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molebucks-deactivated20150826

remember that time dan schneider, known foot fetishist and creator of shows such as drake & josh, icarly, and zoey 101, used the official sam and cat twitter account to crowdsource footporn under the guise of social marketing

mettaworldneymar

i just went down quite the rabbit hole and now im sad

toosmallortootall

‘You people, incapable of accepting the world as it is,’ says the man to whom the world handed everything.

Jack Rackham, 3.08 (via toosmallortootall)

elektranatchios

He is the love of my life. I am a better and braver person because of him.

kingslayered

hufflepuff-and-stuff

one of my favorite jokes of all time

saltchip

tbh my music taste is so hard to describe like it’s literally everything except for the songs i dont like

thequotejournals

Don’t you ever feel that - that you just need to get away? From everything? That it’s all too much?

Tana French, In The Woods (via wordsnquotes)

buckybarsn

t’s OK to have dreams, it’s OK to have goals, in my opinion. But I really think it’s much more about the climb and the work you do on the way up. The climb is really hard and really rough, but it’s also the best part because there are still places to climb up to.

oldstevestan

Steve and Bucky + smiling at each other

hustleinatrap

cringepics

erikalynae

Gather round kids while I explain this manipulation tactic that men perpetually try to use and why it’s bullshit.

If someone is openly showing interest in you by making disparaging or disappointed comments about your age, they’re trying to put you on the defensive. This guy wants me to try to quell his discomfort, to bring up that I’m only a month shy of 20, etc. - he wants me to try to prove myself to him, that I’m mature and adult enough for a man like him.

His goal is to establish a power imbalance right off the bat. If we were to date, I would constantly be on the defensive, constantly striving to be an equal, constantly trying to prove my “adult” credentials. Anything he says or does or wants from this point on that I object to would just be seen as a strike against my age, proof that he was right and that I’m not mature enough for him. This is how SO MANY men pressure younger individuals (primarily women and girls) into situations and relationships they aren’t comfortable with. If he truly thought I was too young for him, he wouldn’t have messaged me. This is a very calculated move, and it’s fucking gross.

Adult relationships with age gaps are completely fine, but only if all parties view each other as equals. If someone is trying to set you up in a way that ensures that’s never a possibility, run far away.

thatdiabolicalfeminist

READ THIS SERIOUSLY READ THIS ^^^^^^^^^^^^

webelieveyou

This this this.

princessofthewhitemoon

Reblogged for the commentary.

fuckyeahsexeducation

This is really important because I think that educating about power imbalances and how to spot that manipulation is a lot better than saying “young people don’t date older people”. I had people use this kind of tactic on me when I was 18/19 as well and it is really damaging.

cocoacallalily

*realizes some things* damn, son.

deadwhitewalker

Thigh holster. That’s it. Nothing to add.

wolfsigils

actually I’m gonna add

because

mamapeterson-deactivated2019121

You damn right I do.

deansdirtylittlesecretsblog

Amen sister!

I’ll reblog that thigh holster FOREVER!

mrsdeanfuckingwinchester

@amanda-teaches

polniaczek

@ElaheIzadi:’Beauty and the Beast’ to have Disney’s first-ever ‘exclusively gay moment’ @HeatherMatarazz: I thought it was when I popped out the closet in “Princess Diaries 2”