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yet another bad experience with someone who sought me out when I was minding my own business lmfao

#I just don’t get it #I’m not entertaining anyone ever again it’s over fr fr #I will never believe another person that says they want me #t

2026 moodboard so far

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I keep waiting for life to be less difficult and I thought this year would give me a bit of a break but like it never stops even when it’s calm everything is just looming over me

mom going on unemployed over a year and bc we grew up in severe poverty with no generational wealth her savings have already been depleted

ex still living with us even though we broke up a year ago due to me not being able to afford rent alone since my mom ran out of her savings and like well you can imagine how that can be at times

Hate where I live, our landlord is shitty and a shining beacon for all awful landlord practices, and I want to move so bad and can’t

uncle passed away two months ago and my sisters husband only allowed them to visit for a fucking WEEK - I hate him and I miss my sister I wish she’d leave him and come home but they’re married and have a child and live in a different country so she feels like she’s trapped

grandpa slowly dying from illness

exs mom (who I still care about deeply) quickly dying from unexpected illness and he is unraveling bc of it

dating life in the garbage can - not that I even have real time to focus on that but it still feels shitty I can’t even keep a man as a friend without getting the avoidant experience lmao

morality of having a job at a debt collection agency is weighing on me but I’m the provider for my mom until she’s working again so I can’t afford to lose this stability atm

one of my best friends went back to her misogynistic abusive RACIST ex after we thought it was finally over and now we haven’t talked in two months and of course I miss her and am worried about her

school about to end and idk with the state of the world and my own life this semester i feel like what’s even the point of still trying for my degree even tho it’s something I always wanted

I need to tell my doctor my med dosage isn’t as effective anymore and likely needs to be bumped but it makes me feel like I failed? and I don’t rlly know why but I didn’t bring it up our last two sessions and I regret it lol

Most of my habits hobbies and routines dead in a ditch or barely holding on so my life feels even more in shambles and I feel like even more of a failure

everyone says to be kinder to myself bc I’m having a difficult time and it’s normal to struggle with the things I’ve had going on but I hate that when I finally felt like I was succeeding and doing better in life, it all fell apart. It’s stupid and childish to say but it’s so unfair, haven’t I suffered enough in this god forsaken stupid life I didn’t ask for???? can I please catch a fucking break? Can just one of these problems have a solution that I don’t have to earn or work hard for? I’m so tired, I don’t wanna kms but lately more and more i think it would be nice to just not exist, to just be a non corporeal floating spirit drifting through the ocean waves ya know? I just don’t wanna be responsible for anything or anyone, not even myself 🫠

#depressive episode going strong today #enjoy my whining and complaining lmao #t

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Reblogs in a chain now get their own notes

The reblog chain is one of the things that makes Tumblr unlike anywhere else. All the notes on reblogs are attributed to the original post, no matter which branch people actually liked or reblogged. We want to keep encouraging conversations, and give contributors the recognition they deserve.

Soon, you'll be able to like, reblog, or reply to any part of a reblog chain, and that note will go to that reblog's author. Each reblog will have its own counts, instead of one aggregated number from every version of the post. And yes, you’ll be able to like multiple posts in one chain.

If a reblog doesn't add anything, the love flows up to the last person in the chain who did. Your post doesn't lose notes just because people spread it quietly.

Past notes will stay on the original post — we're only changing what happens from here on out. Retroactively re-attributing all of them would be... a lot.

This is just the beginning. More changes are coming as we keep building this out – stay tuned!

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This is horrible I can't see the number of notes on my posts at all without adding up everything in the chain

Cursed cursed cursed evil evil evil

This is a terrible idea. Horrible.

EXTREMELY BAD HOLY FUCK.

This would kill the entire point of the reblog chain. Staff, please, don't do this. It will transform the reblog chain in just plain twitter quotes.

Seriously, this is a tumblr-killer feature. This breaks the most fundamental way tumblr is different from any other social network. This makes tumblr just another blueskytwitterthreads. Or worse: An unfederated mastodon clone.

Please, stop this. Please, don't roll this out.

Please, mutuals, post about this, comment and reblog the original post (while you still can without making it your own quote-post). I don't know if staff is looking or if the feedback would matter, but seriously, this is a terrible change that would kill tumblr as we know it. Please, don't roll it out.

look, I can endure any kind of UI changes that are supposed to help tumblr-rookies to understand how this works. They may be a nuisance, but that's ok, we have x-kit or we can get used to buttons being here or there.

But this. This changes the data architecture. This changes the SINGLE THING that makes tumblr the "... yes and" website. This KILLS THE COLLABORATIVE POSTING THAT MAKES THIS SITE DIFFERENT FROM ALL THE OTHER MEDIA PLATFORMS.

Please, don't do this. Please, don't ship this.

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Tumblr has explicitly said in the past that they do not look at comments on their updates posts. You have to PUT IN A SUPPORT TICKET AND SELECT FEEDBACK FROM THE DROPDOWN