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Random socializing tip: Tell people when they’ve had a positive impact on your life!

e.g.: “Hey, remember when I asked you for advice on X? That was really helpful, I tried it and now (insert what has improved)”

“You kept gushing about (insert series/book/movie/recipe) and made it sound really appealing, so I checked it out and I really liked it!”

“Thank you for letting me vent recently, telling you what bothered me really helped me to work through it / helped me see it from another perspective / gave me the courage to address it with the person I was talking about.”

It helps people see their own strong points, it deepens your relationships, it makes the people in your life feel appreciated and special and it can give you warm fuzzy feelings!

Win/win all around!

labyrinth-of-my-mind-j

Red flags 🚩🚩🚩 that are actually very healthy for your relationship is when they don't text back as fast.. that means they actually have a life and they're doing things that they love, they're busy with the people that they love, and they make time and text you after a while. It is a RED FLAG if they don't tell you what they're doing or just leave with no explanation. But if it takes a while for them to text back, it's perfectly normal. ☺️

the-ferocious-kittyrose

I’m kinda sick of people talking shit on relationships between two grown adults and calling them toxic just because there’s a large age difference.

An age difference in a relationship doesn’t automatically mean that the younger party has no autonomy in the relationship or was manipulated into entering the relationship. I know several couples irl with large age gaps that are absolutely thriving!

Here’s the way I see it, I think it’s definitely weird for someone 30+ to be with an 18-20 year old, because I kinda feel like those are transitional years where people are still finding their footing and growing into full fledged adults, but I feel like once someone’s 25, it’s a little condescending to tell them they can’t date another adult just because they’re older.

I also can’t ignore that it’s usually women who are lectured about this kinda stuff. I know it comes from a good place and people are just trying to help, but it really contributes to the whole “women have two brain cells and are stupidly easy to manipulate so they must be protected at all costs,” thing. Ya know, the same thing that makes people freak out and think they have to lecture women about how, “kidnapping is actually super bad and toxic btw,” when women say they enjoy Viking romance novels.

Women are completely capable of rational thought, we don’t need to be coddled like toddlers, let us make our own decisions.

Of course, relationships with large age gaps do have the potential to be very toxic. These are some of the red flags I recommend looking out for.

The older party exclusively pursues partners much younger than them 🚩

The older partner makes substantially more money/the younger party is financially dependent on the older party 🚩

The older partner pressures the younger party into shit they don’t want or are unsure about (especially long term commitments like marriage or having children) 🚩

scalestails

Pet Store Ettiquite

I figured I’d write this as a little guide, because I see people every day who don’t know or understand these things that make my job really tough or frustrating. Maybe you already knew them, maybe you didn’t, either way I hope at least a few people will learn!

Fish: If someone is getting you fish, please stand off to the side (not behind them) and not in front of the tank your fish is in. I know you want to watch them catch the fish but employees need to stand right in front of the tank they’re getting into and probably need some big elbow room too. Stand back!

If you want a specific fish, absolutely say so . But! Remember that for some fish this will be impossible to do. Or, the fish are for all intents and purposes identical so don’t try to pick a specific one please. Or at least, don’t get mad or think the employee is incompetent because they tell you they can’t.

Do not ask for help with a fish problem, receive an answer, then tell the employee there is no problem and you did nothing wrong. Please, 99% of the time, you did something wrong. Just fix it.

Do NOT open lids or stick your hand into the tanks!! For any reason!

Birds: Do not put your hands near or into the cage. Just don’t! 90% of the time you are scaring the bird and giving them lifelong behavioral problems. Remember, they have had around a dozen people try to poke them, scare them, maybe even yell at them or hit their cage. The public is stupid, don’t be a part of that. Politely admire the birds from a distance unless the bird is asking for physical touch.

DO NOT TRY TO OPEN THE BIRD CAGES. I CAN’T BELIEVE I HAVE TO SAY THIS.

This includes going into any employees only areas related to cleaning cages.

Do NOT feed the birds ANYTHING!! PLEASE YOU COULD KILL THEM.

Mammals: Do NOT open the cages.

Understand that you might not be able to handle the animal. This is, honestly, for the animals protection more than anything. Many people, including those who genuinely think they can competently hold the animal, cannot, and will drop or injure them. I’ve been doing this for 8 years. Chances are, you will drop that hamster so no, you can’t hold it.

If there is an open top type of enclosure, ASK if you may touch the animals inside.

Reptiles: Same as with mammals, you probably won’t be allowed to hold the animal. It’s just a safety thing, nothing personal. Please respect it and the animal.

Do not crowd the employee as they get you an animal. Lots of reptiles are fast and flighty and having you breathing down their neck will do one of a few things; distract them, make them uncomfortable, or get in their way.

Do not scream or jump if a reptile jumps or runs. I know this might be difficult, but try to expect it so it doesn’t startle you. If you react this way you can startle the employee, which may make them make mistakes or become nervous, which leads to more dropping/failure to catch the animal. Especially if they are new.

General: Do not take things from the top shelf! It’s dangerous, let an employee help you.

Please give your kids ground rules BEFORE taking them into the store. So many kids, every single day, come in and wreck the place or hit things because they had no idea they weren’t supposed to. If your child is old enough, before going into the store give the following rules

1. Do not touch the cages or tanks. (Look but don’t touch)

2. Stay with me/don’t walk away.

3. No running.

4. Put things back.

Will they listen? Maybe not, but you can’t get mad at them for getting excited to see a hamster and hitting the cage to get it’s attention because hey, no one said anything about that and you’re a kid so why would you think twice before doing it?

This is more for you than anyone but if you are STARTING to run out of cat/dog food, write down the brand/type (Or take a picture) and get some before you’re totally out. Many, many people actually forget what brand of food they feed and get frustrated when they can’t remember or I can’t figure it out (It’s a YELLOW bag. It’s chicken? Maybe beef. Small breed.). Having that picture will help you a lot! And employees. Heck, to save you even more trouble, call first and ask if they carry it and if it’s in stock!

If your dog is aggressive with strangers, small animals, or other dogs… Please do not bring them into a pet store.

On that note please do not bring animals to the pet store that would be in danger because of it. Like a bird without a harness, a hamster or mouse without a carrying case, or a baby ball python you got 3 days ago (please… stop).

scalestails

Bringing this back because it’s worth reading. You may not even realize you’re doing some of this!

editsteven

jasper lockscreens

m7angela

what a coincidence

sad dads club continues

ardeidae-shiranui

Totally my thoughts about these two

drferox

Freemartins in other species

Anonymous said to @ask-drferoxask-drferox: When cows have a male/female set of twins, the heifer is almost always a freemartin. Why doesn’t this happen in species like sheep, or goats? If it does, it doesn’t seem to be in that noticable rates

It actually can occur in other ruminant species, like sheep and goats, though it’s not as commonly reported. This might be because cattle, and in particular dairy cattle, usually have a higher degree of individual animal tracking while sheep in particular are usually managed as a herd, so it might not be known if an individual that had a male twin is infertile, just that she’s not pregnant. But if they’re wool sheep, it’s quite possible that nobody’s particularly fussed by this.

Ruminants have a particularly funky looking placenta that has a series of nodular attachment sites called cotyledons, and I’ll let you google pictures of that in your own time. These placenta types allow fetuses sharing a uterus to mix blood, and that allows them to mix hormones and stem cells. The male twin of a freemartin can have reduced fertility, but the female twin (the actual freemartin) has a 90% chance of being infertile and often has a masculinised appearance.

This doesn’t happen so much in humans where our placenta is basically a disc on one part of our embryonic sacs (rodents too) so twins are unlikely to share fluid and cells unless their discs are touching. Dogs and cats have a band of attachment around the middle of their sacs, and since they’re kind of stacked end to end inside the sausage-like uterus their attachment sites are unlikely to meet each other.

Biology. It’s weird, huh?

Le fui infiel a mi anterior pareja. Así, a secas, sin eufemismos ni recovecos, porque fue lo que pasó.

Nada justifica lo que hice, pero es algo de lo que me arrepiento y que creo que ya aprendí que no tengo la suficiente ausencia de corazón para tener aventuras sin compromiso y que realmente no comprometa mis sentimientos de culpa o de atracción sentimental hacia la otra persona. No solo lastimó a otra(s) persona(s) sino también a mi misma. Y me rehuso a creer en el “once a cheater, always a cheater”.

Se siente como una marca interna. Es peor porque pues, no es para nada un tema donde alguien pueda decirte “no estuvo mal”. Es algo que no puedes hablar con prácticamente nadie sin que te juzguen y seas tildada de muchas maneras y te vean diferente, y te avergüenza.

Aún si estás arrepentido, a veces recuerdas lo mal que hiciste pasar a la otra persona y lo mal que la pasaste tú por entrar en dilemas gratis. Es peor porque a veces te hace pensar que si hiciste sentir triste a otra persona, entonces ya no mereces volver a ser feliz, porque es como si cargaras con esa felicidad a costa de habérsela robado a alguien en el pasado.

Cuando mi actual pareja me cela aunque sea un poco, lo recuerdo. Cuando quedo de salir con amistades, lo recuerdo. Cuando me vuelven a salir las fotos y textos de cuando estaba con mi ex pareja, lo recuerdo.

Me siento una horrible persona y aún si mi pareja actual sabe de mi pasado y me cree que estoy realmente arrepentida, la única persona que parece que no puede perdonarme soy yo misma.

A veces siento que merezco que me sean infiel a mí, que me peguen una ETS consecuencia de ello, que me caiga el karma. Que no merezco ser feliz porque le borré su sonrisa a alguien que en su momento me quería y, aunque yo no sentía lo mismo, preferí ser infiel pensando que iba a ser solo una aventura. No sé si alguna vez reflexioné si lo hacía por suplir lo que sentía que me faltaba en esa relación o si era otra cosa. El punto es que lo hice con todas las pruebas.

Y pues nada, no espero que alguien me diga que no es mi culpa o le dé cuerda a mi papel de víctima. Es algo que simplemente quería externar. Al final es algo que es lo menos que merezco cargar.

yennefer-fan

Amazing Witcher portraits by Ástor Alexander - source:

https://twitter.com/AstorAlexander/status/1098819408875548677

memyselfandmynonbinaryass

I don’t think Winry gets enough credit as a genius. Like, automail would need her to understand engineering, robotics, anatomy, and particularly how nervous systems work, and she’s technically a surgeon. She was already a regular helper at Pinako’s shop when she was 11. At 15, she walked into a town full of top automail experts and impressed all but one of them with a rush-order arm she’d made. Then, she took over one person’s shop so thoroughly, her customers won’t even let someone else make the outer casings. On top of that, she read medical books as a child and not only understood them, but retained enough of it to successfully deliver a baby years later even though that had nothing to do with her preferred field. And she didn’t have any help from the Truth.

Winry might not be an alchemist, but she’s a medical and engineering genius and somebody needs to tell her that right now.

kvotheunkvothe

emigmatic

@icameheretowinry

vulturecoyotearts

Diaphonized Dragon

No tengo idea de si mi ex pareja siga buscándome en redes sociales. De hecho preferiría que no, para que pueda seguir adelante y ser feliz.

Anyways, algo me dice que si descubriera por lo que estoy pasando, se sentiría bien de que estoy recibiendo lo que merezco.

No entiendo por qué mi novio se enoja tantas veces conmigo :c. Espero que este 2019 pueda comprenderlo.

Mi mente y sus cosas me siguen diciendo que todo es un castigo por todo lo que hice mal en mi relación pasada.

En el fondo algo me sigue diciendo que lo merezco. Que lastimé a una persona que me quería y lo que puedo recibir de menos es que me lastime de igual manera una persona a la que quiero

hormonethief

why are there all these posts n articles n stuff that are like “girls can have short hair!” “girls can wear suits!” but all the women shown are still always only feminine, and whats actually being said is “girls can have short hair and still be feminine!” and “girls can wear suits and still be attractive to men!” like whenever women want to do something men (and sometimes other women too, but men are awful at this) have to find a way to make it Still Okay, Still Acceptable to them, instead of just letting women be! women dont need to fit any standards of femininity or beauty to do something, and they certainly don’t need mens approval

hormonethief

and its really gross considering these articles are usually about styles/behaviors associated with wlw, like they’re basically saying “doing this is okay, as long as youre straight!”

oakttree-deactivated20221126

yeah. if we’re going to say this is great (and it is)

then we also need to honestly promote this as well

robotlyra

Please normalize and celebrate butch.

Ay... esto del Cristianismo y conocerlo :c ¿Se supone que esta es LA manera de ser feliz? Al contrario, me siento cada día más triste, más ansiosa, más culpable

mitssix-deactivated20190516

The most under-appreciated film in history has to be The Prince of Egypt. I mean, I don’t care if you follow the religion, this a good fucking movie.

I mean, look at the love they put into the Egyptian culture and hieroglyphics:

Everybody is actually a realistic color of where they live:

ThE MOTHERFUCKING ART THEY PUT INTO THIS MOVIE

The fucking music alone won a fucking oscar people:

The fucking cast like have you seen this line-up???:

Strong female characters:

And last but not least - THE. MOTHER. FUCKING. BEAUTIFUL. HAIR:

and best of all, even though it’s based off of a bible story, it isn’t trying to ram god down your throat. legit the whole movie is about loving yourself and others

nonbinary-entomologist

I literally just found your blog and wanted to ask if you had any mounting resources (hoping dead bugs don’t make you sad from only five posts in but I doubt it) my friend who is in grad school for bugs taught me some about it when she was in asbergers group with me and it’s the coolest and I want to learn more and do more! But I took a break from college so don’t know where to get started for making my own mounts!

Hey! I do have some mounting resources saved. Dead bugs are an part of my job haha.

Pinning Resources

How to Preserve Insects - Purdue University : a good overview of different methods. Includes videos of different insects being pinned.

Pinning and Labeling Insects - Oregon State University: A shorter pdf that has diagrams of where the pin is inserted for different kinds of insects.

How to Pin an Insect - The Brain Scoop: Real museum workers demonstrate how to pin. I love the Brain Scoop since the videos are fun and have some wonderfully bad puns.

How to Spread A Butterfly Video - Binghampton University: Spreading butterflies is one of the most difficult parts of pinning insects. This video is a good demo of how to do it. If your first couple butterflies don’t turn out how you like, don’t worry! It just takes practice.

Bug Camp by Tim Forrest is a book aimed at middle schoolers that I really like. It covers the kinds of insects, collecting, pinning, and behavior. I was really impressed with it and have used it as a resource for creating entomology related programs. Plus it’s written by professors who teach entomology classes.

Stores that sell equipment/specimens

Bioquip- this is my one stop shop for entomology supplies. They also sell insect specimens for mounting. I have talked to the staff about how they procure their specimens for sale and it is done in a ethical and sustainable way. They do run specials each month. They do have an insect mounting kit. The price may seem high, but supplies can be expensive. It has pretty much the essentials. This is cheaper than Carolina Biological Supply’s insect mounting kit (153$). I also looked at home science tool’s mounting kits and honestly they are not worth it even if they’re cheaper. The equipment is not as nice or durable as Bioquip’s.

Bugs in Cyberspace has an section for dead insects for sale and pinning supplies.

The Entomological Society of America has listings for different suppliers of equipment: https://www.entsoc.org/syseb/systematics-resources/equipment

In the past I made a diy spreading board using old meat and produce foam cartons. I used 2, one for the top which I cut a slip into and one for the bottom for the pins to stick into. I unfortunately threw it out when I moved or I’d have some pictures.

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