Shivarathri (Lord Shiva’s night) 2019
March 4, 2019 marks the Hindu holiday of Shiva Rathri or Shiva’s night.
Lord Shiva the formless, limitless, transcendent and unchanging absolute Brahman (God). He’s known to be a complex figure, but in reality he is pure love.
In South Indian Hinduism, when one is born their stars are marked, mine is Thiruvadurai Nachathram or Arudhra, meaning I am born directly under Lord Shiva’s star so I share a lot of his personality traits.
My sister, Ashwini Star (Twin Doctors) she’s a pediatrician.
1. Nataraja (Lord of Dance) & Patron Lord of Yoga & Meditation - he is the lord of dance, all classical Indian dance forms always have pieces dedicated to him in their repertoire. This shows the importance of both mental and physical health. He gave the secrets of yoga to sage Patanjali (the author of Patanjali sutras, which most yoga schools follow).
2. Bolenath (Kind hearted One) - Even demons who prayed to him had their wishes full filled. Ravana (the demon king of the epic Ramayana) wrote the Shiva Tandava Stotram - dance of Lord Shiva, he played all night on the veena (stringed musical instrument) for his beloved Lord Shiva.
3. Family Man - The only deity with a family. Lord Vishnu the preserver incarnates to earth (Lord Krishna, Rama, etc) Lord Shiva is steadfast in his love for his wife and children. Count’em 5 kids! Lord Ganesha (came from Parvati), Lord Murugan (came from the sparks from Shiva’s head), Lord Ayyapa (his son with Lord Vishnu), a daughter Ashokasundari, and a demon kid Andhaka (born from the sweat of Parvati’s hand closing Shiva’s 3rd eye)
4. Ideal Husband (equals) - he loves to be left alone (meditating on a mountain), but his beloved wife Goddess Parvati “woke” him to her, she loved him with her entire being, she is Shakti or power behind the supreme God.
Her meditation/penance won his heart not her physical beauty she is his equal, he can not do anything without her. He’s a one woman man and loves her passionately.
5. Ardhanadeeshwara (half man/half woman)- he merged with Parvati, forming half man/half woman. The transgender/genderless divine, showing that mankind comes in all different forms. All is divine.
6. Openminded, tolerant, benevolent one- he does not care for caste, gender, or creed all are equal. There are 63 poet saints of Tamil Nadu (in South India) called the Nayanars who sang in praise of Lord Shiva, some women, some from what was considered lower castes (society can be jerks ) some farmers, some illiterate, some royalty, all walks of life and he loved them right back.
7. Ever loving, compassionate father- he gave Lord Ganesha the highest honor (above all deities) no Hindu worship (no matter what denomination you belong to) begins with Lord Ganesha’s prayer. Lord Muruga (his younger son) mad locks Lord Shiva up, as a patient father with his son, he gives Lord Muruga the respect of a guru (teacher) takes his son in his lap and lets him reveal the secrets of creation and the meaning of “OHM”.
8. Lingham - the male and female principles fused as one. Meaning male/female are equals. Because the lingam is round it showcases God is formless, never ending, limitless, no beginning and no end. All encompassing, pervasive, mighty God.
9. Chandrashekar (one with a crescent moon in his hair)- Chandra means moon, Shekar a crown. Lord Shiva doesn’t care for material possessions or fancy clothes or bling, wearing serpents, ash, rosary beads, matted hair, an animal skin. Sometimes known as Digambara (naked one).
Lord Vishnu horrified when he sees Lord Shiva’s appearance with his matted hair, odd fashion choices, weird crew of followers, coming to marry Goddess Parvati (Lord Vishnu’s sister and Goddess of Beauty) takes the moon (Chandra) which represents light and beauty, transforms Lord Shiva into a handsome bridegroom perfect to marry his beloved sister.
10. Lord Ayyapa - Lord Shiva’s son with Lord Vishnu. Lord Ayyapa (his main pilgrimage center/temple is in the South Indian state of Kerala). Yes two male deities had a son, this showcases unity, respect, equality for all mankind and beings. We are all equal under mighty God. Ayyapa the celibate, virgin deity, known as Harihara putran, the son of Hari (Vishnu) and Haran (Lord Shiva). Hardcore fasts and penances are taken during the month of December to access the temple (atop 18 hills) in January. It is beautiful and incredible to see!
Here is my nail art dedicated to Shankar Bhagavan (another name for Lord Shiva), lingam shape, middle crescent moon on his forehead, 3 lines of viboothi or ash (to remind us to check our egos at the door everything turns to ash eventually), pointer/index animal skin, thumb the trident, and pinky the third eye of Lord Shiva.
Hara Hara Mahadev! Shankar Bhagavan Ki Jai! Ohm Namah Shivaya! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼