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I don't know yet if I plan on full time posting, I use this mostly to scroll and get to a specific person
That being said, for whatever reason, this app refuses to show me more than a few posts, often by the same people, so if it seems like I am stalking you I'm not đ
Being transmasculine is odd cus on one end of the spectrum everyone is telling you that you're privileged and evil and basically just a cis man (even if you're nonpassing), and on the other end you're watching your brothers being raped and murdered and buried under their dead names while being falsely listed as a femicide. (this faulty documention will be wielded as proof of your privilege)
Is anyone else constantly bothered by the fact that all of a child's medical care is required to go through their parents? That they must rely on these people to decide when they do or don't need medical care?
No matter how injured. If a parent doesn't deem it necessary to see a doctor, it doesn't happen. Teachers can suggest a doctor visit, but unless it's a very acute injury (and even then), it's ultimately up to the parents.
You can be 13. Twisted, maybe broken ankle. You teacher lets you sit out in PE. She's concerned, and tells you to rest when you go home, and see a doctor. You get home, ur parents fill a bath and add some Epsom salts, and then laugh at you for using it moms old colorguard stick as a cane. Take some ibuprofen they say. It's just a little sprain, ur a kid.
You go to school the next day, go to ur office assistant time. Office calls ur mom to come get you, because you're clearly in too much pain for school. Your mom laughs when she gets you, says you just were so determined not to miss school. Scolds you for making the office ladies worry.
You never see a doctor for the injury.
Your parents come into the exam room at every visit. This does not stop with age, except for gynecologist. But your parents are on the medical release forms. They fill them out for you, with you. You do not get to take them off.
You never get to tell s doctor about the ankle. Even though it never quote healed right, and it hurts every day.
Then your 18. In college. Still on your parents insurance, and have no car. The on campus clinic only does std testing. You fall down some stairs. Same injury. You call your parents, crying from the pain. You are using a mop as a cane. They console you and say to have a bath, take some meds, and let them know how it feels in a few days. You end up borrowing your roommates rolling chair to get around for the weekend.
By Monday, you can walk again. You walk miles to class every day. You ask to see a doctor, but your parents won't drive the hour to come take you, and you don't have the insurance card. You are still at their mercy for medical care. The ankle tries to heal again. This time worse than before. The tendons click with every step.
Now you're in your twenties. Finally have your own healthcare. You see a doctor. You get to mention the ankle! They say it's been too long to really even know what was damaged. That you have arthritis now. It healed wrong but it can no longer be fixed.
I'm 32 now. My ankle tells me the weather. I wear boots to keep it stable. What could have been a funny story about a fall and a cast has become a lifetime injury. Because children do not have access to medical care without a parents approval.
This edition includes a pregnancy checklist! This is a condescend list, I wanted something that covered the bigger milestones/appointments/planning before breaking the trimesters down in further zines. I tried to add things that I found helpful/wish I thought of as far as handling dysphoria when it comes to each trimester along with suggestions for the first week after birth. You can get the full zine over on the Patreon (free tier) now!
If anyone has suggestions for specific trimesters/an experience you want to share, you can send an email here or send a message to this blog here
There's still time to send in your own experiences for June's zine! I would love to get more of our stories together for the coming editions
Taking a break at pride
I really can and will blame the 9-5 for everything. "We're in a loneliness epidemic" well, we have to spend a third of our day interacting with people in a professional way that makes forming real friendships difficult and then we're peopled out by the time we're done. "People are eating more and more unhealthily" people have to spend more than a third of their day doing work related tasks and they don't want to spend their tiny amount of free time making food. "People aren't involved in their local communities" after spending more than a third of their day doing work related things people are tired and also all those community events take place during normal working hours. "People need to get more hobbies" after spending more than a third of their day working, people are TIRED and don't want to do anything that takes yet more energy. "Literacy is dying" to maintain your critical thinking skills you need to read/watch things that make you think and after spending more than a third of your day doing work related stuff you are TIRED and don't want to expend even more brainnpower. "People need to get outside more" People. Are. TIRED. Because they have to spend all of their time working or preparing for work or recovering from work or doing all the chores they couldn't stay on top of because of work. I can blame fucking anything on having to work, it is truly the root of all fucking evil.
Oh do I love satire
"what if someone regrets transitioning" if you are 18 or over in free country usa you can walk into any tattoo parlor and ask for a tattoo that will be on your body forever and ever and ever and they will give it to you with the understanding that if you dont like the result or you regret it later that's your fucking problem and not theirs
GRABS you by the THROAT. stop using "narcissistic", "slow", "depressed", "bipolar", "schizophrenic" and the literal R slur (i'm not saying it.) etc etc etc as insults. I don't care if you're neurodivergent and doing this you're still an ableist prick
"but a narcissist abused me!" You can talk about how their disorder impacted the abuse without using the disorder as the main vehicle for dragging them, or dragging them for the disorder at all
And for my fellow autistics who forget what slow means as an ableist insult, this isn't about speed this is about those who are ableist to those who need more time to process/understand
"im not saying feminism is for everyone but-" the fuck? well im saying that. feminism is for everyone. yes even cishet men will benefit from feminism and cishet men should be feminists because cishet men are indeed harmed by the patriarchy; nowhere near to the extent that women are, but having a culture that is fully equal and anti-misogynist benefits everyone. have we forgotten that lifting up the disenfranchised people in society helps all of us as a collective? "im not saying that universal and unalienable human rights are for everyone but-" YES THE FUCK THEY ARE LOL
hey party people, Iâm here to talk about my experience with transmisandryâ
âyou canât call it transmisandry, misandry isnât real and is an MRA talking pointâ
ok, my experience with transandrophobiaâ
âyouâre not experiencing oppression for being a man, youâre just experiencing misogyny and transphobia (but you canât call it transmisogyny, that doesnât apply to you)â
ok, my experience with isomisogynyâ
âyou donât experience misogyny, youâre a man, and you canât call it your own special brand of misogyny anyways, you donât have it worse than anyone elseâ
ok, my experience with anti-transmasculinityâ
âtransmasculinity is rewarded, as is all expressions of masculinity in this society. Youâre transitioning into privilegeâ
ok, my experience with transandromisiaâ
âyou donât experience oppression, look at all these stupid words you made up to make yourself feel special you little birthday boy tMRAâ
ok, how about we talk about your experience with shutting the fuck up and not taking others talking about their own oppression personally, since clearly you canât stand hearing about us for even one second.
we must have genuinely lost the fucking plot if saying "trans men are oppressed" has people out to wish torture and death upon you
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i feel so defensive and protective of people with ARFID like if i had a disorder that made my brain register 90% of food as poison for no reason and i had a bazillion people on the internet constantly calling me a manchild who needs to just grow up and stop being a picky eater i would start killing people
So refreshing to see ARFID love on my feed as someone with it <3 spreading the love yay
