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You can have sex without romance and romance without sex.
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[ ID: An image set with the demisexual flag, a crumpled paper background, and a gray square in the top left with different facts. Each fact is labeled with a number in the bottom right.
â#06 Ace Fact: Demisexual people donât think theyâre better than allosexuals. Not experiencing sexual arousal until I have a close, emotional bond isnât something I choose and doesnât mean I think Iâm better than other people. Itâs just how Iâm wired.â
â#07 Ace Fact: Demisexuality is different than being allosexual. Thereâs a difference between being sexually attracted to someone vs. wanting to have sex with them. Allosexuals can experience that attraction but can choose to wait; demisexuals just donât experience that attraction until thereâs a close, emotional bond.â
â#08 Ace Fact: Demisexual people still experience stigma like asexual people. Our relationship with asexuality is different, but we still experience stigma, alienation, and the messages that we are abnormal or broken. Itâs important for demisexual people to have a place in the ace community.â
â#09 Ace Fact: Demisexuals need a close, emotional bond to experience sexual attraction. This is based on our own personal experiences and is slightly different for everyone. Emotional intimacy is often a main component.â
â#10 Ace Fact: Gray-A is not the same as demisexual. Gray-A people donât normally experience sexual attraction, but they can sometimes and may or may not act on it, or only under limited/specific circumstances. This is different than demisexuals, who only experience sexual attraction after forming a close, emotional bond. Both are valid.â ]
Hi, I'm currently writing a casual little paper on the asexual experience and if/ how aces experience fetishes and/or kinks.
I've created this survey and was wondering if you'd be happy to share it around so that I could gather responses from aces who both do and don't experience fetishes.
Would you be happy to spread this around? Thanks for your time :)
Thanks for sharing with us!
- Fae
Reblog if you ARE ace, SUPPORT ace people or actually have FANGS in real life
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This is a server recommended to us via a follower. Hereâs a link to many other discord servers tagged as asexual:
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Again, sex is not a âneed.â
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For Aros: It's NOT your fault if someone falls in love with you.
For Aces: It's NOT your duty to have sex in a relationship.
hello! ace people get so much shit so i thought i would give you some reminders :^)
đASEXUALITY IS THE LACK OF SEXUAL ATRACTIONđTHAT BEING SAID, ACE PEOPLE DONT OWN YOU CELIBACYđWE CAN LIVE OUR SEXUALITY HOWEVER WE WANT TO, WITHOUT HAVING TO EXPLAIN JACK SHITđ
(op is ace so dont try me.)
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This is it.
this is by far the best explanation of how asexuality and sexual attraction works
as someone who's actually got no sense of smell, the actual comments i usually get are:
not even (x)?
you're missing out on so much.
that must be great not having to deal with the bad ones.
did something happen to you?
can they fix it?
which like, all comments that i'm sure ace people have to deal with.
yep, 100%!
Truth.
what's the difference between libido and attraction
libido: body says NOW
attraction: body says THIS ONE
Oh my god Iâm over here thinking its this big hard to explain thing but here you are explaining it perfectly in nine words wtf
Reasons an asexual may have (and even like) sexual activities:
to be as close as possible to a partner
physical activity
boredom / to pass time
hormone spikes known as libido / sex drive
trying things out
the physicality of sex sort of evolved feel nice so even without sexual attraction there is the possibility that it will feel nice
making a partner happy makes people feel happy as well
lots of other reasons
hereâs another fun fact: asexual does not mean nonsexual.
asexualsâ relationship with sex and sexual attraction tends to beâŠ.complicated. thereâs a bit of an idea of like, oh of course, youâre either sex-favorable, sex-neutral, or sex-repulsed, but honestly i see a LOT of discussion about how wildly different those can each look for each individual. some people are comfortable with some acts in very specific contexts, and deeply upset by them in all others. some people find certain forms of nonsexual intimacy (like kissing) to still be off-limits, while something most people might consider more charged (like nudity) is totally fine. a lot of us just kind of have a long laundry list like âthis is fine, this isnât, that oneâs okay, that oneâs always off-limitsâŠ.â because the big secret is that âsexâ isnât really any cohesive act as much as a lot of little things that people just threw together and called one thing.
as for attraction: some aces are actually attracted to other people once in a blue moon, and simply donât want to clarify that every time. some arenât entirely sure, but donât want to spend their whole lives guessing. some ARE completely sure they never have and never will feel an attraction.
at the end of the day, much like any label, this single word really doesnât tell you much of anything about what a person is actually like unless you bother to ask them what it means to them.
Thank you so much for writing this down!!!
It is such an individual thing and people try to force all aces into 3 categories (sex favorable/neutral/repulsed) but I could fit into either one of those depending on day/situation/intimate activity...
So really - thank you for this text! đ€đ€đ