They always use the word âontologicallyâ as pure projection. Radfems donât need to have a pseudo-spiritual symbolic view of the penis - we simply look at the material reality of the harm itâs caused. But they canât conceptualise sex outside of gender, so anything associated with the material reality of sex has to âmeanâ something deeper. They canât process sex outside of what it âmeansâ, so when they see us acknowledge the realities of sex, they assume that weâre using the same mental processing as them. For them, âfeminismâ must require rejection of sex because acknowledgment of sex necessitates acknowledging sex stereotypes as part of sex.
And hereâs the thing: the penis is âThe Rape Organâ. Not âontologicallyâ - because there are many penises that havenât raped, and rape is committed in other ways. But there is no other part of the body that can forcibly penetrate, ejaculate, urinate, spread stis and forcibly impregnate all in one. Moreover, there is no bodily organ that generates such a clear motivation to rape. Yes, people gain pleasure from other types of rape, but forcible impregnation of women by menâs penises is what the patriarchy is literally built upon. Men happily admit their penis is a rape organ when thereâs no societal stigma against it. Flashers wouldnât exist if men didnât know that their penis is an organ of sexual terror.
Men rape and forcibly impregnate women, using them as breeding stock. That is, to put it bluntly, what ârule of the fatherâ means in practical terms. The penis does not need to be a rape organ, but thatâs how itâs viewed and weirded in society. And sure as shit itâs not feministsâ fault for pointing that out. The moment men stop raping with their penises, especially stop raping women, weâll stop associating their penises with rape.
I had a man get defensive and irritated with me because I called him an asshole. And I had to tell him that itâs not some judgment upon his very soul - rather, itâs a blunt assessment of his current behaviour: the moment he stops behaving like an asshole is the moment I will stop calling him one. It really is as simple as that. Time and time again, women point out basic reality - sometimes making an active judgment, and sometimes simply recognising reality for what it is - and men take that as an affront upon their mortal souls, as some sort of unilateral and unchanging damnation of their very essence. Itâs easier that way, because then they never have to feel accountable for their actions: they get to decide that their behaviour is good and righteous because theyâve decided that they are good and righteous. Trans-identified men, similarly, redefine âwomanâ so that they get to decide that their bodies and behaviour are âfemaleâ because they are female. Itâs the same story every time: men are incentivised to process reality through isolated categorisation, and when women point out the basics of reality they, like a religious person who believe atheists âdeny godâ, have to believe that we are also making an isolated categorisation - and because weâre women, our categorisation must be wrong; weâre just not as deep as them, we donât get it. So the simplicity of our recognition of basic reality is redefined as shallowness and vapidity - just as how religious people view our life on Earth as less ârealâ than the spiritual world. And of course, many religions view women as inherently less spiritual than men.
All of this psychological gymnastics is to justify the patriarchy, which is, at its core, a justification of rape. Patriarchy is built from the ground up on rape, specifically men raping women with their penises. All these supposed âfeministsâ want to fight the patriarchy without acknowledging that basic fact - a fact that is both not difficult to notice and also incredibly difficult to notice as rape is built into the fabric of society.
The trans-identified man with even the best intentions has had his fundamental sense of self constructed within this system: he is a member of the oppressor class, and said oppressor class maintains power through rape with the penis. It benefits him to obfuscate this relationship, utilising those same societal forces that disguise rape as normal to pretend the rape isnât there.