*Sugar Queen*

Hi there!~ 22. Bronx born and raised. Pice-quarian. Avid dreamer and procrastinator. Self taught artist and aspiring future animator. Multishipping trash.

[disruptivedisgusting]

anyone desperate to not seem manipulative when ur only sharing ur feelings smash that mf reblog

[jakemorph]

i think having a spiderman costume as a kid is a universal experience and THAT is toby ma fucking guire’s influence

[jakemorph]

“toby maguire spiderman movies sucked” theyre not for YOU!! theyre for ME AGED APPROXIMATELY 8

[mixedican-deactivated20190330]

45 year old dum fuck: the story is just lacking in emotional denisty bskfksik bajl lakgl isls

6 year old me see spierman do flip:

[headspace-hotel]

being a college student is so primal. Like a wolf roaming the tundra, my only thought is of my next meal. Unlike a wolf roaming the tundra, I have an analytical essay due next week

[dare-to-dm]

I found a tool that let’s you figure out whether men are dominating the conversation or not.

Seriously that’s all it does.  I’m feeling cheeky today, so I thought I’d share.

[adulthoodisokay]

welp, i’ll be using this in every meeting i attend

[nealashitposts]

So I work at a pretty progressive company so at t the last meeting I brought a click counter and I clicked it every time a man cut someone off. I used a pen pad to keep track of the women cutting someone off. Because it happened twice. Both times after they’d been cut off and were trying to finish a sentence. Eventually the men noticed the clicking and would pause and look around. At the end of the meeting I told them the results. In a one hour meeting men had cut someone off a total of 236 times. Two hundred and thirty six.

[drunkenhills]

Two more meetings and you can pavlov your coworkers into not interrupting women

[dirtsnakes]

sometimes making tea is less about drinking it and more ab it keeping you company

[transpondster]

[carudamon119]

[dragoncuspid]

why he do dat

[peekachiu-deactivated20210214]

he checking if too hot

[whatsupbeanie]

Hahaha I’m a functional adult that can use the phone no problem, yep, definitely *sweats*. In all seriousness, I’ve had a huge problem with doing phone calls most of my life and have made huge progress with it to the point that I can sound almost normal during them. The build up to a call is still pure agony though.

[manyofnine]

I am not alone…

[catasters]

[ilastaroth]

who is this graceful medieval noblewoman

[toastbutteregg]

i felt attacked so i thought id post this here and attack all of you

[toastbutteregg]

people:

“when will you graduate”

“why are you still single”

me:

[enoughtohold]

i’m no longer following any rules about how to be a woman correctly, i don’t care who is making them

[rosecrystal]

unfortunately for everybody i will keep doing whatever i want

[shittyidea]

Put “may contain nuts” on a bag of nuts

[killowave]

[pavplayslife-deactivated2023041]

Gearing up for the pokemon league

[micdotcom]

Watch: It’s your right to share your salary, not doing so could be holding you back.

[annakie]

At my last company, one day someone in accounting approached me at lunch and quietly told me I need to ask for a raise because I was way underpaid.

They gave me a number to shoot for.  It was about twice than what I had been making at the time.

So I went online, did some research, found some figures backing up my claim, put it all together and went to my boss.

I got what I asked for.

If it hadn’t been for that person in accounting telling me I was way underpaid, I’d have never known.  I went from barely scraping by to being able to have a savings account and getting all my debts paid thanks to them.

You should at least check sites like salary.com to start the process of seeing what you should be making.

[brianadeshe]

Because this is crucially important

[gayforbagels]

Except for the fact that 90% of the time you are under contract not to talk about your salary otherwise the company can sue you. Every job I’ve had I’ve had to sign that I won’t discuss my pay with other employees otherwise my employment is terminated and the company will take legal action. 

[kintatsujo]

It’s actually illegal for companies to forbid wage discussion, they’re just counting on you not knowing your rights.

[tuf-luv]

Important

[ryantherabbot]

Fuck.

[radiantsolstice-blog]

If you scrolled right past this - GO THE FUCK BACK UP - this is a huge PSA

jfc I’ll be having some words with some folks

[retail-hell]

People at HoAnns believe this garbage that we can’t talk about or wages, but that was how we found out about a gap in management wages, and a gap between people who were hired under the old SM and the new SM.

[the-customer-is-an-asshole]

Seriously guys, try salary.com. I just checked it myself, and now I’m actually pretty pissed

[cherishedproperty]

I always volunteer my salary if anyone asks. And I have found it incredibly useful to know other people’s salaries, to know how badly I am getting fucked. Sites like Glassdoor can be useful for this if you’re outside the company though.

[catchymemes]