enjoy coffee and read danmei ❤️💯☕️

♡21, sami, she/her danmei, anime and coffee lover (self shipper)

[coffee-danmei02]

hey hey! i’m sami and i’d like to make a fresh start on self shipping again but with anime and danmei (donghua i really enjoy)

get to know me:

i’m 21

i use she/her pronouns

it’s nice to meet you all and hopefully i’ll have a good time :)

i’m not sure i’ll be active but i’ll try my best ^^

account run by: @weeb-coffee

here’s my f/os so far:

heaven official’s blessing:

- jun wu (romantic, i was initially uncomfortable but now i want to test and feel comfortable sharing with y’all on here ^^)

- xie lian (familial f/o like a brother to me)

- shi qingxuan aka wind master (romantic, comfortable)

- ling wen ( crush currently, not 100% romantic yet)

- hua cheng (potential romantic f/o but he belongs with xie lian)

mdzs:

(still under construction)

scum villain:

(still under construction )

black butler:

grell sutcliff (romantic)

soma ( familiar)

ciel phantomhive (familiar)

[hetslop]

ok im about to think about the Character!! im so Excited 😊😊

[coffee-danmei02]

not me going back to college tomorrow ugh at least this semester is almost over this month and graduation (from the last college i attended before entering to a different one)

anyways, my tgcf f/os telling me lots of good luck and kisses, especially jun wu he’d tuck me in to bed and lays down with me ahh 😌

[running-with-thewolves]

Fuck off im so in love with this fictional man it’s embarrassing

[lovehatecomics]

[candyheartedchy]

Please be kinder to yourself with your self ships and self inserts. Please know that your creations of either drawings, writings or anything in between is precious. I know it can be scary to share and post sometimes. I know the fear of others finding your work cringy can be daunting. But what you create is beautiful. The fact alone that you see these fictional characters and want to be apart of their stories and share your love for them is a wonderful thing. No matter if it for fun or coping, your self ships are special. Your self inserts are a form of self love, embrace that feeling of being gentle with yourself when it comes to it. You don’t owe anyone a reason to why these characters are special to you, only that they bring you joy and comfort.

[indigohoneypot]

okay but to my self shippers with f/os who are tough, strong, and hardened—

imagine babying your f/o <3 and them absolutely melting and loving it. maybe they’re more reserved, maybe work makes them closed off or scary or tough…just imagine the way that they melt when they’re the little spoon, when you call them a sweet term of endearment.

maybe they’ve never been spoiled like this before, never been loved gently the way that you love them. i can’t imagine the relief they feel when they can be soft with you and only you.

your f/o must love the way you make them feel like an angel and the most precious thing in the world !!

[across-every-universe]

[sage-shipping]

need to become one of those self shippers that takes a plushie of my fos everywhere with me

[purpleinkdrinker]

shoutout to selfshippers who depend on their f/o. who can't ship them with others because it hurts to imagine them having another partner.

shoutout to the selfshippers who are touch starved or lonely, who can't bring themself to love anyone like they love their f/o. who rarely ever (or never) crush on others because their love for their f/o is too strong.

shoutout to those who print out pictures of their f/o, have them as their wallpaper, imagine them next to you, draw and write about them. who treat them like an irl partner.

shoutout to selfshippers who don't just like their f/o because they're "your type," or they're attractive. shoutout to the selfshippers who have a deeper connection with them than that.

shoutout to the selfshippers with many f/os, and the ones who only have one or two.

shoutout to the selfshippers who kin characters from their f/o's source material, even if it creates some weird rarepairs. (i've been there.)

shoutout to the selfshippers who hate what happened to their f/o in their source material, and to those who love every direction it went.

shoutout to selfshippers with quote unquote "weird," f/os, or nonhuman ones. shoutout to selfshippers who are open about that fact, or who are nervous to tell others about it, even other selfshippers.

shoutout to ALL selfshippers.

you're great.

and remember, no matter who you are, if you fit all these boxes or not, your f/o(s) love you very much!

(PR//SHIPPERS DNI, THIS ISN'T FOR YOU)

[dreamwinged]

imagine holding hands with ur f/o and they do the little thumb stroke thing over the back of ur hand.. just another way to show u how much they cherish ur presence

[dreamwinged]

BE HONEST when you see someone w a secret f/o do you secretly try to mentally guess it based off little context clues in their posts. it’s ok this is a safe space

[dreamwinged]

anyone else hate when irls judge ur fav character and internally ur like nooo cmawwwnnn cmawwwnn that’s my little guy that’s my special little dude be nice pleaaseee 😔😢🥺 but externally u just have to be like haha yeah his haircut is a bit stupid i guess

[dreamwinged]

if u have an f/o plush or anything like that make sure u turn them toward the screen when u watch/play something ok…. they wanna watch too

[dreamwinged]

i think i’ve talked about this before but when it comes to main f/os does anyone else feel like they didn’t even really get a choice. people ask me why i like the character and im like I DONT KNOW ONE DAY I JUST FOUND MYSELF INEXPLICABLY SOULBOUND TO THEM DUE TO MEANS BEYOND MY UNDERSTANDING . it was not a conscious decision. bro picked me

[arrows-imagines]

Imagine your f/o getting you a little treat at the supermarket. Like they’re just doing groceries and maybe they remember you’ve been feeling down, or you’ve had a big day, or they randomly decide to get you something because they love you. Whatever the reason, when they come home they just hand you a bar of chocolate/crackers/any little snack you like and maybe even give u a kiss on the forehead :)

(this imagine is for platonic, familial, or romantic f/os!)

[sanguineships-deactivated202408]

them: are you even listening

me imagining my f/o and my oc kissing in my head: yeah sorry why

[coffee-danmei02]

i kinda have a crush on ling wen as well, for some reason i do want to kiss her after her being tired… caress and kiss her forehead 🥹