Horse figure of the day: Fashionstar Fillies Sweet Scent Sixteens "Lalana"
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Horse figure of the day: Fashionstar Fillies Sweet Scent Sixteens "Lalana"
im so fucking stubborn
michael what the fuck.
no its one of my fancy pencils :)
the end cap comes off :)
oh lard
my son he is sick he has every disease
we are nearing peak deviancy
happy back-to-school day
im so clever that its sickening
if i breathe wrong i'll lose him
it got too small for the clip. luckily i realized this eraser has the perfect holes
at what point does this stop being a pencil
And all of them together in one pic, and each of the individual pics below. Happy new year! May it... be... Hm. May unexpected good things happen in it.
(prints are for sale)
Today after about a week of confusion and asking people in real life if they've noticed anything, I discovered that there is, in fact, not a bizarre 2026 trend of "Mr Beast Pregnancy Memes" and it is all in fact just a series of tumblr posts from one Ukranian who I've never met named Petro and my two chaos incarnate tumblr mutuals who are so fascinated by the world he is conjuring that they have both been drip-feeding it onto my otherwise relatively normal tumblr dashboard.
truly like. to have a successful mutually beneficial interpersonal relationship with someone its very important that you believe that they are a full real entire person just like you are, really believe that. and then you have to successfully communicate that to the other person. and they have to believe the same thing, AND successfully communicate it to the other person. and then you have to decide how you want your relationship with each other to be and you have to agree on most things, or else it doesn't make sense. and you have to actually believe it and not just want to believe it in order to be able to believe you yourself are a good person. you have to actually believe it.
i think those are most of the. the ones you can't do without, if you want it to be relationally healing or whatever. people will be able to tell if you do not really think they are a person with interiority in the way they are. they will not like it.
most of us flatten others to some degree and we do this bc we need psychologically to be able to justify the fact that our brains only have so much social categorization capacity. if you're doing it to the people directly around you, they'll notice.
I didn't understand why people were reacting to me the way they were until I understood what my behavior had been saying to them! then it made perfect sense and I was like "oh shit that's not what I wanted to communicate to you at all, geez, I have to get better at understanding this language so I can make sure I'm showing the things I believe with my behavior in a way this person will understand and that will not instead harm them! i definitely do not want to be harming people but I was sort of unpersoning this person to justify how I was acting because I was making choices based on what I wanted and not what they wanted. if someone asked me straight up "do you want to have interpersonal relationships where you're always making choices based on what you need and discounting what the other person needs and wants?" i would say "no! i don't want to have those kind of relationships! i value not hurting people!" but in those individual instances I was ignoring behavioral communication that I was receiving to just go ahead with what I wanted.
i don't think it's evil to say things like "look buddy I don't care if you're having a bad day, I really did NOT like being spoken to that way" to dismiss someone's feelings. but if someone you claim to care about is behaving in a way that YOU CAN READ as hesitant or reluctant to bring up what you are doing and how it is hurting them, then you better respond to that by saying "hey if you don't want the same things that I want, that's okay. i just want to know the real answer so we can be on the same page. i really value you and it is important to me that you be able to trust me. i have not behaved in a way that has made you feel that I am trustworthy. i will behave differently in order to communicate that to you better"
like sometimes someone's answer is truly "well I don't really see you as a full human person with interiority" like for real for real. and boy howdy that can sure change your interactions if you can read it, right? like when a doctor has shown me that I can't trust them to believe I am a person who is accurately reporting what is going on with my health, that changes EVERYTHING about the interaction. And if someone i LIKE and who I VALUE tells me that they weren't considering me to be a real person, that's a whole different thing.
I'm not saying everyone is always telling you exactly how human they see you as at all times. but like. its there subconsciously! some people are fine with this and some people grapple with it. i grapple with it a lot. its really hard right? sometimes not seeing yourself as uniquely different is hard. sometimes you know that it is important that you see others that way all the time because it's what is true; we are all human beings. no one can value every single other human the same as themselves or the people they love because we would go insane I think. sometimes it's easy to slot someone you like a whole lot into that grouping a little bit, sometimes, because you want something. sometimes you want that person to play a role in your life that they are not prepared and don't want to play. if people feel like their needs don't matter to you as much as your own, they will not feel fully safe in the relationship, and they'll be right.
this can describe a lot of dynamics and obviously one end of the spectrum is abuse but stuff that isn't abuse can also involve an amount of doing this. its just that the amount and kind of harm it causes depends on the specific circumstances in each case.
this is my most truest hottest deepest cptsd hack. all trauma is relational. you have to regain your own personhood not by denying the personhood of others, but by believing in the personhood of the people around you. and then include yourself.
now maintain that.
that's my ego death recipe! enjoy
this bit
sometimes someone's answer is truly "well I don't really see you as a full human person with interiority"
is sooo difficult to confront when you are the one doing this because you've been conditioned to believe thats how everybody is interacting. like as a child I struggled to feel seen + understood as a real person by nearly everyone around me, and I think ultimately that led to a rejection of my own responsibility to see others as whole people in their own right. I started to assume that all my social interactions would involve my personhood being ignored and by assuming that I was implicitly refusing to see others as people themselves! So no wonder I was never overcoming the canyon between myself and others and felt incredibly alone.
Over-extrapolating a perceived pattern like that is very easy to do I think. I only interrupted that tendency in myself after fully leaving home and my social context (and growing up lol). And even then it wasn't like a switch flipped, it took practice and commitment to trying to see people as people, and the good luck to meet people who were also trying to connect on that level.
yes yes! I think most people who habitually do this have been taught that how you get your own needs met involves dehumanizing others/denying that they have needs that are as important as your own. I grew up being the only person who would consider my own needs so it made sense for me as a child in that situation to be able to disregard the humanity of the people controlling me to prioritize my own narrative. however! ☝️ ONCE YOU ARE ADULT interacting with PEERS this becomes unfair and harmful! you HAVE to stop treating the people you love like your abusive parents. has been my takeaway. sooooo many of us have noooo idea that is what we are doing when it is absolutely what we are doing. we ascribe people who we feel our selfhood threatened by for whatever reason as having some authority we are justified in resisting, even when that is absolutely not at all the case and we in fact simply don't know how to navigate stressful situations where that ISN'T the case.
call me evil or smth but . i just think that 90% of bfdi ships would work better platonically.. like all of them maybe.... mostly fireafy and coinpin..
when they got their respective moments together i was like "oh sweet yes!! best friends having tension and problems but also they still love each other!! i wonder what everyone else is saying abt this" and then it was all romantic in the comments and posts and it rlly confused me
you've heard of optimal square packing, but packing cubes in cubes also exists.
is the optimal for 12 cubes. (image from https://erich-friedman.github.io/packing/cubincub/ )
ok this is even more cursed than squares. i love it and hate it at the same time. my eyes bleed out with hearts to this.
Me trying to convince my wife this really is the best way to load a moving truck
why are you loading the truck while it's moving
Golden-cheeked Warbler (Setophaga chrysoparia), male, family Parulidae, order Passeriformes, Central TX, USA
ENDANGERED.
Endangered due to destruction of habitat and increase in nest predation by (native) Brown-headed Cowbirds.
The only bird that nests exclusively in the state of Texas.
photograph by Keith Turpin
Can't have a filler set without some bigger pins to surround them with right? I'm going to be doing 5, maybe six if I can decide on who to do, between KH1 and KH2. I've got Sora, Kairi, Riku from KH1 and Roxas, Axel from KH2. I'm torn on the third to add because I realllly want to make it blindfolded Riku...
This set will go live on the 18th since I did a drop on a Tuesday instead of a Friday this month.
He was a sk8r boi
He said, "See you later, boy"
All that effort to save him and he thanks you by stealing your board
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Horse identification: Playmobil 30 65 0472, 30 65 0412, and 30 65 0432
My Kingdom Hearts Sticker!
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DOWN IN FRONT!!!
Kingdom Hearts Re:Chain of Memories Trophies Finish the game on Beginner, Standard, and Proud Mode with Sora and Riku
Today's horse is a Breyer, but not one of the usual lines. This is actually one of their Christmas ornaments: Scarlet, the 7th in the unicorn ornament series, from 2024. She seems to be a reversed version of the Shire mold from the Fine Porcelain series, sculpted by Kathleen Moody.
As you can probably see, she's a bright red with iridescence, and she has gold accents on her hooves, horn, mane, tail, and feathering. She is very shiny, and a fitting color scheme for a Christmas ornament. She's smaller than a Schleich or CollectA, but larger than a Stablemate.
I don't own any other ornaments from Breyer (or any horse ornaments from other companies) but I was oddly drawn to this one. I do like her color, and I do like unicorns, but I think it's her really dynamic sculpt that got me. I didn't want to hang her (and didn't really have anywhere to do so), so I just unscrewed the hanger bit from her back and have her up with the other figures on the shelf.
idk if this is an usamerican thing or not but it always blows my mind as a small european country resident that yall have many names and types of apples???? what do you mean its not just red yellow or green??? why is it so complicated??? who is granny smith????
'whats your favorite apple' 'red' 'no i mean like what type' '??????' actual conversatiom i've had with a mutual from usa
welcome to the icelandic apple selection. what color will you have
okay so APPEARANTLY this is just an iceland thing? i looked it up and we dont grow apples here commercially. we get them imported and there's such few options that the stores rarely bother to name them. thats why, culturally, we just call them by colors.
i feel like we all learned something today. i learned that im hungry for apples with names and you learned that iceland is 3 apples tall. the world continues to surprise and enlighten