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Saved Posts Tag: Posts that I don’t want to lose through the sieve that is my ADHD brain, for whatever reason.

Insp Tag: Posts that give me ideas, or get the creative gears grinding.

Art Tag: Tutorials, artworks, etc.

Later Tag: Long term version of the Saved Posts tag; posts I would put in a time capsule to read years down the line, inane or not.

Ref Tag: Guides, charts, practical advice, or other items for reference.

Art Ref: References. For art.

Lmfao, Lmao, & Lol Tags: For their respective hilarity levels.

Hinkhonk: bink bonk blorbo horny jail, no i will not elaborate except when i do 💖

Anyway: Posts where I am lurking (reading) in the pews (tags) whispering heresies (heresies) for no one’s benefit (especially not my own)

Sartin Meptim: Vagueposts about my Oblivion fics

#saved post #insp #sorry #had to make a shortcut post so I can save things and organize them #ignore this lol

dragonboyteeth

Actually can plural egg cracking (memes or otherwise) become a thing. It might seem obvious to YOU that emotions don't normally have gender identities and gender fluidity doesn't normally give you different hobbies per gender but nobody bothered to tell ME until I was already knee deep in this shit

dragonboyteeth

If your emotions have genders or your genders have hobbies you are probably not a singlet

spud-sys-deactivated20251230

hello followers, please say with me now The Catchphrase of This Blog:

YOU'RE PLURAL BOY

2bitedust

Also hearing voices that come back and say stuff that have their own personalities, or even names and pronouns isn't normal. I feel so stupid for thinking that that was normal like my whole life

adam-and-eva-too

Ok people in this thread either need to stop describing my experiences or I need to get tested.

rainofthestorm

Leaving a little collection here for people in the thread and comments. Have fun everyone, feel free to reach out if you have questions.

A Plural 101

There's something very core to our existence that we've only more recently been able to put into any kind of concise words that I think fits

Written by Roger de Camden of the Draconic Wizard Workshop Hello, everybody! This is an essay for both plurals who might struggle finding, i

✨Warning: Side Effect of These Two 5 Minute Rituals is Better Internal Communication✨

Build Trust Inside Your System One Gentle, Heartfelt Hello at a Time

Map your system your way

We've seen so many people, whether they're trans or plural or both and more... have the worry or fear that presents as maybe I'm faking it,

"suspected system" is such a weird term to us ngl. cause like... being a system is fundamentally an internal experience. nobody can really t

And there's more in our pinned post if you want to go on an obsessive digging spree. Have fun ^^

introvertedx10

angelbabymikaa

why the fuck is everything labeled mature content now who runs this app? mormons??????

catchymemes

thepromiscuousfinger

achillesinhighheels

janicemascarenhass via IG

theplantqueer

[ID: Janice, a brazilian artist, drifting in the street with their wheelchair, with sparks flying out behind them and a whole rig of speakers modded onto the chair. The back of the chair says "Chillwave cripple punk". They're in a brown halterneck and ripped jeans, with braids and metal pieces attached like arm braces. /end ID]

paingoes

dehumanization tropes i love

-not allowed on furniture. remain standing or kneel on the floor, no sitting

-not allowed to make eye contact

-being silenced immediately every time they try to speak

-casual manhandling, being dragged alone because they’re not trusted to move by themselves

-casual, nonconsensual touch. randomly pulling them closer, absently playing with hair, manually adjusting their posture

-giving orders without explanation

-giving orders they know are arbitrary, just to exercise power

-talking about them like they aren’t even in the room

-authorizing other people to monitor and control them

-being kept in restraints 24/7, with movement restricted even further in their downtime

-degrading their natural behaviors and reflexes. stare is creepy, smile is ugly, flinching is disrespectful, etc…

-putting down their hobbies/interests

-ascribing ill intent to all their actions and assuming the worst from them

blind-leading

@headspace-hotel

The Bucky?

headspace-hotel

Yes :3

marimbles

underrated tumblr feature is being able to catch up to yourself on your dash. so there is an END POINT. and you can say “ah, I have reached where I left off, there is no more to see! I’ll take my leave now and come back later when there are new posts.” instead of being stuck forever in a bottomless algorithm pit digging deeper and deeper till you have to summon monumental strength to climb out

joldfish

"I'm not a furry"

subaru-copilot

it gets to a point that is just weirder if they didn't fuck

subaru-copilot

you did all this and it was not even because you wanted to bang him? weirdo

foxgirltail

I love you being trans I love you trans women i love you gender exploration I love you self discovery

[link to the Reddit post]

[ID: two screenshots of a reddit post on r/offmychest by user awaythrowjessie, titled "My girlfriend made me realize I'd be happier as a woman". it reads as follows:

I am 33, born male, and have had major self image issues my entire life. I hated seeing myself in mirrors, pictures, you name it. I honestly thought it was kinda normal so I just accepted it.

Now about 3 weeks ago I was at my girlfriends house, we have been dating a little over a year now, and have plans to move in together soon. Now recently she has shaved her head to support of her friends with cancer (side note thenl treatments for that friend are going very well). She had since bought some wigs to wear while her hair grows back out. We were joking around as I have male pattern baldness, and when she went to the bathroom I jokingly threw a wig on and waited. She came our, saw me we laughed for a bit and she said "you know I think you'd make a pretty girl" we laughed some more but those words triggered something in me.

Cut to a few night's ago she asked why I've been acting weird lately and I just told her how i was feeling. She said "alright let's do this " and when I asked what she told me she was going to give me a bit of a makeover and put me in one of her dresses and if i liked it then good. I was nervous and asked what if I did like it would she still be attracted to me. She just responded with "Baby you know I'm bi, guy or girl you're still mine." Her words reassured me honestly i love her so much.

Anyways she finished the make up, fitted a wig on me perfectly and got me in a dress and even helped me put a bra on and stuff in a little so i could see what breasts would kinda look like on me. Now I expected to see myself in the mirror, laugh this off and move on right, but I didn't. She did an unbelievable job, like I looked like I had been born a woman, and when I saw myself in the mirror for the first time in my entire life, I liked what I saw. I probably stared at myself for a good 10 minutes before she finally asked me something. She asked what I wanted to be called. After a few seconds I said Jessie, I always like the name Jessie. She whispered in my ear "well Jessie, you look beautiful." And that was it, I knew this was who i wanted to be.

I'm nervous now though, my friends will accept it but my family are, well let's just say not very progressive. But this is what I want.

end ID]

insomnivamp

there’s an update!!

[link]

[ID: A screenshot of a Reddit post from r/offmychest by user awaythrowjessie, titled “I went out as Jessie for the first time and I was honestly surprised”. The screenshot reads: Hello everyone, this is an official follow up to my previous post that went viral and caught me off guard.

So me and my girlfriend, (Who has officially agreed to disclose her name lol) Emily, had gone shopping for me to get me outfits and the like. Earlier today i put on one of those outfits and officially faced the world as Jessie for the first time.

To say I was nervous would be an understatement. We went to our local mall and I was almost shaking, thankfully Emily calmed me down and said if anyone said anything mean to me she'd handle it, then playfully threw up her hands like a boxer lol. We stepped inside and started walking around going in stores and I noticed something, no one was staring. Like at all. I live in an area that still has issues with LGBTQ people so I was afraid of staring or aggressive people. But none of that happened. People greeted me, the store workers were kind and nobody looked at me like I was weird. I felt comfortable, and Emily even said she saw someone check me put, though i doubt that.

This was unbelievable to me and honestly I felt like myself. I feels nice that I can go out without worrying about Judging eyes.

To all the supporters of my previous post thank you, you have made me happy. Ill keep this account going to let you join me in my journey and once I'm confident enough I'll post up some pics of me and Emily too :) end ID]

foxgirltail

I'd much rather people reblogged this version of the post than any other at this time btw

anagramofbrat

Honestly crying right now. Wherever Jessie and Emily are at this moment, I hope they're doing well.

emilytheslayer

This is so similar to my wife's story I'm smiling and crying at the same time. I love it every time someone realizes they can live as their authentic self.

petrichara

Love, grief, and magic in the mundane

1- @Bluewmist on Twitter / 2- Roly Poly is Taken on Twitter / 3- About Time (2012) by Richard Curtis, image from Mita Park on Unsplash / 4- Sherri Turner on Twitter / 5- Cold Solace by Anna Belle Kaufman / 6- The Anthropocene Reviewed by John Green

perception-filter

staring at the dessert menu and twirling my hair and going "should I be baaaaddd" until the autistic girl I'm eating with says "there is nothing bad about eating dessert. it is a morally neutral action"

#spirk