Blissing Up Living

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they said, "explaining yourself is really hard!" BUT when we did how come it became the VICTIM CARD?

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Blissing Up Living

Why i chose it? because its kalyug, we are living in it and in future its gonna be worse and is destined as we say for our lives, but there exists a theory that actions, belief and faith can ultimately change what is destined and i believe that we together if dream and pursue this belief, possibly this kalyug could stop being more worse or even could end.. and this journey has to be started from us, from our lives, spreading the positivity from us i.e blissing up our lives, we have to bring up the positivity by moving our lives to the positive direction and by that i mean creating positive aura, positive energy all around because ultimately that would affect the surroundings by one or the other way....

we say we are spiritual, we pray for positivity, we visit religious places to get ourselves alive, to get through the hard times and this we all must have felt that we do feel some strong energy that lights up our mood, calms our mind and makes us smile again.. and we need to bring that same aura, vibe and energy to our environment, surroundings too to end this negativity, negative perceptions, anger, unsatisfaction, depression, stress, anxiety and this all does not require a lot efforts. Just some small actions that would be included in daily life and boom your life will automatically start setting up, you will keep wearing smiles, you won't take excessive tension or stress, you would excel your field and majorly contribute yourself for adding up positive aura around and bringing smiles to others as well..

Actions to bring in: *whenever you are up, the first thing to do is say "THANK YOU" to everyone included directly or indirectly in your life, to the god, to parents, friends, colleagues, plants, air, earth....... *the second take your meals on time, try to include every source and variety, don't go strict but don't always cheat *take on your hobby on weekends(if could go daily, must), give your time to yourself *responsibilities must be taken as a 'task' not as your 'life' *and the last and most important, pray-believe-pursue

nothing is impossible, starting is always hard and growth is never boring ~shreya sharma

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Mindsets are appreciated, But ACTIONS are REVOKED...

We say we are cool We say the world is realizing We say it’s modern developing era We say we accept We say we have modernized We applause the speakers We appreciate the writers

and then boom, if someone is actually going forward putting the steps into it, “Are you Mad?”, “This is what our culture says?”, “Is this what we have taught you?” and the list goes on of questions, taunts, emotional blackmails and so on…

We have always dreamt of freedom, We have always dreamt of success and then we don’t even allow for holding onto opportunities, and say it’s not for everyone, you won’t be able to do it and then cry for the decisions..

And just there i ask, Are you the supporter or just another person to let them know they are not worth? Why curse them for their decisions? In fact, you should be proud that he knows where to put on the efforts because half of our people struggles to actually decide what to pursue and its not just the theory but the reality “where it’s the heart, there is always commitment..” and the roads get build up according to time..

Let them at least try, let them explore, let them bring the change, let them start it, possibly it was never written or done but what if he became the first one to achieve?

We appreciate when others do it, then why not allow our people to actually live through it??

Life is one time opportunity, let them try, explore, take the risk and live…

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My Conditions, But people know more about it….

Remember the times, when we were teens, and we often blamed our parents that they don't understand us, our situations.. We even used to have an argument with them and then slowly we started taking our own decisions, because we knew that no one can understand our situation better because we are the ones going through it, and by understanding all the factors we used to take the best decision possible, and that decisions got to be right majorly and if not we used to correct it anyway..

Right?

And now look at it by this way… There got some incident, and without even knowing whole story, no personal relation with that person we just start blaming, cursing, abusing the person from the reviews or the news(which could have a chance of not being correct). And torture the person's mind and ruin his life to that extent, that he can't even breathe properly, live the life he has the ownership of…

And because of whom? US!

We say we are mature enough, intelligent enough, understanding enough, ARE WE? Because of us, someone's life is getting challenging, someone's smile has be snatched, its difficult for the person to restart, to live..

We don't know the story, We don't know the people involved, we don't know the circumstances, the situations, is it then right on our path to be the reason someone takes his life? or curses his life? or blames the god?

Just imagine, you got scammed, and someone else plays the victim card and files the complaint and you got prisoned. You know you are right, Your family knows you are right, so they applied for bail and luckily you got it(because its not that easy), but as soon as you came out, people started commenting, he went to jail, definitely he would be at fault, wherever you go, you get the same response from everywhere, and your living got affected, you mental health got affected, you got affected, your family got affected..

Who was at fault then?? THE COMMENTS, because its not easy to fight, but still you are fighting, by people, by laws(sometimes), by procedures, by fate and then those comments ruins everything for you..

Here we need to understand, we are just humans, sometimes we could be at worst and sometimes the worst could be with us, we must not judge, comment, or spread any negative words or energies in any form to anyone.. (maybe it could backfire us, and then we could not help out with that)..

This is our home, and we need to create home for everyone, so the person knows he could fight for himself, we won't judge, he could live his life, he does not have to fear before stepping out from home.. Life is not easy, bad times could hit anyone, support is required but letting that home remain home is much more required…

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Tackling DEPRESSION, ANXIETY, and PANIC ATTACKS

Mental Stress, the only one thing that actually ruins everything including our own selves. The factor that decides how we look at the world, the factor that decides our reactions to everyday actions, the factor that decides the level of satisfaction and happiness we get from our life.

Whenever these days or moments come in your life, remember the god and say him

"You are the ultimate creator of this world, of this earth, of all these creations including me. You are my guardian, You are my protector, You are my shadow, the one who blesses me at every step, and thank you for upbringing me, today I am looking forward the positivity, the energy that belongs to you, the magic of you, I trust you, I believe you, I feel you and your blessings. I know you have chosen me in this Kalyug, to make me aware, hard and strong, and you have selected me to get through and still remember you and walk through your teachings, and I WILL.. I know you are there, I know you are beside, I know you are along and i have to tackle, buckle up and get through. And whatever the result be, may not be in favour of me but i believe and i know would definitely benefit me in my future.. I won't let you down, You have chosen me and I will make you feel proud of human. humanity and your belief in me.. "

jai shree ram | Waheguru | Allah uh Akbar | bless jesus | radhe radhe

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आसमान से हवालात

इस ज़िंदगी से बहुत कुछ चाहता था एक सपना उस आसमान को पाना था और दूसरा इस ज़िंदगी में किसी खास के साथ कुछ खास पल बिताना था

लगा हुआ था उस आसमान को पाने अपनी ज़िंदगी को इस कदर सफल बनाने कि यह समाज मुझे ना दे ताने और यह दुनिया भी मुझको जाने

और उसी बीच किसी ने आवाज़ दी साथ चलूँ क्या साथ निभाने मैंने भी मुस्कुराकर हाथ थाम लिया मैंने उसे अपनी ज़िंदगी करार दिया

दिल फूल चुका था जैसे सब भूल चुका था उसने मुझे फिर फूल दिया था दिल ने भी उसे कबूल किया था

मैंने प्यार को इतना प्यारा ना समझा था और उसने मुझे अपना सा कहा था मैं हूँ ना पर मैं फिसल गया था हाय मैं उसका दीवाना बन चुका था

पर फिर अचानक सब तेज़ी से चलता गया उस आसमान में मैं उलझता सा गया डोरें मेरी जैसे कोई धीरे-धीरे खींचता गया पर फिर भी उस पतंग को जबरदस्ती कोई उड़ाता गया

कभी आगे बढ़ने का जुनून उठता था कभी नीचे गिरने का डर सताता था पर वो आवाज़, वो शख्स, वो आसमान जैसे सब एक झाँसा सा था

पर फिर वो आई इस बार मुझे पता थी सच्चाई मैंने पूछा मैंने तलाशा और मिलती गई कहानी पे कहानी और उस कहानी में छुपी हुई न जाने कितनों की दर्द भरी ज़ुबानी

मैं डर चुका था मैं टूट चुका था मैं फँस चुका था मैं सहम चुका था

ना छोड़ा उसने एक पल भी मेरा साया हवालात तक उसने मुझे पहुँचाया जितने हो सके उतने इल्ज़ामों में मुझे फँसाया मुझे मेरी सफाई का एक मौका भी ना मिल पाया

ना दोष, ना कोई गुनाह मेरी रूह बस होना चाहती थी फ़नाह इस जुर्म से जो जुर्म ना था इस दलदल से जो सब बनावट का था

मुझे कुछ समझ ना आया भगवान तूने मुझे किससे मिलवाया सब सही था अकेले में फिर क्यों तूने मुझे ये दिन दिखाया

समझता हूँ तू चुनता है बुराई का खात्मा तू खुद बुनता है

मैं थक चुका हूँ फिर भी लड़ रहा हूँ तू देख ले मौला मैं अब भी खड़ा हूँ

मुझे ताकत दे इस कलयुग में तेरे बेटे को कोई छू ना ले लड़कों की कोई सुनता नहीं यहाँ तू तो मुझे अब खिदमत दे

पूजता हूँ, सहराता हूँ मैं भी उस माँ को मगर उसी की बेटी ने मुझे हथकड़ियाँ नवाज़ी हैं क्या है फ़ायदा उस कानून का अगर उसी माँ के बेटे को अगर चढ़ जानी फाँसी है चढ़ जानी फाँसी है…

GENDER DOES NOT DECIDE TRUE STORY!!

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Developing MIND Maturity

CORPORATE: the word that haunts every teenager with respect of environment and load. Which is not because they are not willing to work but because there is not a mindset of people that actually understands the word and life of corporate.

Corporate does deal with professional attitude but in a firm manner. And here comes the breakdown, we are actually not prepared for corporates, the corporate mindset..

Everyone is filled with anger, frustration and stress in todays generation and we are not actually prepared do deal with the things that happen then in our professional lives..

We see the situations many a times from a single instance and there it is required to keep the mind calm and cool and look at the issue as a whole to solve the problem. The things often are not the way it looks like, and there we end up arguing with our colleagues, taking too much stress and ultimately ruining some phases of life. This may look a small incident but actually sometimes it creates a huge mess and adds up to the memory for the rest of the lives..

The professional personality should never be compromised, the good will should remain intact. Due to any of the xyz reasons we should never ever walk through the way that's not professionally or humanly correct. You can have a win for once doing that, but in long term it would definitely show you the way you deserve because of the actions committed..

We are not the ones to judge but definitely the ones to judge ourselves through our steps, and what does that lead to, "YOUR ACCEPTANCE, IN YOUR OWN STORY"..

The corporate will get better, but when you decide to be good in corporate.. The changes would go slowly. but once you start, you influence and the further act, inspire and then it would lead to some potential personalities that would bring your imagination to REALITY, and those minds that would not only work but develop in CORPORATE..

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Yes, sometimes life is not fair. It does not always follows the rule of give and take, but is that the thing that must matter in life? Probably Not, Life is not something where I must have the report of my every action and analyze the things and blessings I received instead my focus must be on the things I can and should provide to this world as humanity. The life is beautiful, according to every other person, But what does it takes to make life beautiful? Our pure intentions, Our purity towards our actions, our selflessness towards every help and a sense of relief behind our prayers.

Life is not fair, I do agree but does life needs to be fair to be accepted? Life is not just the game of deeds but also the journey that needs to be enjoyed, lived and smiled all through. The journey whose each moment must be worthful, because that won't return at any cost but could be remembered and relived with more loud laughs.

Life, maybe its not 50-50, but lets try to give our 100 so that it could give its 50 atleast….

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AND?

and now the time comes to get the things done for me but really is that me? or the society that pushes me to get fit in? or the lack of my inner strength that does not allow me to accept me?

Maybe i have the rights to blame all the above things because at some point each point fits in and gives reason that holds me back even while thinking of taking the first step. I really wonder sometimes, Whose is actually this life? Why i always hold myself back and leave the things to my head and that does not even comes to the reality and becomes a fictional story whose only reader is me.

Does this story don't deserves to be the one people gets to know about? Do I have to too become another unrecognized person on this planet? Should i also mix up with all those societal norms and make myself lost?

NO, Not again.. I decided to have a BUNNY life, and i definitely had to get up from my bed and also leave all those pressures in my head just because there's no time to waste on that pressure weight where i can actually enjoy working on the things that would make it light and bring my fantasies in front of my sight…

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मेरा वजूद, मेरी पहचान!

बुरा जो देखन मैं चला बुरा न मिलिया कोई जो दिल खोजा आपना मुझसे बुरा न कोई

यूं ही खोजा मैंने ईश्वर को मंदिर मस्जिद गुरुद्वारे में पर भूल गया था मैं वो तो बस्ते ही हैं हमारे में

मेरी आत्मा उनका रूप है मैं खुद उनका निर्माण हूं मेरी भक्ति में उनका नाम है मैं खुद उनका वरदान हूं

उस वरदान को मैंने संजोया है उस वरदान का मैं मालिक हूं पर क्या मैं रख पा रहा उसका खयाल बखूबी हूं

उसने पहचान मुझे परोसी है उस पहचान को बरकरार मुझे रखना है उस वरदान का सुकून से जीना वो भी मुझे देखना है

पर मैं ये क्या कर रहा हूं उस वरदान को मैं खुदसे जाने दे रहा हूं मैं बदल रहा हूं अपने वजूद को ही मैं खत्म कर रहा हूं

ज़िंदगी तो ये मेरे हाथ में थी ना इस कहानी का तो मैं लेखक था ना मर्ज़ी तो मेरी ही चलनी चाहिए थी ना तो फिर ये क्या हुआ

फिर आखिर क्या बदला इस दिल ने दिमाग के साथ क्यों किया झगड़ा

हां मुझे जिम्मेदारियां सौंपी गई हां मुझसे उम्मीदें भी लगाई गई पर वो किसके लिए था मेरे लिए था ना मुझसे था ना

फिर मैंने अपने आप को ही क्यों बदला जब मैं ही बदल गया मेरे हाथों से वो वरदान ही चला गया वो वरदान जो मुझे सौंपा गया था उस वरदान को ही मैंने खुद से अलग कर दिया

ज़िंदगी तो मेरी थी ना इस कहानी का लेखक तो मैं था ना फिर क्यों मैंने अपने वजूद को खोने दिया क्यों इस भीड़ में उसे शामिल होने दिया

निकलना चाहता हूं इस दलदल से तो खुद से एक बार फिर मुझे मिलना होगा मुझे मेरी कहानी का लेखक एक बार फिर बनना होगा एक बार फिर से मुझे अपने आप से मिलना होगा मुझे एक बार फिर से अपने आप से मिलना होगा!!!

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And then my father told me,

people love being sad, because that sadness relieves them, and you cannot help them with anything at that point of time when they themselves don't wanna come out of it..

there are strategies to bring them out of this self world, and for that sometimes you need to show them the worst part so that they could work on their healing, as no person does anything until or unless any consequency is related with it.

People study,so that they can get money or could stand their business or anything similar. People go to gym, because they are afraid of them being weak or not able to stand any similar trouble related with their own strength. People take good diet, so that they won't get suffered through any kind of sickness.

Ultimately there's some sort of reason why people opt some things or people ain't go for it, there is some reason to everything or anything we do, perform or get indulged in..

Ultimately, no-ones's wrong with their point of view, but sometimes our actions affects us and majorly spoils OUR OWN STORY, and here we need to understand the fact that it's better to forget and forgive the situations and people, and not change our actual self because of anyone in this life..

Because losing our identity is the biggest loss to ourselves only……

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DEAL or DEED

People often say, We did a lot but never got those things in return. We loved from all of our heart but ultimately we were the ones who were not right or we only became the ones who are suffering right now..

And why are we actually suffering? Because we expected! Right? And why we expected? Because we gave all of our love and trust! Right?

So, the law of attraction says we could only receive the things back we gave whole heartedly, and actually we did not gave that love or happiness whole heartedly but because we wanted to be happy or receive that love in return.

Concluding, We did this all because of a purpose, So why would we get that back when we only did not went through the right path but the path of giving and taking!

It ultimately became a deal rather than a deed...........

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Decoding RIGHT and WRONG

Sometimes looking in eyes of the person says the things which a normal conversation couldn't..

Speaking about a recent incident in my college, My teacher was really not satisfied with the behavior of students, it was never so visible on her face but that day it actually seemed like that something has actually happened which was not satisfactory or deserving.. I still can't take off that face as it was never that easy to see her like that as she was always cheerful..

We often judge people based on their profession but could never ever realize what situation or under what circumstance they are, it is normal to fight for yourself but really not okay to misunderstood or blame someone on that post. We really forget that the person has got the post because he worked really well for that. If often forget the wordings from our parents "when you would become a parent then you will realize about it" and that age is such that we really never realized those things but that statement holds true in each human's position whether being a parent, teacher, doctor, pilot etc..

It's not the fault of any person who claims that he is right but it is the fault of the eyes that we cannot withstand a situation which is against us, Because in that situation we get so immersed in, that we forget that this situation is not because of me or that particular person but between two humans who are actually very right in their circle..

To be really honest i faced a lot to accept my position of thinking to be right because i really thought that what if nobody supported me and i was actually wrong in that scene, but later on i realized that life is not really about RIGHT and WRONG (exclusive of the criminal offences or on spiritual basis), but about accepting the fact that they are also right but you are also not wrong. It is though difficult sometimes to explain our side but its really not correct if we don't support our instinct or our understandings. World would really not support your way of thinking unless you support your thoughts..

We really not have to fight or argue, because we can't actually make ourselves clear to a person who has only seen his part and not ever tried to get through the other's eyes. But we can really be understandable enough to not expand that situation so much that it creates an issue for both of the parties physically as well as mentally..

It's not about ME or YOU but about a normal human who actually faces issues and struggles to get through but faces some hurdles along way and could not get some words of appreciation or support..

We just need to enlarge the circle to see through being generalized!!!

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COMALI

Comali, 12 million views, 80k likes…. Possible you could be the one who watched it..

as the movie got finished i thought to come back to my favorite place and share.. widely, the movie had various messages that included the purity of relations affecting as we have been captured by the technologies and being so used to it that we barely plan to meet because the conversations are going online.. secondly the purity of humanity, that won the moment. Humanity still residing proves that people still have sensitive hearts and thoughts.. Its just we don't see them often but that won't change the fact that it's still there..

our mindset plays the most important role which actually gives us the perception of looking at the situation in such a way which can either make you the ecstatic person or the regretting person..

It's all about the exchange of energy we make with the universe, if we are positive and smiling the universe also sends us the positive and the happy vibes so far.. Its the same rule as what you give you receive, the things can delay but remember its never dismissed..

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Religion: for connection, for humanity

Hinduism, Islam, Christianity, Sikhism, Buddhism, and Jainism...

Religion, the teacher that teaches us to connect with god, with that almighty but we have been misguided sometimes not by what we study or learn but by what we listen and see in news..

Though the things are true that "not everyone is same", but this is also true that not everyone has the patience to make people understand the thing that it's not about my or yours and then ultimately that small argument raises to a big conflict and then boom: "Another fight in the city due to Religion"..

Now there lies something really interesting, growing up with these news headlines brings up only hatred to another religion just because at that point of time we listen up our sides stories and instead of patiently dealing with the situation and making the tomorrow a better place to live we want the justice of the events happened in past. Why do we always stuck with the past and not move together with a better mind to make our tomorrow a better place to live where there are no fights related to religion, and people accepts each other's rituals..

I know people would definitely raise the voice against this as well that how a teen girl could say that but i would really co-relate this as marriage only, though religion is not marriage but yeah marriage is a kind of religion so i guess that works well. Marriage also has issues and we often forget the past or the mistakes and we learn, accept and we move on together by mutual understandings and the love but in religion we forget that we all are humans and the first thing that religion taught us is to respect each living being because they are the creation of God and respecting his creations leads to connection with him..

and that is what RELIGION taught or teach us, to respect his entities, to respect his words and to respect him...

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the thing that always upsets me is listening to people's mentality

if a boy is sensitive and kind we don't even think from our mind and start calling him gay all the time

let's stop seeing the gender judging on the base of tender and commenting like a roadside vendor

if a girl behaves and talks boyish we never consider that to be rubbish instead we let her live at her own wish

considering the fact we call her tomboy and ensures that she don't feel void by making her feel and obeying just as roy

we never brought up our mind to contrary what if the boy is munificence and a bit girly why we don't accept and start acting whirly

when we can support one of the sex then why do only boys feel that distress and we don't accept and allow them to confess

the milieu is important for them to come out from the distress that's always shown by crowd and tell them however they are we are proud

what else it needs to be generous with them just a few words and they can be the gem and are ready to face and stand out like stem

just a mind of liberality is required and nothing else as they are also tired by receiving the same sense of being undesired

let's step towards a broad minded generation ending all the prejudice of judging in cremation and commencing the way to eunoia nation..