this was the best you could do? really????

[chronic-music-user000]

🌓 intro post

this is a little space for me to share my experiences, symptoms, and stories regarding mental health and illness!

this is a zero tolerance for hate blog. do not be prejudice against any kind of illness here, this is not the place. go find some cringe ass hateful 4chan forum, moron.

this blog is a branch off of my physical disability blog, @chronic-counter-user000

[beanixwright-deactivated2022030]

hot flaming take i’m abt to slap you with: it’s not acceptable to punish children for their grades, no matter the circumstances.

[beanixwright-deactivated2022030]

lost a follower for this one!

[transarsonist]

Any situation in which the grades are "bad enough to punish" is a situation in which your child is already struggling, and needs, more than anything, your support and affection.

If you punish them you will teach them nothing but how to loathe

[love-notes-to-survivors]

And that their worth is dependent on what they can accomplish.

[ilov3b00kss0much]

straight a student here, I got all 70s in 4th grade math. I was punished. And that means that this week, when I got a 70 on a quiz, I ripped it up and threw it in the trash as soon as I could. Interestingly enough, when my math grades were bad when I was young, that was when my OCD started getting really bad. And now, I’m burning out, lowering my grades. I’m so tired.

[dependently-schizotypal]

I am currently making a 《Therapy Diary》...

And the first thing I'm putting in it is a graphic(❔️) of all Personality Disorders together, to make a global assessment on my issues. [I call it the C-PTSD wheel, because I believe that all PDs are just C-PTSD in different fonts, but I think no one's ready to have this conversation yet.]

Anyway, since I believe it can be helpful for some people to track their overall PDs symptoms in order to compare them, here it is❕️

[you can use it and/or take inspiration from it] [credits would be appreciated, but not necessary]

Yeah I know it's wacky and kinda ugly, but it makes the job. Each Personality Disorder is classed in alphabetical order, and each dash on the PD's line is for 1 symptom of the diagnostic criteria. For example:

OCPD have eight diagnostic criterias, so it has seven dashes + the border as the maximum & the shared center to indicated a lack of symptoms.

In the end, it should look like something like this:

I personally put a color-code to distinguish when I can be diagnosed with the PD, have traits of the PD, or nothing at all... But it's not a must, as long as you have a shape, it tells enough. If you want to have a checklist for all personality disorders at one place, I'm putting them below:

AsPD checklist

AvPD checklist

BPD checklist

DPD checklist

HPD checklist

NPD checklist

OCPD checklist

PPD checklist

StPD checklist

SzPD checklist

[alienranpo]

“the intrusive thoughts won” “that’s psychotic” “i’m so delusional haha” “narcissistic abuse” “the weather is so bipolar” SHUT UP!!!!!! SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!!

[riversidekid]

[psychotic-tbh]

Stop saying…

“Psychotic/Schizophrenic” when you mean: unpredictable, unhinged, unreal, etc.

“Bipolar” when you mean: polarized, scattered, fickle, unstable, etc.

“Delusional” when you mean: unrealistic, unreasonable, close-minded, stubborn, etc.

“[insert “R” slur in relation to intellectual disabilities]” when you mean: unreasonable, unintelligent/ridiculous, immature, etc.

“OCD” when you mean: particular, neat, overbearing, etc.

“Narcissistic” when you mean selfish, abusive, manipulative, etc.

Note: I’m NOT saying that these are synonymous. This is also not an exhaustive list.

[anexperimentallife]

[borderline-culture-is]

bpd culture is neurotypical people say we’re so horrible but no one has ever been crueler to me than a neurotypical person

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[borderline-culture-is]

BPD culture is getting upset at something and have a flight response to it and when your FP asks to hang out you say no because you want to self isolate and them saying "whatever" in response to it instead of asking how you feel!

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[evilsystemm]

uhh???

[chronic-music-user000]

i feel like the whole "THEY BLAMED EVERYTHING ON THEIR MENTAL ILLNESS THEY SHOULD DIE" shit is so dumb in some cases. because yes. mental illness can make people do shit that's unruly and irrational. i feel like this should never be a reason to completely discard someone's statement, especially if the illness was ALWAYS BOUND TO MAKE THEM DO UNRULY AND IRRATIONAL SHIT. like schizophrenia or any schizospec disorder, their brains are scrambled. what are they supposed to do??

now obviously you shouldn't blame messaging kids inappropriately on your anxiety. anxiety doesn't do that from what i know, it doesn't make you like kids it doesn't make you racist. that's when its reasonable to get onto them a bit. that's when they need to take accountability. but people need to understand that there are some conditions that people literally can't control. there is nothing they can do sometimes.

just be transparent and understanding sometimes i feel like that's. not very outlandish to ask.

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

NPD culture is loving it when someone you hate becomes hated by everyone else. Yes, I was right to hate them, they’re garbage, they hurt me, and now everyone else is hating them because they hurt me.

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[borderline-culture-is]

bpd culture is why won't you talk to me? i talk to you all the time, so why won't you talk to me? why do i always have to initiate conversations? why won't you? i'm not being fucking unreasonable here, don't you like me? don't you enjoy talking to me? shit, am i being unreasonable? you don't like me anymore do you? i'm sorry i'll leave now.

— 🍰

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[borderline-culture-is]

bpd culture is I CANT DO THIS I CANT DO THIS I CANT DO THIS but you're just like chilling

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