My Eternal Paranoia

29 | trans guy | he/they | Lots of anime reblogs; you've been warned

[ashfeelsliketrash]

Trans parenting...

Getting people to take your opinions seriously in a preschool parents-teacher conference at your kids school when you’re a trans guy is HELL. No matter how reasonable your argument is or how cultured or well-educated you are. No one bothers counter-arguing. They just point out that you’re too open minded and part of a minority so you don’t represent the whole group, hence, your opinion is worthless and has to be ignored. I’m SO not in the mood for the world today.

If you’re a trans parent like me. Hang in there. Your kid loves you no matter what. You’re the world to them and they don’t care about what gender you are or what other parents think of you. You’re their hero! Be strong!

[ashfeelsliketrash]

Insomnia again...

It's 5am and I can't sleep. Awesome. Also, sorry for disappearing. Had some serious self loathe issues and a couple of very heated family arguments that got me in the mood to get in bed and stay in bed for as long as possible. I've also being doing some paint jobs at my mother's house so yeah... Life. That sadistic mother fucker.

[theoldaeroplane]

[rainbowdragon2010]

Cute and true

[transmanconfessions]

Underworks just released new cotton lined chest binders. Use this coupon code if you’re planning to order some.

[rlhansen]

Holy Crap, I’m dying!  How have I never heard of The Oatmeal before today?

http://theoatmeal.com/blog/car_needs

[medicgirl68]

OMG love it!

[zaphura]

signs of emotional abuse

the abuser will victimize themselves after abusing u

they will deny the abuse and ur experience (gas-lighting)

they will label u as hysterical or crazy

they will try to lure u into a false sense of security

the cycle will repeat itself after u have surrendered to their security

most importantly, ANYONE can be the abuser

remember, its NOT YOUR FAULT. get help and try to get out of the situation asap.

[orangejuiceaholic-deactivated20]

its official ive been hired by marvel to rewrite everything to make it more gay praise jesus

[wolverxne]

Freddy The Fox by: [Rob Lee]

Photographers note: "This brave fox wandered up on our porch. He's half cat, half dog, and all cute. When the fox first came for a visit we instantly named it "Freddy the Fox." But after we got to know it we found out Freddy is actually Frederica."

[ashfeelsliketrash]

I would have called her Mulder anyway...

[sizvideos]

A pediatrician shows how to calm a crying baby (Video)

[ladycreep-deactivated20201127]

Babies are weird. I don’t like that they cry a lot. I cry a lot and I can’t have that kind of competition in my life right now.

[kween-geetaaa]

I do this to my son and it works lol

[sharmakeswife-deactivated201809]

Reblog to save a parent

[ashfeelsliketrash]

My kid didn’t cry unless she was hungry or soiled, but it might help some other desperate parent.

[minseok-tea-blog]

important things to remember when you look in the mirror ☆彡

[cargifs]

If you support trump unfollow me immediately

[constructionpaperandtears]

[ilikegirlsbro-deactivated201608]

This fucked me up

[ashfeelsliketrash]

How about Death reciprocates with some gifts every now and then??

[greelin]

like it’s 2015 and i’m still using fictional characters as one of my many coping methods to, uh, cope and every day we are one step closer to 2016 where i will more than likely continue using fictional characters as a coping mechanism and i quite frankly am having the time of my life

[ashfeelsliketrash]

Same here and I don’t see a problem with it. Whatever helps you cope, as long as it’s not detrimental to your health... is a good way to cope.

[theslaybymic]

Watch: An agency told Rosie they wanted her “down to the bone” — so she’s fighting back and creating real change.

Follow @stylemic

[sourcedumal]

Modeling agencies are LITERALLY promoting anorexia and other eating disorders. They want fucking emaciation as their standard.

[bismillanh-nu-deactivated202006]

https://www.change.org/p/cj-dinenage-create-a-law-to-protect-models-from-getting-dangerously-skinny-lfw-modelslaw

[ashfeelsliketrash]

friendly reminder: do whatever makes you happy

[micdotcom]

Watch: Bill Nye uses science to defend women’s reproductive rights.

[autumnyte-old]

When I was younger, I wish someone had told me straight-up that not all adults experience “a calling”. That many of them never find particular purpose in a career. That sometimes, their job is just what pays the bills and they have to seek satisfaction and fulfillment elsewhere. 

Because as an adult, this pervasive notion that there exists a perfect path for everyone, that people should love what they do, and that work is meant to function as a vehicle for fulfilling a person’s grand life destiny is not only inaccurate for many of us, it can be toxic.

The ideal is so ingrained that I have to remind myself constantly I’m not a failure because I don’t adore my job, and because I’m not rocking the world with my work. That is okay. 

Sometimes, work is just work. There isn’t always a perfect career path, magically waiting to be discovered. There might not be this THING you were born to do. Sometimes, you discover that what you really want to be when you grow up is “paid”.

[deanplease]

always reblog