Hey, @mochacourse since I have receipts for something, but can’t get mobile to work right with submissions, I’m gonna put them here! Tw: sex and genitalia talk, desexualization of aces, mockery, harassment, relapse mention
This is from a couple months ago, but it fits with the current claiming their harassment/mockery/desexualization “doesn’t have IRL consequenses” theme lately.
This was an incident where a harmless little post accidentally wound up in the wrong tag (ace discourse) and was met with harassment, mockery, and even desexualizing ace people when a simple, “hey this isn’t discourse, did you mean to put it here?” would have solved the problem. For reference, this is the original that started this:
Simple little post, and completely harmless. Exclusionists response to it instead of “this isn’t discourse?”
dickscourse and hetmarki:
Quite literally, OP: “I dunno what you guys are on about, the character I mention gets a boyfriend”
These two: “lol no he doesn’t fuck you, we’re gonna compare aces like you to genuinely harmful shit and kinks and mock your terms like qprs because it’s funny!!”
Alongside talking about kinks/sex to a person who they don’t know the triggers of or what they’ve been through and most likely caused their relapse with those comments. Not a single exclusionist said anything about it and as far as I know, continue to platform them.
“asexual can’t ever have and enjoy sex because the “a” literally means “not”.“ As if sexual orientations are totally all about sex because most of if not all of them have the same base word “sexual” with different prefixes./s
It almost like rebelblaze seems to equate all sexualities directly to sex and not to what gender a person finds attractive. Try using rebelblazes logic on defining sexuality by the literal definitions of the prefix+word combo and tell me it’s not disgusting. This is desexualization of asexual and if this is how they(?) view sexuality then sexualization of literally everyone else.
Just someone else equating sexualities to how much one fucks/wants to fuck! Bonus for that comment equating struggles we face to just not wanting to bone.
It’s not like my struggles involved stalking, threats of harm I won’t specify here, harassment (including sexual harassment), and suicidal tendencies due to all the above all from coming out as ace when I was about 14.
But you know, “not wanting to bone” was totally my biggest worry.