*shrugs*

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[anonymous-and-androgynous]

Stupidly small things that make me dysphoric

-sitting in chairs around other people

-buttons on a shirt

-making eye contact with a masculine dude

-on a bad day, the way I hold things

-warm weather(I don’t know why)

Reblog if you have anything to add

[anonymous-and-androgynous]

Forgot to mention:

-my hands

-my height (small things, get it, cause...

I’m small. 5”0. Yeah)

:,(

[anonymous-and-androgynous]

Stupidly small things that make me dysphoric

-sitting in chairs around other people

-buttons on a shirt

-making eye contact with a masculine dude

-on a bad day, the way I hold things

-warm weather(I don’t know why)

Reblog if you have anything to add

[isthereanyothernames-deactivate]

Does anyone have any tips for expression androgyny? My mom’s asking for a present list, and I want to sneak some ideas…

I am already getting a binder (surprise!! I’m so pumped…!) and hopefully a haircut in January, but I didn’t know if anyone else had input? I’m fairly new to actually expressing myself outside of the closet as nonbinary, so… Heh, ideas/advice? I’d love to hear!

Have a lovely day!

[anonymous-and-androgynous]

You could try mixing traditionally male clothing/styles with traditionally female clothing/styles? For example, wearing a suit with high heels, or wearing all men’s clothing but also wearing lipstick.

[anonymous-and-androgynous]

People with fluid genders:

When you identify with your agab???? You’re still valid??? Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise??

[designsbydesdaemona]

Transgender Snoodle

[depressedanxietydeath]

[anonymous-and-androgynous]

Take care of yourself and if you need to talk I’m here.

[anonymous-and-androgynous]

I wish I was more gay.

[askfordoodles]

“Hey, are you a man or a woman?”

“What gender are you?”

“ Yeah, but what is in your pants? “

[i-am-a-fish]

LET BOYS WEAR SKIRTS

LET BOYS SHAVE

LET BOYS PAINT THEIR NAILS

LET BOYS LIKE PINK

JUST LET PEOPLE DO THINGS!!

[anonymous-and-androgynous]

LET BOYS WEAR MAKEUP

LET BOYS WEAR DRESSES

LET BOYS BE THEMSELVES

[thegaylists]

Trans Music

some cool songs with explicitly trans themes (and with a few exceptions all by trans artists!)

for trans ladies

boy in a dress by namoli brennet

delicate, petite & other things ill never be by against me!

family by she/her/hers

for today i am a boy-antony & the johnsons

g.l.o.s.s by g.l.o.s.s

gender is boring by she/her/hers

genderless by jonesin and the hurt

girl its your time by vivek shraya

i am her by shea diamond

i could use a hug by girls rituals

identity by mina caputo

invertible penis by polythene pam

lined lips and spiked bats by g.l.o.s.s

love is not love by too attached

masculine artifice by g.l.o.s.s

middle age transsexual theme song by polythene pam

outcast stomp by g.l.o.s.s

part time woman by vivek shraya 

salt by bad suns

tall girl posse by polythene pam

targets of men targets of men-g.l.o.s.s

thoughts and prayers by black dresses

touch and go by john grant

trans is love by marissa kay

transgender dysphoria blues-against me!

transworld by girls rituals

transylvania by kim petras

true trans soul rebel by against me!

for trans men

binary by spook school

burn masculinity by spook school

changes by jake edwards

daughter by ryan cassata

daughterson by coyote grace

dysphoria by saint wellesley

fagette by athens boys choir

ftm at the dmv by schmekel

gay shame by schmekel

ghost boy by coyote grace

guy named joe by coyote grace

hold my yod by schmekel

im your man by lucas silveira

man enough by katastrophe

pink & blue by jake edwards

maybe she’s shomer negiyah by schmekel

new men with old man names-schmekel

second puberty by jake edwards

tell me a story by skylar kergil

the binding of isaac by schmekel

the trans slam by ryan cassata

the village by wrabel

you can’t tell me by jake edwards

you’re not the only bear ive fisted-schmekel

for nonbinary folks

am i a girl? by poppy

aquafina by cj run

body was made by ezra furman

gender bronoun by human kitten

gender fluid by elbe

gender queer by lip shit queers

genderqueer love song by schmekel

girl or boy by dani shay

just me (gender binary blues)-jinkx monsoon

precious by jay boogie 

sex:male;gender:whatever-human kitten

they/them by atlas

they/them/theirs by worriers

for gay nb/trans people

aquafina by cj run

fagette by athens boys choir

flirting with her by sir babygirl

gay shame by schmekel

hold my yod by schmekel

homocoming king by athens boys choir

i lost my innocence by ezra furman

return to sender by cj run

spaghetti by cj run

straight boy by shamir 

tangerine by cj run

the metrosexual threw off my gaydar-athens boys choir

you’re not the only bear ive fisted-schmekel

[anonymous-and-androgynous]

Music!

[pickafilm]

PLEASE REBLOG. HOMELESS TRANS TEEN.

I’m posting this for my friend Jackson, he doesn’t have any internet or money where he’s staying and needs as much help as he can get. 

Last year he came out as a trans male to his religious family and they didn’t accept him at all, he’s spent the last eight months in therapy because his family genuinely believe he needs “professional help”. A few days ago, Jackson told his family that he was going to be seeing a gender therapist to see about starting hormones to further his transition. His family kicked him out and are now refusing to let him collect his things including his medication that he takes for his severe anxiety. 

He’s tried talking to his parents, but they keep denying him and continue to misgender him and use his dead name. (Picture posted with permission) 

Unfortunately Jackson doesn’t have anywhere to stay, I myself live in a different country so I’m unable to house him. Because of this, he’s staying in a homeless shelter but he needs to be there by 6pm every night to ensure he has a bed.

Due to not taking his medication, he’s dizzy and sick because he’s dropped off them so suddenly. 

He doesn’t have money for food or his medication. If anybody can donate to his PayPal to help him out, it would be appreciated. But please, spread this like wildfire it is breaking my heart that he is suffering. 

PAYPAL ACCOUNT

[anonymous-and-androgynous]

If anyone here can help him that’d be awesome

[dandelionoldaccountomg]

when i was going through a crisis of “my identity will never make sense, i will constantly have to correct people, and i will never not look female” the one thing i needed was a guide to presenting subtly nonbinary/androgynous/genderless. so here is that guide!

-lots. of. hoodies.

-flannels, which you can find in literally any section! men, women, children, babies. everyone gets flannels!

-no makeup

-for afab folks, cut ur hair! if ur parents dont want u gettin it all short, get it to ur neck/shoulders

-CLOTHES WITH NB COLORS. god i tye-dyed a shirt with yellow, black and purple and it was soooo nice to wear on super androgynous days

-amab= feminine clothes, afab= masculine clothes! pushing away from your assigned gender is just as important as pulling towards androgynous!

-oversized band/fandom shirts! not only super gender-neutral, also a good icebreaker. “you like stranger things, too? are you excited for season 3?”

i rlly hope this helps you! 

[anonymous-and-androgynous]

All of those but makeup can actually be really helpful because contour and also if you look more traditionally masculine you can wear some eyeliner or lipstick and look more mixed!

[anonymous-and-androgynous]

I don't want your assigned gender.

😔

Rip me

[queerlection]

[Image description - Images of the androgyne pride flag with the text: Pride, love, happiness, solidarity. End description.]

[anonymous-and-androgynous]

All my androgyne buddies! It’s our flag! Wow!

[anonymous-and-androgynous]

6 follower giveaway!

Want a chance to win my assigned gender (girl)? All you need to do to enter is like this post! The winner will be randomly selected!

[anonymous-and-androgynous]

Damn it nobody here wants to be a girl -_-

[genderfriends]

Hey! So, um, I need new clothes. Some of them are falling apart: holes, rips, etc. I am AMAB enby, and sick of the wardrobe I've had for years, but I'm not "out" enough for new femme clothes, shoes, etc. My grandmother's been asking if I want another suit. I only have two, and the other I've had for more than a decade. I need to shop, and sadly need to conform to my birth sex, but it stresses me that I can't buy what I need since I'd get scolded for it. Help? Thanks! I'm kinda trapped tbh.

Hey, thank you for messaging us!

I’m sorry that you’re sort of stuck in a situation where you can’t easily get more fem clothing, but luckily there are some types of clothing items that I find to be particularly androgynous that might be able to help you feel more comfortable in your style of dress. “V-neck” tees, for example, are really great for this, and look good when paired with a pendant and other accessories that could be labeled as androgynous– If winter is approaching where you’re from, it might be worthwhile to try out scarves for this same reason. 

Try to experiment with different styles of jackets and outerwear– There are plenty of places now that sell cardigans in both binary sections, and some styles are getting increasingly popular for everyone regardless of gender. 

Pants are also somewhat of a free-for-all in that you have a lot of self determination to do. Tighter-fitting styles and softer fabrics might help you here, and you’ll look great in them guaranteed! If you want to accentuate your hips and you’ve got a few extra dollars, you could look at different types of belts or something like a wallet chain. At the very least, they might help with confidence.

When it comes to shoes, I suggest boots or dressier shoes– You might want a less-chunky style, but you really cannot go wrong either way. Please also consider, if possible, getting some really nice (feminine if you want!) socks that don’t show from inside your shoes. You can try the same thing with different types of underwear, including less noticeable sports bras. Having something on that only you can see can be a great help while keeping you safe.

Lastly, beanies are nonbinary culture, right? Consider trying one of those! By virtue of your gender, you will look good in them.

Best of luck, and please keep us posted on how your shopping process goes!!

–Quinn

[anonymous-and-androgynous]

I’m rebloging this because it’s super helpful

[anonymous-and-androgynous]

6 follower giveaway!

Want a chance to win my assigned gender (girl)? All you need to do to enter is like this post! The winner will be randomly selected!