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Posting this as its own post bc I'm so proud of myself for making this

This is getting popular, if you'd like one of these feel free to shoot me a DM, I could rly use the cash! I'm trans and I'm cool and I have very few monies. If u want a similar patch also LMK. They'd probs be like $3-5, more if you want more colors.

sev-arts

cooler lesbian comix than the one youre probably talking about

apocryphon-of-eden

i’ve said it before but anglo lesbians are so so racist about yuri it’s actually absurd how bad it is

apocryphon-of-eden

feel the need to mention that this post was inspired by a bechdel-wannabe comic artist making a strip about how all yuri is incestuous and dirty art lmfao

#me and my very specific beef with the heart stopper author also #but yeah people are so so stupid

virtualgirladvance

Realised strange nerd is an anagram of transgender and my life suddenly got better

ayatollahsmegmafactory

How come when i havent eaten in a while i start to feel hungry

That's actually a sign of adhd or perhaps even autism

pipshinwhatever

what they dont tell you about strategy based games is that its hard if you’re stupid

sentada

rockstarcotta

xaveria

noticed my coworker was on tumblr so i told them “i like your shoelaces” and they said “never say that out loud to me”

xaveria

this is the correct response btw

cerastes

Fuuuck I just loss 20000 dollars in adverisement revenue and potential sales when that guy over there didn’t look at my flyer because he was talking to the girl he was walking with. The sensible option here is to ban talking while walking since it’s literally theft.

ovegakart

catbat. or is it batcat?

segamascott

junglejim4322

Unironically I think the early to mid 20s age group in America has unbelievably bad consent boundaries on all levels and so much language to defend it but this makes me sound like elon musk if I say it however the commonality of someone who will be like “I had 47 panic attacks and it’s your fault” if you tell them no is insane

junglejim4322

I rejected someone and got called “the scariest person I’ve ever met” with so much therapy speak interspersed like alright okay alright okay alright okay

junglejim4322

“You just say whatever you’re thinking and I don’t know how to handle it” was verbatim part of this conversation. Also everyone hates to see an autistic bitch

transhumanisticpanspermia

When I was in this age bracket, there was a huge emphasis on improving consent culture via graceful rejection, and it's gone by the wayside. Which sucks.

Twice in my youth (once in high school and once in college) I was in situations where I was asking someone out and I could tell they were calculating in their heads the risks of rejecting me, and both times I said, out loud, "you can say no, I wouldn't have asked if I wasn't prepared for either answer." And then they said no. This wasn't some spark of special wisdom I had - I knew to do it because feminist conversations among my age group brought it up regularly. This isn't happening nearly enough anymore.

More recently, I was really glad when we got to "rejection sensitive dysphoria" in my IOP program and it was one of those symptoms where the therapists really emphasized how it affects others. Because it does.

Being someone who cannot handle rejection makes you much more likely to violate boundaries, and yes, that includes sexual ones. Yes, you, reader who has never hurt a fly. If you don't want to stumble backwards into sexually assaulting someone, fix your RSD meltdowns. If you keep them up it's only a matter of time. Because if you're nice enough to interact with, but are known to have RSD meltdowns, guess what happens when your friends and acquaintances need to reject you?