Make Your Weakness Your Strength

This is my main. I post whatever here, but I try to keep it pretty clean. - Cassidy | 26 | she/it | primarily sapphic bisexual transfem girlthing

[fairycosmos]

my 5 year plan? find the energy to use my human body to participate in the world in some form or fashion

[armandology]

fuuuuck i just realized that the future idealized version of myself cant exist without current me being the catalyst for change and doing hard things. has anybody heard about this

[the-peoples-puppy]

Does that tgirl have a 'butch haircut' because she's defying gender norms or because hair stylists don't respect her desire for a feminine haircut and nobody taught her how to cut her own hair?

Does that tgirl wear 'butch clothes' because she wants to dress ambiguously or is she too broke to wear anything other than the clothes her parents bought her in high school?

Does that tgirl have noticeable stubble because she's genderfuck or because she doesn't know where to start with buying and applying makeup?

Does that tgirl have hairy legs, feet, and belly because she's a hardline feminist or because electrolysis is $300~ a session?

Does that tgirl want to present masc or is she just poor and isolated?

[the-peoples-puppy]

Damn how could I forget the most important part:

DOES THAT TGIRL LOOK LIKE IF A BOY WAS A GIRL BECAUSE SHE WANTS TO OR BECAUSE SHE CAN'T GET ON FUCKING ESTROGEN?

[smolgirlowo]

the rx-78-2 makes a very compelling case

[armorofvulnerability]

Is my birthday :)

[papayajuan2019]

has anyone also noticed that they feel awful

[bloodhailmp3]

im like if someones deadbeat loser unemployed boyfriend was a girl with a job

[yodawgiheardyoulikemecha]

[morgan-or-whatever]

[redbuddi]

hrrrrng..... women that are large....... and soft........

[redbuddi]

with BIG TUMMIES!!!!!!

[juney-blues]

i'd say i carry a normal amount of all the mild social rejection i've ever received in my body like shrapnel

[soup-mother]

People really will act like having words for talking about transmisogyny is "just asking what's in your pants" and then treat normal everyday interaction as loaded and predatory because they assume you have a penis......

[maidthings]

drag shows are a shamelessly transmisogynistic endeavor where people laugh at people who dress up and pretend to be trannies I'm so tired of having to pretend like there's nuance here

[raibura]

without being controversial about she-who-must-not-be-named...

what is your hogwarts house?

(slytherin)

(gryffindor)

(ravenclaw)

(hufflepuff)

Is it time to move on

Yes

No

Voting ended onDec 28, 2025

[jennybystudiokillers-remade-dea]

im a guy, i have a mullet, im not butch, its just hair. i fully support everyone in the lgbt community

thank you for sharing your story.

[blackpyrefly]

thank you solid snake

[bunniope]

thank you solid snake

[thirstythighs]

thank you solid snake

[armorofvulnerability]

I just want to feel loved, cared about, wanted, even a little bit, even at all. Is that really too much to ask?

[armorofvulnerability]

And I’m procrastinating getting on HRT because, again, I don’t have the energy to do any of this shit and I don’t have all the paperwork I need to even get on the wait list. And I feel like I have nobody community where I live, even though my city allegedly has a thriving queer culture, because the queer friends I HAD here abandoned me with very little explanation if any, and have undoubtedly poisoned everyone’s opinion of the person I am/was/might possibly be, and I can barely stand to be on here either because all I see on here nowadays is hate and hate and hate and the methodical, intentional eradication of the site’s transfem community.

I hate everything about my life right now and I feel like I have nobody to talk to about it so I’m just gonna post it here and hope I feel better after.