New Pin Post
I come bearing life updates.
From my last pin post, I was pretty cynical and feeling down and unmotivated. I met a few new Kannao peeps whose content keeps me going. So some updates:
My Mom's house is up on the market.
My SO and I are getting settled in to our house. There have been a lot of ups and downs, but happy to report I got my security deposit back on the last place which has made things now much easier. I'm rebuilding and saving up again, after losing all my savings on paying two places at once (a house/mortgage and a lease+lot rent). Note I make $45k more than my SO so I am brunting the main course of bills and have more debt (long story short I was previously abused financially by my Mom when I lived with her).
My Mom's dog has dementia. We're keeping him comfortable until it's his time. He really is a good boy. Poor baby keeps forgetting where he is, he needs to be in the same room as us, he misses the potty pad, and he doesn't know which is his food bowl anymore.
Meanwhile my dog is dealing with things of her own because she too is a senior. She needs to go in to have her teeth taken out and has arthritis on all her joints. It's mild and I started her on Lil' Chonk until I can afford to get her to the vet for the injections (the security deposit is helping immensely so she may go in next week)
My SO is learning how to be a cat dad and the only way I can describe it is Skullmug's cat sim video with "KITTTYYYYYYYYYY" because he is a gremlin.
Work is fine, I have a great team and now a new associate I am managing. It's stressful but nothing on my side, it's the nature of the industry.
Also my boss is awesome and has now expanded on my Instagram so I got a work bestie
I'm doing some DIY planning (not big projects like I did at my last place) but like painting and small things like that. I might post here.
Since I'm starting to see things calm down I've been trying to rest my body (chronic pain) and continue working on my creative stuff. It's hard to draw again but I'm invested on getting my new fanfiction Grief and Bad Decisions in full throttle. I think it's also catharsis to help me put my unfortunate experiences to words because therapy evidently never worked for me.
Also I RARELY open up my asks and my messages are ONLY open to moots.
I frequent discord but I require to be friends and message first before I add.












