icymi i'm very disabled and very poor, and every dime that comes in goes to bills, food, and medication, in that order, and i am not often able to acquire the Big or even the Objectively Small But Poverty Says No Things on my own.
I already crowdfund on a monthly basis to pay for the bills I can (someday it will end), so I'm being a big brave boy to drop a wishlist of things I'd really like to get that aren't bills or food or medication (okay admittedly there is some health stuff)
and if you WANT to and you *can*, it would be cool, but you don't have to and my feelings won't be hurt if you don't even click on it