have the mentality of a 9 years old and so everyone reblogging this shit. how can you ppl find this funny...wtf

[punishedvenomsnake]

the ants won't fuck you bro

[world-heritage-posts]

world heritage post

[userguts-deactivated20240618]

EUPHORIA | 1.02 “Stuntin’ Like My Daddy”  EUPHORIA | 1.04 “Shook Ones Pt. II” 

[afroditemademedoit]

I envy anyone of my friends who has a gf... It's tough 😔

[afroditemademedoit]

Omg i haven't watched dickinson and killing eve yet i feel like i failed lesbians