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Still that same boy from Sydney, Australia 💖
time flies, doesn't it?
peak dumbass behavior
A message to the aphobes and exclusionists
Daily Affirmation 483.
Demiromanticism is not a fake orientation, and it’s not “just being normal”. Demiromanticism is real orientation that is separate and different from being alloromantic. Demiromantics are valid and welcome in the arospec community.
💚 Happy Aromantic Awareness Week!!! 💚
It finally has arrived! We have all successfully survived Valentines Day, which I celebrated as “Appreciate Your Friends On Velvet’s Birthday”, and now we can finally bask in the all the green, shoot all the arrows, and acquire all the discount chocolate we want!
I hope you all will be able to embrace your aro-ness this week! Be loud, be proud, and be your Amazing Aro self! And for those outside of the community, please remember…
Be Aware
I was gonna make a depressing post on my thoughts about Valentine’s Day but y’know what it’s 2018 and we don’t need romantic relationships to be fulfilled no matter how much we may want them
It’s 2019 now y’all and this is still true as fuck!!
idc what yall say, demisexuality is valid
it’s not ‘just how attraction works’
demisexuals can not emotionally, mentally or physically feel ANY sexual attraction WHATSOEVER before a bond is established
im not personally demi, but it’s upsetting to see my demisexual friends invalidated constantly because idiots just don’t understand it.
now that the 2010s are ending can we all agree that one direction was the highlight of the decade
cake on andy’s ig story.
5sos: MEET YOU THERE TOUR // MANCHESTER - October 28, 2018
She’s beauty
She’s grace
She’s hella-fucking-ace
Still mourning the loss of your romantic attraction? That’s okay.
Still keep confusing platonic attraction for romantic? That’s okay.
Still trying to force yourself to have romantic feelings for somebody, anybody? That’s okay.
Still trying to convince yourself that maybe you’re wrong? That’s okay.
Still actively living in a state of amatonormativity? That’s okay.
Still terrified of what your life means without the cookie cutter mold or romance and marriage to guide your social progression? That’s okay.
Still feel broken? That’s okay.
It is okay to not be happy with your aromantic identity right away. It is okay if you never fully accept your aromanticism. It is okay if you still hold a little bit of resentment. It is okay if you are afraid, angry, sad, or joyful. You do not belong less in the aromantic community because of your fear or disdain. The community will be here for you whenever, or if ever, you need it to be.
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk about what they call microACEgressions - small instances of aphobia that are so ingrained in society that we may not even notice them. You know, like when your weird aunt talks about WHEN you get...
Episode 69: MicroACEgressions
This week we talk about those small instances of aphobia that happen throughout your life - things that are so small and ingrained in society that you may not even notice them, or maybe you even do them yourself
Yeah sex is great and all but have you ever had the satisfaction of finding the right label for yourself after months or years?
Demisexuality vs. The World
The definition of demisexuality: not experiencing sexual attraction without a strong emotional bond.
The world: That’s what regular people do.
Reality: What regular people do is find someone sexually attractive and get to know the person, most likely via dating for a relative amount of time, to determine if they’re worth a relationship and/or having sex with. Thus, the results determine the action, not the attraction, which was already there.
For a demisexual, the results of interactions with a potential partner determine the attraction, which was not there already. So things like flirting aren’t really going to get our attention because we haven’t established a sexual attraction for the flirter.
There’s a “but” coming:
Even if a demisexual happens to develop strong enough of a bond with another person, it doesn’t necessarily mean they will become sexually attracted to them, but they might be more open to intimacy with them.
Personally, unless we have had an honest, engaging conversation that makes me interested in seeing you more often, I won’t say yes to a date, even if I find you aesthetically attractive; and more often than not, I will be turned off if the conversation swings toward my body or sex. First impressions reveal first intentions.
