Burning solar system

Just a casual system blog. We won't post often most likely. Bodily 18+ Anti-Endo so (pro) endos DNI

[burningsolarsystem]

Just realized we don't have an intro post, so here is a post with our general stances and DNI until we get around to making one.

This blog is:

♤ Anti-endo/nontraumagenics

♣︎ Anti radqueer/transids

◇ Pro xenogenders and neoprouns

♠︎ Pro mspec lesbians, contradictory labels, lesboys, turigirls, etc

♧ Pro alterhuman/nonhuman

◆ Pro pet/agere

♤ Pro mental health and all neurodivegencies

♣︎ Anti tme/tma usage (and believes transandrophobia is real)

And others we can't think to list right now. Feel free to ask if any other stances need added or if one of these needs clarified.

DNI:

T.R.A.S.H, Cluster B abuse believes, (pro) Endos, radqueers/transids, anti mspec/lesboys, anti contradictory labels, anti pet/agere, anti alterhuman, pro ed/sh blogs, transandrophobia deniers, harrasers and rude people in general

I think that covers everything. Let us know if anything needs clarified.

[burningsolarsystem]

It's totally normal to spiral about whether or not I'm a terrible person. That's just what a Thursday is for

[mypronounsarehehehaha]

[burningsolarsystem]

I just saw your post on being bigender² (🍊) and I have never related more as a bigender girlguy because I also felt that I was agender at times (or apangender) but being called trigender doesn't fit at the same time so seeing your post was a bit validating for me in a way 😭😭

Thanks :)

I'm glad to help

Guess we both got some awesome genders <3

(Also, feel free to steal bigender² as a label if you want. It'd be pretty cool to see people using it! Or just do as I do and make your own label. It's pretty fun 😁)

-🍊

[anti-willo-miku]

Shoutout to p-did systems you guys are awesome. I’ve noticed that p-did is frequently underrepresented in the system community so you should know you belong here and your systemhood is just as valid as other systems.

[burningsolarsystem]

Apparently the way I (🍊) describe my gender is entertaining to some of the rest of the system.

So i dunno Here's how I describe it:

Bigender, with the two genders being genderfluid and the other bigender. The second bigender is masc and fem (maybe guy and girl but dunno. Something masc and fem).

One of 'em tried to point out trigender, but it just doesn't have the same vibe.

If I'd use a specific label, it'd be bigender²

[the-complicity-system]

I need pdid specific terms right nyeow

Our friends kinda stole foggy from us but I guess it can be applicable

I just want it to be PDID intended use you know?

We made it because blurry isn't a term that properly sits well with us

[burningsolarsystem]

Fighting every urge to scream right now.

Was having a convo with my sister and she brought up her boyfriend potentially hanging out with our one brother. And I said I was a bit worried because her boyfriend isn't great at watching his mouth. Brought up the fact that he likes to use the r-slur casually. (He says all kind of shit like that too)

And she fucking told me, and I kid you not

"Now you're just mad at him (her boyfriend) because he is autistic and can't watch what he says."

And when I pointed out the fact that that doesn't make it okay, this girl told me to drop it. Like I'm the asshole, ig.

And I'm so fucking angry right now.

Yes, sometimes your gonna miss social cues and not understand something is harmful. But you fucking tell them. You sit them down and go, hey, that's not okay. You don't just go "well it's okay because he doesn't know better". You teach them better. Just like you would anyone else. Why do so many people seem to think autism = unteachable? The very least you owe them is to try.

It's not a reasonable excuse. It's not a reasonable excuse if you just shrug it off and don't actually try.

At that point your not explaining why the behavior happens, you just trying to excuse the lack of effort.

Fucking hell

Sorry, I'm ranting now.

Idk if the last parts even make sense. I'm just so fucking angry.

- ??? (Blurry/unidentified)

[and-pdid-bee]

P-DID and OSDD-1A solidarity against medians causing our erasure! Learn about these before looking into endo spaces! We love you OSDD1A systems- you are too often forgotten with us 💔

THIS BLOG AND IT'S CONTENT ARE ANTI:

- NON TRAUMAGENIC

(Ex. Endogenic, Willogenic, ect.)

- MIXED ORIGIN

(Ex. Anti traumaendo)

- MEDIAN

- ABLEISTS/ABLEISM

[burningsolarsystem]

Find it funny my dad is complaining that I didn't do the dishes when he literally told me to go to bed because he didn't want to deal with me.

[sovereignsystem]

OKAY. I'M OFFICIALLY SAYING IT!

NEW! Anti-endo tag: Systemality

As an opposing tag for 'plurality', Systemality is a catchall for any and all systems who are ANTI-ENDO (including; DID, OSDD, CDDs, UDD, PDID, etc!)

It is an attempt at making another safe-space for real systems!

Please bombard this tag so the endos can't steal it!

[the-complicity-system]

What type of amnesia is it where you recall the event but have 0 idea when the fuck it happened

Not even greyout I remember shit just what year was that?????

[burningsolarsystem]

Anyone have any tips for dealing with problematic persecutors?

We currently have a persecutor who loves to purposefully trigger us and today tried to cause/force a split.

I know lots of people like to suggest "just talk to them", which is great advice, but it's not really working and this is starting to get out of hand. So any tips would be lovely.

[burningsolarsystem]

Think I'm gonna be sick I'm legitimately crashing out right now and I dont know why and I need someone to just take over front for me so I can fucking breathe for a bit bit they cant so I'm. Just stuck here I fucjing Haye this

Will probably delete later but for now I just need s ti theoughthis somewhere before I lose my. Mind

[the-complicity-system]

sending this to ur ask box because I felt like it

shout out to pdid systems!! we love you!! we cherish you!!! the community wouldnt be the same without you!!!!! each and every one of you are so so so loved and appreciated!!!!!!!

YIPPEEE

We get so much internalized fake claiming when its barely in the ICD and not the DSM

BUT ITS THERE GRRR IM HERE IM REAL AAAA

I HAVE PDID NOT OSDD 💔 LOVE YOU GUYS BUT I AM NOT YOU AND THEY CANT MISJUDGE MEEEE

Justice for pwP-DID ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

WE ARE NOT LESS DISORDERED THAN STANDARD DID

WE ARE NOT "DID LITE"

WE DO NOT HAVE IT "EASIER"

We all struggle here 😔❤️‍🩹

YAYAYAYAAYAHDBEKWVRLWMEIENWVWLETPENBW

[abuzd]

does anyone else

[the-complicity-system]

Bit of a tangent abt US shit

Something that bothers me is that even if P-DID would fall under OSDD1 I wouldnt want to be considered OSDD simply because the US deems it not different enough or too new

It is

I dont care if its just a more dominant alter

It. Is. Different.

And it makes so many new issues for us

It doesnt involve amnesia barriers or lack thereof or alter formation being weak or stronger

We have fragment alters we have partial alters we have sound alters

Its a whole internal workings difference of

I CANNOT LEAVE

WE

ARE

DIFFERENT

And I hate being lumped into OSDD I don't know why it bothers me so much but it feels almost like

Invalidating?

Im not different enough yet fall under OSDD

If they diagnosed us with OSDD I would want it noted that we are ACTUALLY PDID but the US denies us the accuracy

I would literally bitch so much bc this isnt our issue it's the US's

It's not my fault they deny us the ability to he better diagnosed with something I would have to argue is not the same

P-DID is different by the dominant alter

That's what makes it PDID

Lumping it with OSDD just feels like "Idc you work differently than DID so you get shoved here"

Uuuuggghh... broooo