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black sails ladies meme
favorite character trait(s) – self respect
“Despite the world reminding her every single day of her life that she’s undeserving of being given anything by it, that she was unworthy of what little she’d managed to take from it… despite all that, she never believed a word of it.”
Elsa la rose (Agnès Varda, 1966)
“queer” is such a useless term. if i tell someone im bisexual, they know i am attracted to men and women. if a man tells me he is gay, i know he is a man exclusively attracted to other men. if someone tells me they are queer, it tells me nothing about them. it doesnt tell me who they attracted to. it tells me nothing about that person.
It tells me they’re trying to be a extra lil bitch and that I shouldn’t be friends with them
No, you probably shouldn’t, for their sake.
yall realise thats exactly the point, right
queer covers everyone who is noncis or nonstraight
it covers the identities you want to erase or disallow from the community
it doesn’t immediately tell you private information about someone’s sexuality or gender that you aren’t entitled to
and the person in question may not even know themselves, but queer is what they know they can always use if they’re not sure except they know theyre definitely not cis/straight
you hate it because it’s too inclusive and too broad. It’s supposed to be inclusive and broad. If someone tells you they’re queer then all you need to know is that they are in some way not cis or straight and other than that it aint your business. If being told someone’s identity is none of your business pisses you off, thats a you problem
This is why queer isn’t a slur, and if you think it is, you don’t know your history.
If you want to know if I have a vested interest in equal rights and won’t make judgements, knowing I am queer is enough.
If you want to know what my genitals look like and who I like you fuck, you’ll need to get to know me better. Gifts of chocolate and oysters would help.
You could also prefer queer because you are more than one thing that comes under the umbrella. Like you could be transgender and gay, or a genderfluid asexual for example.
Although I do acknowledge that queer was a slur, so older members of the LGBT+ community probably do not like the word. I will respect their wishes and not use it to refer to them in asked. However I am glad we kind of reclaimed it to be an inclusive term for people who are noncis and/or nonstraight. Since I do like saying queer community so I don’t miss anyone out.
Since I also acknowledge their could be a group in the community I am currently unaware of, but that doesn’t make them any less valid. I am happy to be educated on it though, because I am aware that the queer community is growing and evolving.
It was reclaimed in the 70s! I’m 43 and it has been a word that stands for pride and unity my entire life. The people older than I are the ones that fought and literally bled to reclaim it (as it was ours originally). That people are upset about it now is very new and deeply concerning. A nod back to @21goblins-in-a-trenchcoat pointing out that it has only come under fire from people that don’t want a broad umbrella. Those people want to know “what you are” so they know if they want to accept you or not. We are still vulnerable, we should not be gatekeeping and infighting. We still have so far to go.
The chocolate and oyster part of my original comment remains true.
‘this term doesn’t immediately tell me if you’re sexually available and to whom so I don’t like it!!’
Lmao maybe stop talking like that’s information you’re ever entitled to you creeps
this is cute
How did you know you were in love with your girlfriend?
Baking cream puffs with you would be a dream come true, so how about we turn this dream into reality?
“To love is to know how to say "I love you” without speaking.“
do you have any favourite love letters from the past?
“You have fixed my Life – however short,” Wilfred Owen to Siegfried Sassoon
“I am reduced to a thing that wants Virginia” / “Throw over your man, I say, and come,” Vita Sackville-West and Virginia Woolf
“Love is my religion – I could die for that, I could die for you,” John Keats to Fanny Brawne
“I know Hyacinthus, whom Apollo loved so madly, was you in Greek days,” Oscar Wilde to Alfred Lord Douglas
sext: you’re a significant part of my healing process
so here’s a quick story
to help with decision making when going on a date, my bf and i created a list of 20 restaurants we like. 1 being ihop (as a joke, neither of us actually like ihop), 20 being our favorite steakhouse, with the rest in no particular order. we roll a d20 and go to the corresponding place
after i wrote the list down, he goes “roll it, let’s go to dinner tomorrow night!” i got excited, he got a die out, and i fucking CRIT FAILED and now we’re FORCED to go to ihop tomorrow because both of us are too stubborn to back out omg
im currently on the phone with him and im saying “what time you wanna go” and he’s all “to ihop? what time are we going to ihop?” omg he just keeps saying ihop to emphasize how dumb we are
okay but this is the cutest and most real shit i’ve ever seen.
The rolls are meaningless if critical failures don’t come with consequences.
there are no words in this universe to describe just how much i love you.
Love & Ghosts large art print ($12.50) (2 color options)
Full hearts, black as night, open and ready to welcome the undead, every cursed, wretched thing.
View in the store (link)
when you visit, let’s go on a date to build-a-bear workshop and make plushes of each other. let’s give them our voices so when you have to leave again, we can hold them close and fall asleep to their reminders that we love each other.
“We may fall but we’ll keep on going. We may break but we won’t stay broken. Through the cracks in the road flowers grow.”
Tu me rends heureux (heureuse, if you’re a woman) • You make me happy • /ty mə ʁɑ̃ œ.ʁø/ #frenchwords
