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Well spoken. GNU to you Robin Williams.
TL;DR writings by nurseaware
I asked for help creating a post of my writings and Sir did not disappoint. Here’s the TL;DR, courtesy of @sous-sir
Open your damned mouth and talk to each other, you’re partners for fucks sake. SAME TEAM!
When your sub says they have a busy mind, they aren’t lying.
D/s is a 2-way street, mine happens to have clean clothes.
Bitches love laps.
An introspective relation of our D/s dynamic and how that correlates to the satisfaction of providing fellatio and creating aesthetically pleasing and tidy piles of clothing.
Sometimes being really wet isn’t so fun.
Your D can’t build the house without all the pieces
Don’t let your divorced sister tell you your dynamic is wrong.
Gift packs, check-ins, and lists. How keep your /s sane when away
@nurseaware learns what happens to a smart mouth.
“Good Girl”, not just for puppies anymore
There is no such thing as ‘perfect’ D/s.
Don’t listen to nurseaware, I am all that is godly.
I told you bitches love laps.
Every /s is good enough, you just have to help them to believe it
Removing the responsibility mask
D’s can fuck up too. Preaching consent.
Navigating dichotomies as a /s
Sous-Sir can tie a cherry stem in a knot with his tongue
Ask for what you need, D’s can’t read minds.
Laps, the secret cure for a /s mind in negative busy space.
If you give an inch they’ll take a mile.
The small things quickly add up to the sum total of what is great about D/s
Examples of small things (There’s supposed to be 30 but /s are notoriously bad at counting)
Take pride in taking care of Sir’s property
Real shit happens in D/s too
I'm tired of not being able to talk with people about my spanking fetish. It's something that comes and goes but the desire to connect with people who get it and like it is hard to suppress. Besides Twitter and fetlife what is the current way to connect that people are using?
If only.
If only today I could hold you
If only you held me.
If only we could sit and watch the sunrise
If only we didn't have part ways and let this moment slip away.
If only the days before we could be together again slipped past as quickly as the days we are together.
If only.
There are thousands of choices to be made today. Here's to getting a solid B+ on today's decisions. Remember every day we start from zero so don't fret those F days and look forward to the A+ days.
Got a 90 on my exam. One more rotation to go.....
One of the best things about Tumblr is being able to cheer on people who are doing awesome things for themselves. Keep rocking it @nearlydark
Me personally, I was introduced to BDSM in a non sexual way at the age of 14. It was greatly beneficial. He helped me to focus and build self esteem without any sex. Those who see BDSM as just kinky fuckary miss the truth. Every dynamic is unique. I NOT saying I condone underage sex. But if a teen did show interest, I feel explaining all the beauty that is in BDSM is important. This way the stereotype of "its all about sex"/"50 shades" can be put to rest and maybe BDSM wouldn't get a bad rep.
August 18, 2020: Morning
“Grooming is when an adult engages in predatory conduct to prepare a child or young person for sexual activity at a later time. Grooming can include communicating and/or attempting to befriend or establish a relationship or other emotional connection with the child.”
I’m sorry but we see things very differently Anon. I believe that there are things that should not be introduced to children. I believe power exchange dynamics are one of them. What you describe above is the textbook definition of grooming, and I don’t condone it in any way. I think that BDSM gets a bad rep because it attracts predators, misogynists and abusive men. Because it attracts such people, I believe it is especially important to keep children away from BDSM. Sorry we don’t see eye to eye on this one.
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BDSM is not a teenage confidence-building activity.
Lots of us in the D/s community recognize that it’s about way more than sex/kink, anon. But non-sexual D/s is an adult-only activity as well. Power exchange is incredibly emotionally intimate. Children can’t choose to let go of power because they don’t really have any. Now that you’re an adult, doesn’t it strike you as messed up to think about doing power exchange with a child? Some 14 year olds at still in middle school. They need parented, not power exchange. I’m really sorry for what happened to you, but it was unquestionably grooming and abusive even if it felt loving to you. :(
Going to archive and reblog with the excellent additions. Thanks Amy. 🙏🏻
ALWAYS…💙💜💙💜
Waiting is the hardest part …
Waiting is hard but its the best foreplay for a gratifying and mindblowing release.
You can have anything you want if you are brave enough to ask for it, strong enough to take it and caring enough to hold onto it.
The power of not participating in someone else's drama.
The director of cybersecurity from the Electronic Freedom Foundation is offering to help women who have been threatened with compromise of their devices.
I better see EVERYBODY reblogging this
Miss Annie has been sick this week, so we’re pushing our True Vintage release to 5pm pacific time today. But the good news is that we’re adding in some truly fabulous extras, like this one of a kind pearl leash! Make sure you hit up the website right at the launch, all pieces are one of a kind and they go FAST!
https://www.restrainedgrace.com/collections/true-vintage
Anyone else see a hand first then pearls?
My first bacon, in progress!
1 hour into smoking...
Fresh off the smoker last night
Alright, it’s looking like bacon!
I woke up the whole house with the smell of it roasting. And damn, it was absolutely worth a week of work.
I need more bacon on my timeline!
remember when angelina jolie got a double mastectomy and Every Single Man on Earth acted like it was a personal attack on them specifically
Even though by the time it was announced she already had her breasts reconstructed and she was only going public about it to warn other women about risks?
I’ve been thinking about this a lot as several of my friends deal with breast cancer.
Hood with a bun! :) Pretty proud of myself for being able to put my hair in a bun AFTER the hood was put on.
Not sure I like the hood with the clear panel gag, but figured someone out there might like it. I’m looking forward to trying out other gags with the hood to see what looks the best.
Imho, it’s all awesome and you’re always BEAUTIFUL
What’s funny is when you read articles about what happened, they never mention how Yahoo promised no ads only to put in ads anyway, pissing off and alienating users. They never mention that Verizon’s idea of “no adult content” was to implement poorly trained bots to clear the site of anything that looked like a tittie, which utterly failed at clearing the site of adult content or spam bots and instead forced millions of SFW users, especially artists, off the site. Instead they just say “Verizon’s decision to ban adult content upset and alienated many users.” Like no, that’s not even remotely what happened. I get new porn/spam bot follows daily even now, the problem is the worst its ever been, Verizon failed spectacularly at doing what they said they’d do (including protecting artists etc. from being targeted by their algorithms). The news wants the public to believe that we all threw a hissy fit and left en masse like a crowd of depraved neckbeards when tumblr banned adult content, driving the site into the ground as we left. Not a single article I’ve seen has discussed how Verizon/Yahoo is at fault. Not one.
Shibari Basics 5 - Knots to know:
Fun and beautiful work can be accomplished with granny knots (half hitch) square knots, and simple hitches (once or twice around). These are all basic knots, and if you can tie your shoes you are halfway there. The larks head sounds exotic, but it’s just a loop in the line, critical for tying on added rope over those knots I made you tie in the ends. When comfortable with these, maybe try the Munter Hitch, and Summerville bowline, shown below.
- Single knot; used to knot the ends of your shibari rope, and for many ties like the karada harness, which is built with a series of single overhand knots :
- Granny knot; can be used in place of a single knot when more tension is required. They’re hard to untie when loaded with tension:
- Square knot; similar to the granny knot, but easier to untie, and won’t lock down when loaded with tension. Tying a square knot is generally preferable to a granny knot, because they’re easier to untie, and just look better:
- Larks head; used to add on a new rope by making a loop in the bight, and to lock off and change directions on a rope in a tie:
- Munter hitch, just a reverse in directions around an existing rope, that locks the ropes in place a little better:
- Somerville Bowline is a good replacement for single and double column ties, and for lines which are going to be heavily loaded, as when used for suspension. If you aren’t suspending, you may never need a somerville bowline:
In addition to these knots I would recommend leaning two basic ties, the single column tie and double column tie. These are not really “knots” and are not quite harnesses, but they are the foundation of many many ties. Tying both correctly is critical, as tied correctly they will not slip back and tighten around the limbs to which they are tied. This helps ensure your rope bunny can continue to use their hands and feet. Hands and feet are good. Nerve damage and gangrene are bad.
Learn these two ties, practice repeatedly, and test as you tie and retie, to ensure no slippage when you pull on the ropes. These should work even with poly ropes, but it does take a bit more care to cinch them, and the slick cover is more prone to slip. Always leave tension light enough to slip one or two fingers under the tie.
- Single Column :
Watch the how-to video by esinem here:
- Double column :
Watch the how-to video by Twisted Monk here: This is post 5 of 13 planned posts on Shibari Basics. See them all (as written) with the tag “Shibari basics.”
“SpiceNWolf Links” takes you to our links page that includes a catalog of tagged shibari images.
I love a good educational tumblr post.