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thatonekimgirl

guess what’s back? (free dance practice, 02.17.18)

audiovisual-dept

dec13th

“don’t call yourself a fan if you __________” hunty kendall jenner is out there calling herself a model lmao I’ll call myself whatever the fuck I want

kenzanyc

I screamt

thatsthat24

wow another misinformed person who thinks that straight aces and aros are lgbt. why am i not surprised. not every one belongs everywhere. you can accept straight aces and aros, but do not tell them that they are lgbt because they 100% are not. lgbt spaces are for lgbt people case closed. maybe you should brush up on lgbt issues before you invite straight people to be a part of our community.

Please take a step back and listen to how you just conducted that sentence. I’m not quite sure where you’re coming from in life, but it sounds like you’ve been through quite a bit with your identity. So have I. And when I found myself a member of the LGBTQIA+ community, I finally found a huge group of people who accepted me and supported me. I hope the same happened for you. And if not, I hope it happens soon, because everyone deserves that.

Consider people who observe no sexual or romantic attraction, which are legitimate identities, who feel wrong for one way or another. They’re asexual and/or aromantic, regardless of gay or straight, and that still falls under the A in the acronym, but I keep hearing that one half’s not different enough. Not oppressed enough. I would first say, none of us know everyone’s story, and there’s no way we will, so we don’t know what everyone has gone through with their identity. And second, since when did this community become about how oppressed we are? If we, as a group, achieve what I hope we can achieve idealistically and not be oppressed, are we still not a group to be proud of? Why wouldn’t we want this group to be an absolute celebration of all legitimate varieties? A celebration of all our unique experiences and struggles? They’re all different and valid.

Is this demographic of people with a legitimate sexual and/or romantic identity to make their own little group? To be made to feel like outcasts in the real world as well as in this group? I feel that this just furthers the negative, unfriendly attitude that already greatly exists in this world and I don’t wanna promote that. I just would think something like excluding would be for those who make us feel unsafe and that would only be on a case-by-case basis, not for a whole demographic who feel out of place and just want to belong, right? I don’t wanna be that way to people the way the world was to me. They’re not lgbt, they’re A, and that’s part of the LGBTQIA+ community. I can’t change what you believe. And you’re right, I can accept them! I shall, because acceptance in this community is what inspired me and helped me when I felt lost, and I want to be that for others.

arandomfandomgirl

thanks from a lil ace boi

weavemama

reblog flying ass giant pants guys for a fortune of good luck and good cash

weavemama

this is a cursed post that is capable of delivering good deeds

classicantics-deactivated201712

it’s the babadook’s chill cousin; the jeandeine

gay-dnd

i would like to thank this man for being consistently excellent ✨✨✨

gravelyhumerus

reblog this 4.0 gpa for good luck on all of your finals

arandomfandomgirl

we don't even have GPA I'm tryin everythin

m86-deactivated20171116

marcitlali

this is really me after one [1] sip of a rum n coke

997

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middletonroyalty

troyesivan

STILL TRUE

cum-fraiche

i appreciate that he used a black, lesbian couple and their beautiful black baby to illustrate this point because i am damn tired of neil patrick harris being the face of queer struggle