i'm back with the milk finally

side blog #69 - jojo content mostly but some other stuff too; +18 for occasional nsfw     |"Lolo" - 22 - He/They|      DNI:Terfs/Exclusionists/Antis/Truscum     |I'm 'Problematic' and 'gross', so just block me right now. It's MY blog and I get to choose the content. I only tag things for myself. If you're under 18 and have a complaint then perish.|

[legislacerator]

@ my fellow adults who use tumblr a lot:

can you PLEASE put your age in your about/sidebar and make sure it’s accessible on mobile. imo if you’re an adult esp 20+ it’s a little weird that you wouldn’t have your age readily available on your blog. if you’re reading this now and you don’t have your age listed, please rectify that. i feel like teenagers get lured into talking to adults in fandom/lgbt spaces that they may not have intentionally sought out because they think they’re talking to other teenagers, and this can lead to a lot of other – much more insidious –problems

[zoobus]

Can you guys step out of the tumblr “everyone over 20 is inherently predatory and creepy towards children” bubble for once and consider that encouraging people to give up their personal information for the imagined safety of the community is like…not safe?

this advice doesn’t even make sense for multiple reasons; if someone is intent on preying upon minors, all they have to do is follow your advice and lie about their age, being over 20 doesn’t mean you can’t be preyed on yourself, you should never be coerced into giving up your privacy on social media (seriously, did a fed write this?), and promoting the idea that turning 20 means your interactions with younger people should be viewed with suspicion is absolutely harmful, like OP do you have any common sense? At all?

“ignore your own privacy boundaries and discomfort and if you don’t idk 🤔sounds a lil sus 2 me, pedophile” will you guys stop larping as conservative politicians for one second please

think-of-the-children fearmongering is not the same thing as actually protecting minors

You’re talking about - much more insidious - problems while telling people if you don’t do what I tell you, you might be a threat to the safety of our community, like okay Dubya!

[pro-survivors]

Also there’s a big fucking problem with kids oversharing information about this website to begin with, and pushing the mindset that if you don’t have your age- which is in fact a piece of personal information- readily available on your blog you’re a bad person is bad, no matter whether you’re an adult or not.

[local-redhead-bookworm]

Sometimes it’s not “I could fix him 🥺”, it’s “if literally one person had loved him and shown him kindness, he would be a completely different and far better person, because when you’re treated like a monster, you become one out of self-defense.”

[biillyhargroves]

every single day I think about how Billy Hargrove’s last words were “I’m sorry.” he looked at his little sister with so much sadness and such desperation, coming back to himself after spending an entire week in an absolute living hell, miserable and sad and scared and confused, after having fought a force so much greater than himself because he never wanted to hurt anyone, even held himself back when this monster wanted him to attack until he couldn’t fight it anymore, after both physically and metaphorically facing his abuser and saving the life of a total stranger because she deigned to show him kindness, and he apologized. will I ever know happiness again? the answer is no.

[foxdoodles]

welcome to hellfire

[gsirvitor]

[ichigata-deactivated20260521]

Harringroveson!🤪

[avedanyash]

happy end

[avedanyash]

bath procedures

Billy hates to undo the tangles in Eddie's hair because he doesn't brush himself. but Eddie is very pleased with this concern.

[modordracena]

If a character (in a high stress situation with minimal information) makes a different decision than you would (a viewer with no stress and more information) —

That is not a plot hole. Thank you.

[antishipping-deactivated2024012]

"fujoshi means straight girl that fetishizes—"

"fujoshi literally means 'rotten girl' because they fetishize—"

"it's not misogynistic to—"

"reading mature gay content and shipping gay couples is literal homo—"

"it isn't racist to—"

"japanese people don't even—"

"but—"

[funky-fairfield]

Dwight fucking snaps

[mithryl-draws]

sorry to everyone who followed me for actual high-quality art, i made Dead by Daylight shitposts now.

[rdps01]

fool me, fool me!

[kalofi]

cant believe i’ve never shared arguably the funniest dms i’ve ever gotten in my life

[stranger-rants]

I personally view Billy as queer not only in sexuality, but in gender too.

In my mind, Billy 100% knows he is queer. I don't personally think he's attracted to one gender, but I do think some of his attraction to women is trauma related. I don't think his internalized homophobia is as intense as perhaps gender dysphoria. That is that I don't think he's in denial over his attraction to men, and I don't think he's outwardly homophobic. BUT. I do think Neil has policed his gender expression his entire life and while he does transgress the gender binary, he struggles to do so without shame.

I think it's harder when surrounded by gender conforming men and I do think the excessive working out could relate to some body dysmorphia issues. I could see Billy having an eating disorder, and exercising more than necessary to fit an ideal that perhaps is not natural for him. He was such a soft and "pretty" child who wore flowers on his clothes. As an older teen, he has kept up some of the feminine qualities, but that results in his dad mistreating him. So, it's easier to be masculine but he still does masculinity his own way (a way that Neil doesn't approve of).

[gaymerkat]

This is canon. I know cuz BHVR told me :)

[suledins]

BILLY HARGROVE in STRANGER THINGS 3 ↳ Chapter Three: The Case of the Missing Lifeguard