haunted by the ghost of you

23 they/them, just a blog to express my sadness

[abandonrun]

does anybody know the source of this

[c0rpseductor]

being trans is good. i do not fucking care like “oh it’s hard being trans there’s dysphoria” yeah i know asshole! i have it too! shut up!! at some point you either accept that you’re never gonna be cis and make peace with it or don’t, but if you refuse to make peace with it you cannot spew your self-loathing all over every other trans person who’s in a better place than you. you can’t say being trans is wrong or awful or disgusting and you can’t criticize other trans people for looking how you don’t want them to and wearing clothes you don’t like. 

i’m serious. nut up or shut up. i have ZEROOOOO sympathy for you the moment you turn your internalized horseshit on other people and start acting like being trans is some kind of shameful horrific aberration you need to punish the rest of us for not being as contrite about. grow. up. it’s childish and pathetic.

[thediscossessed]

stop treating being trans like being catholic

[thatdiabolicalfeminist]

“Relationships take work”

Some things “relationships take work” should mean:

It takes work to learn to identify, effectively communicate, and mesh your needs/wants with those of another person

It takes work to actively listen and learn the other person’s communication styles as well as their needs and wants.

It takes work to maintain a relationship by planning activities together and investing in time spent together

Some things “relationships take work” should never mean:

Relationships take an exhausting cycle of constantly fighting and making up

Relationships require you to compromise your core values or change core aspects of who you are

Relationships take conforming to the other person’s expectations even when you don’t want to

Relationships take constantly proving to the other person that you deserve respect and/or love

Relationships require you to try to make yourself feel and want things you don’t actually feel or want - or at least pretend you do

Simple truisms like “relationships take work” can be misused in harmful ways.

Relationships do take work, but that work is supposed to be a team effort to support and care for each other while still honouring your own needs and desires.

If your relationship isn’t a healthy partnership, don’t feel like you have to stick it out just because “relationships take work.”

You are not obligated to stay in any relationship you do not want.

[transgenderization]

if you got like a 100kilo bag of glitter and opened it up and left it in the path of like a tornado i think that would be interesting. i dont care abt ecological damage btw

[dropbear42]

I do. 100kg bag of seaweed based glitter.

[thyrell]

i dont. 100kg bag of enriched uranium based glitter

[thyrell]

wait isnt uranium denser than lead how heavy would a 100kg bag of uranium be

[cursologist]

thyrell.

[thyrell]

just kill me

[thyrell]

[doctorcurdlejr]

You start watching house md because it's a funny medical drama but it turns out they've just longconned you into 8 seasons of two of the most deranged and repressed men you will ever see on television being manipulative cunts to each other as a love language

[loveliesttime]

when an unmasked tobey!spidey passes out after stopping that train and the passengers catch him before he can fall, the silent collective oath that they won't reveal his identity evident on their faces as they find out he's just a kid before the little boy can even say the promise out loud

when andrew!spidey takes off his mask as he saves that kid hanging from the bridge, saying look i'm just a normal guy. and later in the movie when it looks like he can't make it, that kids dad takes to the cranes to help him the rest of the way to save the city

when spidey is just peter parker — just a kid, just a normal guy —who loves protecting new york. and when new york protects him back when he needs it the most. yeah.

[fodsley]

so whats the endgoal with all this scrolling down we're doing

[hellsite-yano]

rescue the plinko horse

[catboydaredevil-deactivated2023]

Me when I reach the bottom of this hellsite:

[tonysopranobignaturals-deactiva]

This fucking killed me. Like you can't predict it

[unstablecryptid]

[still-homophobic]

hey quick question what does this mean

[thatguythatlikesmgsandthenewyear]

Watch out boys we got a city slicker

[lifeinsillypictures]

fresh bread is honestly one of the biggest reason to be alive in this ugly world

[everythingfox]

“Came home to a raccoon chilling on my porch chair.”

(Source)

[everythingfox]

[runby2]

[only-tiktoks]

[big-pluto]

legend still has it that the man continues catching things for his wife for all eternity.

[anais-ninja-bitch]

oh, he is so tired of her shit lmfao

[cipheramnesia]

Spaghetti?!

[hatin]

you’re the best i ever had

[throwbackblr]

How To Handle a Bully PSA

[ruinedchildhood]

Cobra Kai (2018– )

[dekutree]

there’s this guy that looks just like will.i.am at my school and i whisper “let the beat rock” every time he passes me and he always just looks around trying to find who said it

[lecterings]

‘where is the pen i was using like 3 seconds ago’ an autobiography i’ll never write because i keep losing the pen i was using like 3 seconds ago.