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Hey loves this is just going to be a post on synastry observations that I think are the most difficult. And before y'all start bashing me just take this with a grain of salt okay 😭. Also some of these are based off of personal experience
planets in your 7th/8th house - personally it can go either or with them. Since the 7th house is the house of open enemies (not meaning to scare y'all) but it could be an indication of a relationship that turns sour over time. Meanwhile the 8th house synastry will feel too invasive in some extremes
moon opposite/square/inconjunct moon - not being able to understand why the other person reacts in the way they just did. Sometimes you can't even understand the other person altogether
Sun opposite/square Mars - two strong egos, and no one wants to be told that they're not right
Mercury square mercury - not being able to have a proper mental connection with them. two completely different ways of communicating
Venus square Venus - honestly this is not a deal breaker but it does mean you two have VERY different love languages including preferences, how you like to spend money and friend groups. Sometimes you don't like each other's friends OOP
Moon square Neptune - a bit of a red flag ngl. Now I don't really believe in dealbreakers but this one is a little suspicious. This will make you have a gut feeling like the other person is deceiving you.
Mars square Pluto - I had this with someone and wheeeww. Listen, the passion is top tier BUT the arguments are just as intense. It can get pretty ugly if there aren't other stabilisers in the synastry. This is the aspect that will make you have rapid heartbeat when confronting each other.
Sun square Pluto - You will feel like the other person is trying to control and shape you into who they want you to be. Super attractive but proceed with caution
Moon/Venus square Pluto - this just screams an unwelcome transformation. But you will walk out of this relationship completely changed.
Mercury square Neptune - if there aren't any stabilising aspects in the synastry this one can straight up be a toxic relationship with a bunch of gaslighting and manipulation
Saturn conjunct/square moon- It will feel like someone is trying to control your emotional reactions. Maybe they aren't comfortable with your emotional expression
Saturn in the 1st house - you might feel criticised or like you're constantly being evaluated by this person. Like you're trying to meet their expectations of you
Saturn opposite/square Venus - daddy issues are LOUD here
Again these are just my opinions. Remember no synastry aspect by itself is a dealbreaker, but when you notice you have more of a negative than a positive synastry then these might be some to watch out for.
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