Love Begins
Andulka
Three Goblin Art
we're not kids anymore.
shark vs the universe
Jules of Nature
he wasn't even looking at me and he found me
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d e v o n
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@theartofmadeline
noise dept.
Janaina Medeiros
let's talk about Bridgerton tea, my ask is open
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Product Placement
祝日 / Permanent Vacation
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Monterey Bay Aquarium
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@bazaardvark
Embroidered tights
https://www.etsy.com/shop/emteesee
very cool
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I unapologetically love entomology clothing even if I couldn’t pull these off
I wore the artist’s ant version of these at my wedding (and I still I continue to on everyday occasions), and it made/makes me sooo happy
@bazaardvark 😍
RPGs, or relentlessly persistent girls by cassandrha
Forever
Match #312 - Last post of the year… wishing you guys all the best for 2016!
Shoes at Emilio Pucci Fall 2015 | Constellations by Nikki Strange
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Most important shoes
This is the number one thing I hate about academia, everyone just shitting on each other all the god damn time
EXACTLY AUGH
Sleep
http://www.ordinarycomics.com/comics/2014/09/29/29september2014.htm
34 The poem moves north. “Good-bye." "Good-bye.” North In dark dawn to Vermont, snowflakes drifting Among the pines, a pickup, a Ford ¾-ton, F-250, 4-wheel-drive, rusty green with one door Crimped shut forever and a busted gear Banging in the front axle. “Good-bye.” (O God, clinging.) North means the way – Bearing this image, the slight girl Beneath great trees Standing half-turned, head bowed, a swirl Of yellow hair. “Good-bye.” The windshield Fogs in the cold and the snowfall thickens. North Means the way, loneliness, a snow-blurred field, Existence, seeking what a life is worth
Hayden Carruth, “The Sleeping Beauty,” Collected Longer Poems (via heteroglossia)
Pressed flower sculpture by Ignacio Canales Aracil.
this is so cool?!!
by Torfinn Rosfjord
“Morning View” Oltedal, Rogaland, Norway
do i have a crush on you or am i just lonely
do i like you or do i like that you like me
do I like you or do I like the idea of you
do i want to be in a relationship or do i just want to prove that i’m worthy of one
Is anyone gonna eat this taco or should I just assume that they aren’t
On repeat in my head lately
In 2016 discover that life is better when you try to see what people like about the stuff they like before dismissing it. In a culture that places a premium on collecting the “right” knowledge and interests, wherein individuals put a lot of themselves into their preferred media, you learn a lot about people this way. I mean some stuff is never going to appeal to you, it doesn’t have to, but shutting up and trying to see why your friends are excited about something is a good way to be a better friend.
Ways men opt out of housework and childcare by “helping out”
take on weekly or monthly tasks, and think it’s equal to their wives daily tasks (even when wives also have weekly and monthly tasks)
take on tasks that require very little time or hard labor, like mowing the lawn.
take on a “project” that could be fixed by a professional, and work on it little by little but never really finish
create chores for their children, i.e. delegate rather than doing
do housework only in tandem, i.e. never on their own or without help.
volunteer on their own for some disliked task. For example, cleaning the toilets without asking. unfortunately, this tends to be seen as very loving and exceptional. Often it will be used as an excuse not to do anything else
enthusiastically volunteer to do things often, then conveniently “forget”, “make plans”, or have some sort of weird parameter to get started. When wife or child does it instead, claim they were going to do it, really!
pick a jurisdiction they already enjoy, like “take care of dog” or “the yard”
do something really badly, so that someone else has to do it for them anyway afterwards
“tidy up” a mess they made
pick up or organize clutter, however the often stressful, emotional, and time consuming task of de-cluttering is left undone or for someone else
meticulous keep clean a space that is only theirs, i.e. their study, their garage.
create tasks that aren’t needed, like “organize the toolbox” or “rearrange the bookshelf”
do tasks that require prep work that their wives will do for them (i.e. grilling the food, but not planning, purchasing, seasoning or preparing the sides)
take control of “finances” but do very little, perhaps the taxes. this is also used as a way to control their wives often
use their time with their children to play or dole out discipline/lessons, but very little time on feeding/bathing/dressing or organizing their lives. this is also away men can create a “fun parent/mean parent” dynamic
make lists of what needs to get done, discuss what needs to get done with their wives, act very invested in the housework, take on a “manager” role in the housework, but do very little of it
tell wives that what little is done in the house, by either of them, is “enough” and that he “doesn’t care” what the house looks like (this is a l i e). i.e. doing little and then making an emotional appeal that it’s fine, co-opting the emotional labor his wife does for him, but actually it’s very manipulative
getting involved with children’s after school activities, i.e. being a coach, organizing a concert, etc. often a thing he already enjoys. often does very little of the organizing/plan making. often makes little effort to create time for his wife’s personal interests
pay attention to your fathers, brothers, uncles, grandfathers, boyfriends, husbands actions. you’ll start to see these constantly
Recognize how you hurt people not just how people hurt you
