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My name is Billie and I'm freaking out. "They," "she," and "he" pronoun sets are all super cool. I'm 30, disabled, and queer. Icon by punmastercella.

[cakesexuality]

New pinned post time!!

Hello there, I'm Billie!!

Here's the rundown:

I'm neurodivergent and physically disabled

This is my main blog, so I post about all kinds of stuff here

My interests include toys, crafting, video games, drag, ALTA/TLOK, and SPOP

I have a Discord server full of my mutuals and irl friends, which you can inquire about in private

I'm having a hysterectomy in a few months and you can follow my journey with that on this blog!! My DMs and asks are always open if you ever have any questions about it or about anything else I've gone through leading up to this, including going off Depo-Provera, going on Lupron Depot, or having a laparoscopy

I have a Throne wishlist going that you can buy from if you'd like to support me with my hysterectomy recovery!! Click here to access the link

I use the following tags for organizational purposes:

#doctor bitchcraft | General physical health

#speaking of not well adjusted | General mental health

#the estrogen is slapping right now | Reproductive health

#plot twist it wasnt allergies | Depression

#convince yourself | Psychosis

#maybe she was born with it maybe its body dysmorphia | Eating disorder

#i can eat a bug | Digestive health

#why dont you eat a cheez it and shut the fuck up | Medical diet

#the posterchild of a person who is fine | Trauma

#i need to thank kornbreads ankle | Joint problems

#posts the world wasnt ready for | Me cleaning out my drafts

[cakesexuality]

I just got my surgery date a week ago and I have so much love for everyone who's been supporting me along the way with my hysterectomy journey!!!

If you're looking to support my journey, one way to do it is through my wishlist on Throne

Other ways to support me while I go through with getting my hysterectomy are to share around my wishlist (either reblogging this post or taking the link to somewhere else on the internet) and/or telling me nice things in my Tumblr asks!!

I equally appreciate all forms of support, so no worries if you're not able to get me something from the wishlist 🥰

[pangur-and-grim]

two “cats” interacting

[fausphorus]

Got possessed in the middle of my work shift.

[queer-as-in-fuck-12]

drug addicts deserve housing, food, water, and healthcare btw

[whirligiga]

Microdosing on executive function by completing tasks in video games

[alexiaroselikethewine]

I get that sex and drugs are fun but even im like. at least have a 3rd thing. at least one more hobby. you can have a 3rd hobby. this isnt a purity thing this is a some of u are fucking boring thing.

[kittygirltitty]

rock & roll

[alexiaroselikethewine]

girl i just walked into that one like a coyote with a painted tunnel

[greenfinchg-illustration]

🏳️‍🌈 my first pride artwork this year 🏳️‍🌈

No pairing was requested as often as Catradora. And I’m actually quite surprised that I’ve never created fan art for this fantastic series.

Requests are still open until June 20th; you can continue sending in your suggestions until then.

[only-cat-memes]

[thecolorofthegame]

[alsophila-grahami]

mutuals to sit under this thing with

[adz]

reddit is having a glitch where it puts the wrong captions over photos and it’s the only thing i care about right now

[dietspam16]

[lawbutch]

you don't have to be scared of your suicidal friends. you don't have to be scared of your psychotic or delusional friends. you don't have to call the police every time someone says they feel like they want to die. you can say things like, "that sounds really hard" and "I'm going to bring you some food and you can tell me more about it"

[lawbutch]

Important addition thank you! You can absolutely have boundaries about substance use but your friends who use substances know themselves and their needs better than you, and they do not need policing or threats of incarceration. If you want to help your friends who deal with addiction, be patient and demonstrate that you're a safe person to talk to.

[cakesexuality]

Me having to do a trial-and-error to figure out which healthy, easy foods I'd like to have handy for my hysterectomy recovery

Anyone who would like to help me stock up on healthy snacks to have on hand for my surgery can do so through my wishlist!!!

Even if you can't support me directly, you will still warm my heart just as much by doing something like sending me a Tumblr ask full of kindness and good luck!!!!! 💌

[stillhereandstillqueer]

Nonbinary people are so cool I wish our rights were taken seriously haha

[stillhereandstillqueer]

Genuinely though it is so frustrating that nonbinary rights and exorsexism are not treated seriously at all, even from within the queer community. It sucks that there's not even an option for an X gender marker in so many countries, including in more progressive queer-friendly ones. It sucks that if enben want to get gender affirming care that we're advised to lie about our gender (or lack thereof) in favour of a more binary trans identity lest we jump through a million extra hoops on top of the million already in place for binary trans people to prove we're serious in order to get the care we want/need. It sucks that in most cases we're still forced into some kind of binary and I wish that the issues we deal with were acknowledged more.

[theartistrans]

[cakesexuality]

Heyyy, anyone got recommendations for body wipes/bath wipes?? (I see them get called either of the two terms, not sure if there's actually a difference)

My followers are probably all very aware of what's happening, but for anyone finding me through a search/through the tags -- I'm having a hysterectomy in September and I wanna be prepared for it!!

I've never had a surgery of this magnitude (?? Idk man it's past 1am by this point) before, so I have no true idea what I'll be up for following my hysterectomy

I've never in my life gone more than probably 6 days between showers (not counting the 5 months I couldn't shower and instead took baths bc showering took too much energy), like rn my standard is probably about 5 days between, but 🤷‍♀️ idk my body may end up demanding that I go longer than that

I have been known to freshen up between showers/baths with just makeup wipes, but I've been looking into options for wipes that are actually formulated for that purpose and I'm feeling kinda overwhelmed with my options 😵‍💫

They have the Johnson's ones as well as the Yardley ones at Dollarama, but I'm also open to what's available at other retailers like Shoppers Drug Mart

I have sensitive-ass skin that reacts to ingredients like tea tree oil and salicylic acid, so the Life brand post-workout wipes will be no good for me as they contain BOTH of those ingredients, hooraaayyy

[cakesexuality]

Apparently I coincidentally added exactly 50 posts to my queue in anticipation that I may have had to take a break due to how severe my depression was getting, and now that my mood is improving... I'm contemplating just setting my daily queue limit to the max (which happens to also be 50) and just letting it dump out everything that isn't actually scheduled... all in a single day???

[my-tournament-blog]

Canon Queer Couples Tournament

Final Round

Velcinta or Catradora

Vel Sartha x Cinta Kaz (Andor)

Adora x Catra (She Ra and the Princesses of Power)

Remaining time: 4 days 21 hours