I'm just me.

27 year-old hetero(?)romantic ace-girl; I write a blog in German: http://acepride.blogspot.de and I love cake :D If you need advice, got a question or want to talk to somebody: I'm here for you! :)

[aspecpplarebeautiful]

You can have sex without romance and romance without sex.

[queerplatonicpositivity]

Ace Fact Image Set (Part 2 of 2)

[ ID: An image set with the demisexual flag, a crumpled paper background, and a gray square in the top left with different facts. Each fact is labeled with a number in the bottom right.

“#06 Ace Fact: Demisexual people don’t think they’re better than allosexuals. Not experiencing sexual arousal until I have a close, emotional bond isn’t something I choose and doesn’t mean I think I’m better than other people. It’s just how I’m wired.”

“#07 Ace Fact: Demisexuality is different than being allosexual. There’s a difference between being sexually attracted to someone vs. wanting to have sex with them. Allosexuals can experience that attraction but can choose to wait; demisexuals just don’t experience that attraction until there’s a close, emotional bond.”

“#08 Ace Fact: Demisexual people still experience stigma like asexual people. Our relationship with asexuality is different, but we still experience stigma, alienation, and the messages that we are abnormal or broken. It’s important for demisexual people to have a place in the ace community.”

“#09 Ace Fact: Demisexuals need a close, emotional bond to experience sexual attraction. This is based on our own personal experiences and is slightly different for everyone. Emotional intimacy is often a main component.”

“#10 Ace Fact: Gray-A is not the same as demisexual. Gray-A people don’t normally experience sexual attraction, but they can sometimes and may or may not act on it, or only under limited/specific circumstances. This is different than demisexuals, who only experience sexual attraction after forming a close, emotional bond. Both are valid.” ]

[fuckyeahasexual]

Hi, I'm currently writing a casual little paper on the asexual experience and if/ how aces experience fetishes and/or kinks.

I've created this survey and was wondering if you'd be happy to share it around so that I could gather responses from aces who both do and don't experience fetishes.

Would you be happy to spread this around? Thanks for your time :)

Thanks for sharing with us!

- Fae

[fuckyeahasexual]

Reblog if you ARE ace, SUPPORT ace people or actually have FANGS in real life

[fuckyeahasexual]

People reblogging this with “All three″ are valid AND POWERFUL AS FUCK

[gahdamnpunk]

THE UNIVERSE SAID TRANS RIGHTS!! 🗣🗣

[intersexfairy]

the trans flag except the colors were directly picked off this photo of jupiter!

[evildotnet]

[thehumorousace]

Check out the aspec teens community on Discord - hang out with 154 other members and enjoy free voice and text chat.

This is a server recommended to us via a follower. Here’s a link to many other discord servers tagged as asexual:

https://disboard.org/servers/tag/asexual

[celepom]

Again, sex is not a ‘need.’

For All The Links - Check Out My Carrd

[triviallytrue]

Conservatives accidentally doing this never gets old

[triviallytrue]

based

[entitty]

dont any of you dare forget this gem i quote this daily

[arachnid-bastard]

Extremely well played

[gadunkie-deactivated20251222]

[sydsliftingface]

[stevishabitat]

I find this person aesthetically pleasing, a lovely perspective on life, and they seem to have a bangin’ personality as well. 10/10 would definitely have lunch with.

[sydsliftingface]

This is the best amazon review I’ve ever received

[livingbisexualtragedy]

For Aros: It's NOT your fault if someone falls in love with you.

For Aces: It's NOT your duty to have sex in a relationship.

[mxwhore]

hello! ace people get so much shit so i thought i would give you some reminders :^)

👏ASEXUALITY IS THE LACK OF SEXUAL ATRACTION👏THAT BEING SAID, ACE PEOPLE DONT OWN YOU CELIBACY👏WE CAN LIVE OUR SEXUALITY HOWEVER WE WANT TO, WITHOUT HAVING TO EXPLAIN JACK SHIT👏

(op is ace so dont try me.)

[timetraveldean]

[bmwiid]

omg

[wittywallflower-deactivated2018]

REblog if you are Asexual, support Asexuals, or spend most of your time actually thinking about Superheroes.

[twilightchildriku]

This is it.

[stygianirondiangelo]

this is by far the best explanation of how asexuality and sexual attraction works

[iftheywereright]

as someone who's actually got no sense of smell, the actual comments i usually get are:

not even (x)?

you're missing out on so much.

that must be great not having to deal with the bad ones.

did something happen to you?

can they fix it?

which like, all comments that i'm sure ace people have to deal with.

[atalana]

yep, 100%!

[dimanchea]

[awesomeacefangirl]

Truth.

[perksofbeingace]

what's the difference between libido and attraction

libido: body says NOW

attraction: body says THIS ONE

[therainbowgorilla]

Oh my god I’m over here thinking its this big hard to explain thing but here you are explaining it perfectly in nine words wtf

[perksofbeingace]

Reasons an asexual may have (and even like) sexual activities:

to be as close as possible to a partner

physical activity

boredom / to pass time

hormone spikes known as libido / sex drive

trying things out

the physicality of sex sort of evolved feel nice so even without sexual attraction there is the possibility that it will feel nice

making a partner happy makes people feel happy as well

lots of other reasons

[bananonbinary]

here’s another fun fact: asexual does not mean nonsexual.

asexuals’ relationship with sex and sexual attraction tends to be….complicated. there’s a bit of an idea of like, oh of course, you’re either sex-favorable, sex-neutral, or sex-repulsed, but honestly i see a LOT of discussion about how wildly different those can each look for each individual. some people are comfortable with some acts in very specific contexts, and deeply upset by them in all others. some people find certain forms of nonsexual intimacy (like kissing) to still be off-limits, while something most people might consider more charged (like nudity) is totally fine. a lot of us just kind of have a long laundry list like “this is fine, this isn’t, that one’s okay, that one’s always off-limits….” because the big secret is that “sex” isn’t really any cohesive act as much as a lot of little things that people just threw together and called one thing.

as for attraction: some aces are actually attracted to other people once in a blue moon, and simply don’t want to clarify that every time. some aren’t entirely sure, but don’t want to spend their whole lives guessing. some ARE completely sure they never have and never will feel an attraction.

at the end of the day, much like any label, this single word really doesn’t tell you much of anything about what a person is actually like unless you bother to ask them what it means to them.

[awesomeacefangirl]

Thank you so much for writing this down!!!

It is such an individual thing and people try to force all aces into 3 categories (sex favorable/neutral/repulsed) but I could fit into either one of those depending on day/situation/intimate activity...

So really - thank you for this text! 🖤🤍💜