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[crossparties]

⠀⠀Welcome⠀⠀⠀⠀to⠀⠀⠀⠀@CrossParties

!! WE ARE BODILY 16 YEARS OLD. ADULTS CAN INTERACT WITH OUR CONTENT, BUT BE NORMAL. FOLLOW YOUR OWN DNI PLS. !!

(We do not support Gooseworx, nor do we like TADC. We stopped watching it at Episode 1. We do not condone any of the horrible actions made by the cast of TADC.)

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Our⠀⠀Personal⠀⠀Stances⠀⠀:⠀⠀—————

——⠀⠀Anti-Endo (& Co) + Anti-Polymind & similar terms, Anti-Darkship, Anti-Ao3, Anti-Harrassment & Anti-Censorship, Anti-Radqueer & Anti-Radnormal, Pro-Good faith Labels (Lesboys, Turigirls, Trans men lesbians, etc.), & Pro-(Informed)-Self-Diagnosis.

Our⠀⠀Core⠀⠀Beliefs⠀⠀:⠀⠀—————

——⠀⠀Nyanqueer 🍮🌈, Cleanqueer 🧼🌈, Punkqueer, Plusqueer, Iraqueer ☢️🌈, Para-Health 🔆💛/🔆💚, & Paraity 🛡🌀 .

[anti-willo-miku]

Endos have demedicalized cdds so much in their head that even symptoms of the disorder make you an endo. I’m so tired of people claiming CDD systems real symptoms are proof of being an endo. You are an idiot who doesn’t know how the damn disorder works.

PT: An ask that reads: my hot take is a loooot of antis have endo n willo headmates. they dont know it but they do. a guy might just show up due to something mildly stressful but not traumatic, guess what? ENDO. OOOOOH SCARY. /END ID

[antiendosoap]

yall need to understand the difference between someone with a paraphillic disorder seeking help and intervention and a radqueer. one is a hurt human being who is trying to better themselves and knows what is happening is wrong, and a radqueer is enabling those people to deteriorate and become worse people.

[anti-willo-jax]

I think for disability pride month every endo, willo, transplural, etc owes an actual system money. Amount dependent on how annoying or cruel they have been to systems.

[styxstaric]

‼️ tips for people who wish they were systems (and dont want to think like that anymore) ‼️

[PT: tips for people who wish they were systems (and dont want to think like that anymore). /End PT]

✅correct things to do✅

-read books/biographies on people with cdds. for me personally, reading and getting some insight on what cdds were truly like was very eye opening. i recommend “first person plural: my life as a multiple” by cameron west. its pretty old but i think it still represents DID well and really goes in depth on how difficult cdds can be to live with (and thats just an understatement, btw)

-or you can even just read people’s stories with cdds on the internet! as long as you arent in a system only space, you’ll be fine! im sure many systems are willing and/or happy to tell their stories to someone who may want to listen.

-MAKE OCS!! this is a huge one!! design them how you want! give them their own backstory, name, pronouns, etc

-roleplay and write fanfics!! i didnt really try this method myself but im sure it helps a lot. you could even make a cosplay while youre at it

❌incorrect things to do❌

-infiltrate system/cdd only spaces

-creating a tulpa (unless its for religious reasons, thats valid) or otherwise a willogenic ‘system’

-this is an obvious one, but being blatantly ableist towards systems. dont tell them what their experiences can or cant be, etc etc. you know the drill

[yuris-landmine]

Btw if you just say you’re plural without mentioning it being disordered or anything of the likes, I am going to assume you are an endo.

(especially with the word ‘plural’ in this context being coined by endos)

[anti-willo-canada]

Piping hot take to kick off this disability pride month, but being a system is a disability and a disorder. It disorders you and fucks you over. It disables you. You cannot be a system and non-disordered, you can only work to minimize how badly it does disorder and disables you. Happy Disability Pride month and don't let the posers get you down this month

[thediscoursebakery]

mediumship is a form of being plural. we endos uses mediumship as a way to become plural

Raspberry plastic tickle bear you can’t become a system from talking to ghosts and spirits it’s a fucking disorder blah blah blah you get the idea. Have fun mocking a debilitating disability and making our communities taken less seriously and labelled as a fun queer label. Hate groups never change.

[dic--e]

there's too many anti paraphiles in the radnormal community mama i'm scared

[pro-recovery-kaito-vocaloid]

All of the [xyz]queer or rad[xyz] labels and movements ive seen so far just include stuff in them that lowkey makes me feel like people dont ACTUALLY care about fighting against the harm radqueers are doing.

So many if these labels meant to be the opposite of radqueer are: pro harassment, or a few of their ideals end up just being ableist, or they end up being exclusionary to those with contradictory labels, or they view people as irredeemable, or they're ignorant to nuance, or they have ideals that contradict one another, or they think people deserve to be assaulted.

And whether you like it or not, behaving in this way is WHY a lot of radqueers dont want to look at those with opposing views and try to understand where we're coming from. Because there are people who post about them deserving to be beaten, there are people who dehumanise them. There are people whose posts just affirm everything that the radqueer community tells them will happen if they interact with us.

Im honestly genuinely starting to feel bad for (mainly) young radqueers, radqueers who are minors. Because the pro/rq community are grooming them into these harmful beliefs and preventing them from thinking critically or about leaving thr rq community, but a loud part of the anti rq community are actively reaffirming everything pro/rqs tell one another about what will happen if you interact with an anti.

Guys you need to understand that telling a radqueer they deserve to be assaulted, or harassed, or told to die just oushes them further into the rq community because we're just proving them right.

[hello-nekomura]

if you think pluralphobia is real then i think you need to go outside, touch some grass, talk to people irl, maybe even learn what having a life means!! and if you say endophobia to refer to pluralphobia look up how harmful it is when communities, esp poc communities, getting words stolen from then!! and look up what REAL endophobia is too instead of leeching off of minority groups!!

[anti-willo-america]

When I say that endogenic systems aren't real, I don't mean that the person isn't real. I know the person who thinks they're endogenic is real. I simply mean that you cannot have a system without being repeatedly traumatized as a child.

[crossparties]

pinned post is now all done! go take a look :)

[anti-willo-miku]

Please don’t judge yourself for your alters I’m begging you. They are not a reflection of your moral character, they are your brain trying to survive what you’ve been through. Every part of you deserves kindness and compassion.

[anti-willo-kangel]

maybe endos could want / need trauma holders for . . the trauma they may have ??? what kinda question is that lmao

the point of trauma-holders is to insure memory fragmentation, not to "deal with trauma".

"Memory fragmentation occurs to protect the brain from the trauma it endures and is the brain’s way of trying to heal." (Kylie Hamacher, 2026.) (feel free to dm me for my source on this if you can't find it!! XD)

some parts might be more tolerant of healing with access to it, but trauma-holders literally develop from the severe trauma that traumagenic systems go through. they develop as a means to shut-off those memories to ensure functional life for the system. watering down trauma-holders to just "oh we remember things" is inherently ableist to systems who have suffered so much.

[sys-advice-corner]

So sorry if this has been asked before, but anything about telling a fictionkin from a fictive? Usually I can tell when my fragments latch onto an identity cause I get that "that is literally, unironically me" feeling, but I've heard others say that's a kintype feeling? Even though for me it's not like I "shift" into feeling like the character, a part of me always does. It feels like they exist alongside me. Is that just a fictionkin experience I haven't heard of yet, or am I right in thinking they're fictives instead? (I do also act different when I more strongly feel said characters' presence(s) and have amnesia surrounding my time acting as them for some important context)

[PT: Welcome! Please, take a seat.]

I do think that your description is more indicative of this being an introject, but I cannot say for certain. I am not well-versed in the fictionkin community.

[PT: The owner of this blog is anti-endo, anti-radqueer, and anti-proship. If you are a supporter of these, kindly do not interact!]

[gyulps]

Hi! I've heard from multiple people that kinshifts don't actually exist and that most of them come from a form of introjection, at least in the system community (the people I am referring to are/used to be active in the kin community). I'm pretty active in the kin community. If you have a fictkinshift, it's more likely it's an introject, but just to be sure, wait for some time.

Usually for me when I kin someone we don't have 'shifts' and it stays in me and it doesn't randomly disappear, and our 'shifts' usually come from introjection. I've heard this is the experience of many

Also, kins don't usually experience amnesia.

Hope this sort of helps

[aka-collective]

Evil CDD flag, for anti-endo CDD’s who are evil.

-Luci + 333