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transneutral butch • 29 • enjoyer & hater

[candlegash]

about me

29

they/them

seventeen years of experience reading tarot

about sixteen years of experience interpreting astrological natal and synastry charts in a loosely hellenistic style. no i don’t think people are defined by their placements.

i am so full of rage my loved ones are monitoring this blog to prevent me from mouth foaming wackjob beast fighting possession levels of arguing with strangers online

like really i’m a huge asshole, i was raised cop-spotting for punks doing cocaine as a teenager, i will block you for being vaguely annoying and them’s the breaks. it’s really for the best

went full on transgender at the tender age of fourteen with unsafe ductape binding & lived

collector of old queer lit / western occult texts / judaic studies

fan at the altar of john waters and leslie feinberg

learning mandolin & bass

an artist when i feel it

ex EMT -> current nursing student

a furry

favs in no particular order

gnosia, homestuck, pathologic, pluribus, star trek tos, revolutionary girl utena, witch hat atelier, disco elysium, cult of the lamb, rain world, pokémon, music, tba

[dinomoder]

This is the best ad for Project Hail Mary I have ever seen. Like if I was on the fence about watching or reading it, this would convince me to do so.

[gay-mooshrooms]

[treecitysessions]

The thing about how you will talk like a tumblr user for the rest of your life is that usually people won’t clock it but sometimes you’ll meet someone and you’ll actually be able to see a look of painful recognition in their eyes when you say some tumblypoo bullshit while everyone else just thinks you had an epic original thought. And it’s gonna make you a little bit sorry you were born

[unholyblissafterdark]

[theehorsepusssy]

[00000066]

[tall]

[theehorsepusssy]

[00000066]

[junglejim4322]

Unironically I think the early to mid 20s age group in America has unbelievably bad consent boundaries on all levels and so much language to defend it but this makes me sound like elon musk if I say it however the commonality of someone who will be like “I had 47 panic attacks and it’s your fault” if you tell them no is insane

[junglejim4322]

I rejected someone and got called “the scariest person I’ve ever met” with so much therapy speak interspersed like alright okay alright okay alright okay

[junglejim4322]

“You just say whatever you’re thinking and I don’t know how to handle it” was verbatim part of this conversation. Also everyone hates to see an autistic bitch

[transhumanisticpanspermia]

When I was in this age bracket, there was a huge emphasis on improving consent culture via graceful rejection, and it's gone by the wayside. Which sucks.

Twice in my youth (once in high school and once in college) I was in situations where I was asking someone out and I could tell they were calculating in their heads the risks of rejecting me, and both times I said, out loud, "you can say no, I wouldn't have asked if I wasn't prepared for either answer." And then they said no. This wasn't some spark of special wisdom I had - I knew to do it because feminist conversations among my age group brought it up regularly. This isn't happening nearly enough anymore.

More recently, I was really glad when we got to "rejection sensitive dysphoria" in my IOP program and it was one of those symptoms where the therapists really emphasized how it affects others. Because it does.

Being someone who cannot handle rejection makes you much more likely to violate boundaries, and yes, that includes sexual ones. Yes, you, reader who has never hurt a fly. If you don't want to stumble backwards into sexually assaulting someone, fix your RSD meltdowns. If you keep them up it's only a matter of time. Because if you're nice enough to interact with, but are known to have RSD meltdowns, guess what happens when your friends and acquaintances need to reject you?

[onlytiktoks]

[piedude]

[ducks-unlimited]

[clytemnestraaa]

grabbing the ao3 authors by their plump rosy little cheeks… being sexually submissive… does not make a person literally anything. not more or less powerful, or more or less competent, or more or less gendered, or more or less capable of abuse, or more or less innocent, or more or less mature, or more or less adult, or more or less violent, or more or less intelligent, or more or less responsible, or more or less any single thing on the planet. there is no correlation. please. please. for the love of god.

[datasoong47]

[segamascott]

[mizuform]

[penandinkprincess]

parenting commitment level 3000

[penandinkprincess]

apparently a requirement for working at poison control is a talent for stand-up comedy

[starsarefairylightsfornerds]

[aqueerkettleofish]

When I was training to be a paramedic, we had one student ask the instructor what to do in the event of a marijuana overdose. The instructor said "Tell him to take two twinkies and call you in the morning."