Another System Blog

HC-DID System They/Them (ask)

[crystalsyst]

Being offensive to sysmeds should be your primary goal in life

[we-laid-with-it]

i hate it when people say things that exclude the disabled and then say "i wasnt talking about disabled people" like yeah you never are that's the issue. you never think about disabled people

[identitty-dickruption]

when you look at a psychiatric diagnosis and you see that it has a 3:1 diagnostic rate of women to men, it's more likely to be diagnosed in trans people than cisgender people, and it's most prevalent in hispanic people out of any ethnic group. you really do have to consider who benefits from a label that amounts to "Biologically and Pathologically Hysterical". yknow.

[remainaboveground]

hey. you. newly discovered system. please stop fucking caring about discourse. you deserve not to care about or look at discourse. your life will be so much easier when you learn to just care about looking after and understanding yourselves.

[xaocchaos]

My opinion on endogenic systems?

Literally who cares

They can do whatever they want, whether they just forgot their trauma, have a different disorder, are faking for attention, or if endogenic systems are possible, it literally doesn't matter

If you don't like them just leave them alone. It's not hard to ignore things/people you don't like or that make you uncomfortable. Grow up and let people do what they want without feeling the need to police them and control the narrative of their reality

Just block and move on. Protect your peace without fucking up someone else's

[snowchester-system]

"no one who actually has this disorder would ever consider this to be friends in their head"

we have been diagnosed for 9 god damn years. we are 23. we have done our time in the trauma mines, we have moved on. like jesus christ what do you think recovery is? you can't hate yourself into a more functional version of yourself, this is true for systems too.

[beansinwonderland-deactivated20]

Non binary person who uses we/us pronouns and turns anyone who ever addresses them into a massive hivemind. Is that anything

[ghost-of-a-swarm-of-bees]

@funnier-as-a-system

[giragirameganedan]

ive been age regressing this whole time but as a precocious and unexpectedly cultured 12 year old boy with only adult friends so you couldnt tell. im very mature i even drink coffee and read at a college level. i don’t want to play with toys with you i’m listening to freeform jazz

[forest-in-a-box-system]

@funnier-as-a-system

[battle-for-dyke-island]

selfshipping as a polyfrag sys is so silly like gang I don’t think it’s the whole self I think it’s just the one guy that wants to kiss this man (didn’t start out that way)

[mpregeminem]

unblock me. whatever i said to piss you off i was right and i want to reblog your little post

[radioactive-yuri]

anger issues as a trauma response is something i don't see a lot of people talking about, probably because it's an "unpalatable" or "uncomfortable" form of struggling. like yeah, my older sister consistently denied me any real identity or freedom of my own for the first decade of my life. based on the shit people say online, you'd think my trauma response would be to become as small and unobtrusive as possible. WRONG! i just got angry as fuck. i made myself bigger, more threatening, louder. harder to ignore. when i don't want to do something someone else does, i genuinely struggle not to just go "no, i don't wanna do that. we're not doing that.", because for so long, i had to go "okay, i guess we can do this if you want..." even when i didn't. the point is that my opinion never mattered, so i made it impossible to dismiss. and in the process became an angry, bitter, argumentative individual. and that's something i'm working on.

the point is, our brains are different, and respond differently to similar traumas. but shout out to all my fellow people who developed anger issues in response to trauma.

[crystalsyst]

The issue with "you need trauma to be a system" is it runs into the snag of "define trauma in a way that includes and validates every form of stressful/distressing experiences without just describing every aspect of being alive" and once you manage to get to the point of "oh wait everything is traumatic depending on the person and their stress tolerance" then you're probably no longer believing "you need trauma to be a system"

[crystalsyst]

The sysmeds in my reblogs trying to argue with me like I see their opinions as worth entertaining lmaoooo. I use my syscourse posts as a free blocklists, not as a way to have a debate. I couldn't care less about your "thoughts" (read: pro-psych propaganda fueled babble) if I tried.

Even if endos don't have a disorder, I don't care. Even if endos are faking/roleplaying, I don't care. Even if they have experienced abuse but are in denial of it or don't want to call it trauma, I don't care. Even if they are actually traumagenic and just think it's fun to split new alters, I don't care. They have my respect and allyship.

I literally don't care and none of your accusations of calling me an ableist (about my own trauma disorder mind you) will change my mind. In fact, y'all whining about how offended my posts make you just makes me post more of them. Your rage fuels me. Get triggered about it, have a full fucking episode, I don't give a flying fuck. If you're so fragile that someone existing in a way you don't like "almost kills you" then get off the internet and live in a cabin in the woods somewhere, it'll do you some good.

[positivitygenic]

i hope you may heal from the traumas that "don't count", the traumas that don't seem bad enough to you to be traumas, the traumas you hide from everyone else.

[crystalsyst]

The issue with "you need trauma to be a system" is it runs into the snag of "define trauma in a way that includes and validates every form of stressful/distressing experiences without just describing every aspect of being alive" and once you manage to get to the point of "oh wait everything is traumatic depending on the person and their stress tolerance" then you're probably no longer believing "you need trauma to be a system"

[dreamers-collective]

Reminder that you can wholeheartedly love your system and sysmates and still have days where you feel tired of being a system. Sometimes being a system makes hard days easier, but sometimes it makes them harder, and that’s okay too.

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

Not everything that makes you uncomfortable is actually causing you harm

[alphagodith]

and not everything that causes you harm will be unpleasant at the time

[greelin]

people when trauma victims act traumatized especially in a way that is unpalatable to them because it involves lashing out and unpredictable moods and having boundary issues rather than just being demure, sad, and consumable