Bigender Queenie

Gender does not define me as a person. I have a good heart and a good sense of humor. Cats are life, chronic pain sucks, and having gender dysphoria is a pain too :( My pronouns are he/him they/them prefer not she/her but won’t feel offended if said on accident. Thank you 🙏🏻

[dre4ms-v-reality]

I actually think the saddest thing I’ve ever done in my life is beg someone to love me as much as I loved them

[mysharona1987]

[sleepyoasis]

Hey, I got a lil bored and decided to make some quick LGBT flower headers.

         💖 Free to use, if ya want to! 💖

Part One (you’re here!),  Part Two , Part Three

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[mymentalillnessvents]

You know what’s fun? Constantly getting super attached to people you know will have to leave you (psych’s etc) and not being able to stop it :’D

[thatthursdaygirl]

when you see your favorite person talking to someone else 😔😔😔💔

[eternalsighstuff-blog]

favourite person: *ignores me*

me @ my brain: don’t panic

brain: oHMYGOD

[bigenderqueenie93-blog]

Hey All

I know I haven't blogged in a while but I feel like things were going well with my gender identity. All of a sudden, the dysphoria is coming back full force. I have been accepting myself as female and male, but I have been feeling more masculine lately than feminine. I am having hard time coming to terms, so I've been watching YouTube videos on gender nonconforming people. It's been helping me out a lot. I still identify as bigender (non binary) But lately seems like people using pronouns like her a lot more, I've been cringing because I don't feel comfortable anymore with that pronoun. It used to not irritate me when people called me her or him, but now the pronoun "her" has been really getting to me. I prefer my pronouns as them/they/him/he.. mostly they/them.. I am not even com anymore with he/him.. I have been having a hard time filling out applications for jobs and on the application it tells me what my gender options are: female or male.. I don't know which one to check, I'm afraid if I check other as an option on the app, they will not let me have the job. I worry to much, because here in my state is a bunch of transphobic people.. Thank you for letting me express myself tonight.

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[bigenderqueenie93-blog]

YES!!!

[gaywrites]

Coming soon: MyTransHealth, an app connecting trans people to knowledgeable, reliable and affordable healthcare providers. 

19% of trans people have been refused healthcare because of their gender identity. 50% of trans people have had to teach their doctors about trans-related medical care. 28% of trans people have been harassed in medical settings. This app is desperately needed. Follow them at mytranshealth. 

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I AM CRYING HOLY SHIT. This is so important. You know I’m serious because I am actually using these things called capitalization and punctuation. You guys. Please. Please boost the hell out of this. It means so much.

[madmadcat]

*SLAMS THE SHIT OUT OF THE REBLOG BUTTON*

[inconjuncts]

omg pls make this international / not just US-centric!

[mytranshealth]

We won’t rest until every trans person on the planet has access to safe, affordable, and reliable health care. 

[bigenderqueenie93-blog]

INCREDIBLE I LOVE THIS 💜💜💜

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[bigenderqueenie93-blog]

YES!!!

[bigenderqueenie93-blog]

I have a transphobic “friend”

As you may know I came out the other day telling you, I came out to my mother. She was very understanding and told me she loves me no matter what. I came out to few of my friends who are very understanding and said they will respect my pronouns. However I have one “friend” she really isn’t a friend but she is a friend to my other friends, confusing I know. I don’t like when she makes homophobic/transphobic remarks about others, she knows I struggled with my sexuality, but I haven’t come out to her fully about my gender identity. If I do she will call me a freak, not respect my pronouns, and constantly tell me I will burn in Hell. Here my mom is a strict strict Catholic, and she told me last week she loves me no matter what and God does not hate me. I don’t like this person in my life, I’ve been trying to cut her out but I knew her for 12 years, I just wish she would change her ways. It’s 2018, we don’t need to be hateful towards gender identity, sexuality, race, religion, culture, disability, sex, and income! Respect me and my pronouns if not leave my life!

[polniaczek]

Mädchen in Uniform (1958) dir. Géza von Radványi

[bigenderqueenie93-blog]

One of my favorite movies along with Loving Annabelle!!

[feministism]

[bigenderqueenie93-blog]

Absolutely love this!

[genderqueerpositivity]

(Image description: a black background with the words “support asexual people” in purple, gray, and white letters.)

[genderqueerpositivity]

(Image description: nine brightly colored squares with text in the center. They read: “My gender is beautiful. I am already “trans enough”. I love myself. I deserve to have my gender respected. My chosen name is my real name. I am worthy and brave. I deserve to be safe. Trans is beautiful. I am proud to be queer.“

[bigenderqueenie93-blog]

I’m proud to be gender fluid 💗

[gender-moodboards]

Genderflux magical girl and video game aesthetic

[bigenderqueenie93-blog]

Love this!