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[konoko]

i just want to sleep

[lostinpersona]

Janku fudo, Masashi Yamamoto (1997)

[nosez-moved]

im not a people pleaser anymore im a huge cunt now

[anarchogay]

me after setting one (1) boundary

[ghostofablackbird-deactivated20]

you are not supposed to feel too afraid to make your own choices

you are not supposed to feel too afraid to make your own choices

you are not supposed to feel too afraid to make your own choices

[humminghost]

my fear of abandonment is so strong because if I could I would abandon myself too lol

[stagnate]

“I need more than 26 letters to articulate / How I survived you.”

— jessica Care moore, from “She Was.” We Want Our Bodies Back (via lifeinpoetry)

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I love the way people talk about the people they love

[sleepybluehaze]

[seashellronan]

honestly life’s too short to not cry about stupid shit like sometimes you just gotta fling yourself onto your bed and burst into tears, cleanse ur little heavy heart

[crimsonightss]

i want you to fuck me but i hate my body so that sucks

[cal0r1es]

WHY DOESNT ANYONE NOTICE IM NOT ME ANYMORE

why doesn’t anyone care

[vvhack]

[lovingechoes]

Gotta do it

[kaible-deactivated20181205]

I don’t care what news I get I just want this stupid potato dog on my dash

[travellertalks]

^

[depresseddisneyprincess]

to any trans person who gets misgendered or called their dead name this holiday season, you and your gender is valid. you’re amazing and worth more than people who refuse to acknowledge who you are.

to any gay, lesbian, pan, bi, or queer person whose sexuality is ignored or invalidated or made fun of this holiday season, you are beautiful the way you are and who you love is valid.

to any lgbtq+ person who is treated poorly by family this holiday season, there is nothing wrong with you and you are perfect the way you are. the issue is with the people who can’t accept you for who you are. not you.

[depression-healthy-carrier]

The only thing more exhausting than being depressed is pretending that you’re not

[beatchya]

Film strips from The Shining (1980).

[dainty-breath]

[cali-cocaine]

this is good

[embyrr922]

I’d just like to add, see how they behave when they’re angry/frustrated/exhausted, and if you see something that concerns you, wait until they’re calm, and then talk to them about it.

My husband used to yell when he got frustrated, but after I explained to him that I found it upsetting, he stopped yelling and started consciously working on asking for help before he got to that level of frustration.

When I’m upset over something, or just in a bad mood, I tend to withdraw. My husband explained to me that it makes him feel like I’m mad at him, so now when I need some space, I’ll tell him what I’m upset about, or that I’m in a bad mood for no particular reason, and I need to be alone for a little while.

See your friends and partners at their worst, but don’t assume that their worst is immutable. If someone loves and cares about you, they’ll try to accommodate you to the best of their ability.

[ladylike-foxes]

^^^^ This is the best advice I’ve ever seen on this site, and it is so important. Communication is everything, and is 80% of the reason my husband and I have such a healthy, strong, and supportive relationship.